Get heating pads for your shoulders, theyexpand your insides with gas so they can see what they are doing and it seeps out of your shoulders over the post op days..and makes them ach
Get a load of pillows so you can prop yourself up to sleep as it might be more comfortable that way
Expect to be told you cant lift anything heavier than a half full kettle for 2 weeks and maybe 4 post op. This means you arent doing any clothes washing, cooking (more than a piece of toast) changing sheets, hoovering, food shopping etc. it also makes opening. Tight containers difficult.
Get some big knickers that come up to your waist. They can be more comfortable over the wounds
Loose waisted clothing works best too
No driving for a while,
Get a big ish table set up at your bedside with a big sippy cup of water, chargers, tossues and medicines. I had a sippy cup woth a straw that was big enough to last all day, but i didnt have to pick it up to drink from it, I could just lean over a bit and slurp. Also get a rubbish bin and a pile of single serve snacks.
Great idea to kick DH out of your bed for a bit. You will likely need to roll about like a whale to change position rather than rotating on the spot like a normal person
Basically DH is going to have to run the house on his own for at least 2 weeks plus be on hand to make you meals and bring you stuff for the first few days
I prepped a load of meals and froze them. Made sure everything in the house was washed and back in drawers, Set up a cooking plan for the first 2 weeks and had online food deliveries timed to arrive that synched with the plan. But then I do all of the household stuff normally