My 8yo DD has ADHD and a very strong PDA profile (although apparently not autistic 🙄). She’s extremely bright, now medicated and doing very well academically. She has an EHCP, with her current mainstream school named, and is due her annual review this month.
Our biggest ongoing issue is school refusal. Despite lots of support/interventions, we can still have battles of up to 2 hours getting out of the house, followed by 15–60 minutes coaxing her into school. Once she’s in, she’s generally fine.
She says the work is boring, there are too many people and her questions don’t get answered because there are 30 children in the class. The school have tried, but they can’t seem to stretch her academically enough or give her the 1:1 attention she needs. She already receives the highest level of SEN funding.
I’m considering looking at local mainstream private schools with much smaller classes and wondering whether it’s feasible to argue for the LA to fund this via her EHCP.
Has anyone successfully done this? If so, what evidence/process helped? She doesn’t have friendship issues, is very good at sport and doesn’t need a specialist school — I’m simply wondering whether a smaller mainstream setting could meet her needs better.