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Ideas for a 60th birthday present for a politically minded father

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BirthdayPresentQuandary · 29/08/2026 06:03

Need ideas for a birthday present, for the father of some friends of DS's.

What do you give someone who is turning 60, who runs his own plastics factory, is into small government, neoliberalism, libertarianism, anti environmental controls on plastic production or recycling, anti anything he finds challenging or unfamiliar, and Catholic?

He'd probably be really flattered by a book about politics or philosophy.

Our taste in philosophy and politics is really quite, quite different from his. That said, the family as a whole is really nice and very friendly to DS, so I want to honour that and give this chap something that would make him happy.

Anyone got any ideas?

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FruAashild · 29/08/2026 06:37

Last Days in Old Europe: Trieste '79, Vienna '85, Prague '89 by Richard Bassett

I read this recently, as has my brother who is to the right of me politically, and we both enjoyed it. It's beautifully written and very interesting. It's a memoire of a foreign correspondent that focuses on the collapse of the Iron Curtain.

DeHumanaeMentisApatheia · 29/08/2026 06:50

Or this:

https://giftarticle.ft.com/giftarticle/actions/redeem/92523590-d88e-4783-88a6-a47f9a963c71Jared Diamond’s next big question: how much do leaders really matter?

(Photos of start of review as the link is only viewable 3 times. Don’t click if you’re not the OP! 😄)

Ideas for a 60th birthday present for a politically minded father
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OldPodge · 29/08/2026 07:07

Journal subscription?

madaboutpurple · 29/08/2026 07:40

I imagine he gets Private eye so could you get him a subscription.

BirthdayPresentQuandary · 30/08/2026 00:50

Thanks all. I went for the anodyne option of some books about geopolitics/ history that don't have a particularly strong political position. Last days in Europe looks good but wasn't available before the birthday - I'm going to find a copy for myself!

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DoverWight · 30/08/2026 07:33

Faber book of reportage, eyewitness accounts of historical events.

drspouse · 30/08/2026 08:20

My DF does not have particularly different political views to me but I often get him a puzzle book or a newspaper-related gift (as my DCs say, Grandpa likes newspapers and wine).

OfficiallyOnVacation · 30/08/2026 08:24

How about a design book about plastic?
”Plastic Dreams” by C & P Fiels collates photos of landmark plastic products since the 1920s. An interesting coffee table talking point piece that acknowledges the amazing contribution plastic has made to the development of 20th century modern society

DeHumanaeMentisApatheia · 30/08/2026 08:30

Gosh - it’s not a long thread. You’d think posters might have the patience to read through it before commenting …

MelonSorbet · 30/08/2026 08:36

What an odd suggestion. You know some people don't live near London?

PleaseDontAsk · 30/08/2026 08:38

Why buy a present at all if you feel that way about him.

FruAashild · 30/08/2026 10:36

PleaseDontAsk · 30/08/2026 08:38

Why buy a present at all if you feel that way about him.

Social obligation. Also, she said the family is nice, she just doesn't share this man's political views. You can be friends with someone you disagree with (in fact it's essential to avoid extremism).

PleaseDontAsk · 30/08/2026 10:51

FruAashild · 30/08/2026 10:36

Social obligation. Also, she said the family is nice, she just doesn't share this man's political views. You can be friends with someone you disagree with (in fact it's essential to avoid extremism).

But why are their suggestions or requests for politically minded presents.

Generic gifts exist.What does he like to drink / eat. Restaurant vouchers, book tokens so he can buy his own sodding political book. A bottle of something he likes to drink.

It seems quite a stretch to run, this man down online and then ask to look for a gift based on the views you so strongly disagree with I mean, what is wrong with people.

BirthdayPresentQuandary · 30/08/2026 20:06

@sashh Sorry to hear about your Dad. Missal is a good thought.

@FruAashild precisely! Thankyou for your answer there.

@PleaseDontAsk because politics and religion is what really floats this bloke’s boat. After several years of discussing geopolitical history and religion with him every time he brings his kids to our house, I don’t need to give him something boringly impersonal for his bday do I? I want to show him I’ve been listening, and that we want to continue the friendship. If ee eere only friends with people we agreed with, life would be lacking in mutual understanding, wouldn’t it?

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BirthdayPresentQuandary · 30/08/2026 21:03

@OfficiallyOnVacation that's a good idea! i'll save that one for his 70th :-)

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