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Would you let your child use wet mop pads unsupervised?

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ShapeofanLonmyforehead · 23/08/2026 09:23

DD has been getting up in the mornings on the weekend and telling us to stay in bed, she then goes downstairs and tidies anything that out, hoovers the living room and ‘mops’ (uses a dry/dust sheet with the flash mop) but she’s notices that I used the wet mop pads and/or spray and now she’s asking if she can do that in the mornings. Initially I said no because it’s chemicals and if I’m not downstairs with her (she doesn’t want us downstairs as she likes to surprise us with the hard work she’s done) then I can’t leave her to handle chemicals on her own. She keeps asking if she can just put a wet moo-pad on the mop so she can mop properly but wants to do it by herself and said she’ll wash her hands after she’s touched it.

I don’t know if I’m being a bit helicoptery or just expecting her to eat the mop pad which obviously she won’t.. but if I put a wet mop on the flash mop the night before and leave it covered in the tub so it doesn’t dry out. All she has to be is lift it out I guess.. should I let her? Or just say to keep using the dry ones.

OP posts:
Onbuy · 23/08/2026 09:23

Peculiar post

namely because you don’t say how old your Dd is

Onbuy · 23/08/2026 09:24

Actually not “namely”

the entire thing is odd

but yes… how old is your Dd?

Lexibletheflexible · 23/08/2026 09:26

Make up a water spray with a bit of fairy liquid and water and let her use that to make whatever wet

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beaglescurleduplikebagels · 23/08/2026 09:28

What an odd thread.

DidYeAye16 · 23/08/2026 09:28

If a kid is old enough to be cleaning your house like that she's surely sensible enough to use a mop. She's already said shel wash her hands. I don't see the issue.

Onbuy · 23/08/2026 09:28

beaglescurleduplikebagels · 23/08/2026 09:28

What an odd thread.

Waiting for Op to come back and say dd is 17

KidsDoBetter · 23/08/2026 09:29

Is her name Cinderella!??

ChasbutnotDave · 23/08/2026 09:30

Child is a vague term, it obviously makes a big difference if she's one, seventeen or somewhere in between.

KidsDoBetter · 23/08/2026 09:31

I am all for kids doing chores but this feels quite sad to me. I am assuming she is 4 or 5? Quite young

Onbuy · 23/08/2026 09:36

KidsDoBetter · 23/08/2026 09:31

I am all for kids doing chores but this feels quite sad to me. I am assuming she is 4 or 5? Quite young

The fact the Op didn’t mention an age means I’m assuming…. 16/17! 😆

NoLifeguardOnDuty · 23/08/2026 09:36

Depends how old she is really, but if she's doing all that already she sounds sensible enough to not eat the mop wipes...

miffmufferedmoof · 23/08/2026 09:50

Like PP said, I would let her wet mop it with water and a little bit of washing up liquid. My DD occasionally does this, it’s very sweet

MiceSpiders · 23/08/2026 09:52

28 years old I was

exhaustedandoverit · 23/08/2026 09:53

I’d let my 8 year old use them if that helps 🤷‍♀️

Momon45 · 23/08/2026 09:53

How old is she and how lovely she is doing this for you .

Iloveeverycat · 23/08/2026 09:55

How old. Is it that dirty before you go to bed that it needs doing at all.

Lomonald · 23/08/2026 09:56

KidsDoBetter · 23/08/2026 09:29

Is her name Cinderella!??

Stole my line 😀

AgnesMcDoo · 23/08/2026 09:58

If she’s old enough to hoover she is old enough to mop

Thecomfortador · 23/08/2026 10:00

I'm guessing she's between 7- 11? Sounds like the kind of thing someone that age might do (not that my kids ever offer to clean...). Don't see what harm she would come to in using them? As a phase it might not last long so make the most of it while she's keen (joke).

AnAlpacaForChristmasPleaseSanta · 23/08/2026 10:01

Absolute not.
First mop pads then heroin addiction. Isn't that always how these things go.

bitontheobtuse · 23/08/2026 10:19

What chemicals?

Vroomfondleswaistcoat · 23/08/2026 10:21

As long as she's old enough not to suck the mop heads, I think she'll be fine.

There's chemicals and there's chemicals, OP.

Shinyandnew1 · 23/08/2026 10:28

Just because she tells you to stay in bed, you do know you don’t have to, don’t you?

If you’re worried about her with chemicals, supervise her.

Obviously though, this is all really hard to answer without knowing if she’s 3, 7, 14 or 17!

KateBushAgain · 23/08/2026 10:32

But you’re not worried about her hoovering ?

Nonbio46 · 23/08/2026 10:36

Momon45 · 23/08/2026 09:53

How old is she and how lovely she is doing this for you .

That’s what I was thinking. Wish my kids had wanted to tidy up when they were little. 🧹

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