I have recently had some terrible abscesses under my arm (posted at the time). I am now looking for recommendations for gentle but effective antiperspirant (I need an antiperspirant rather than a deodorant as I need it to keep me dry too as I am quite a sweater) and also best recommendations for hair removal techniques (I believe these abscesses were caused by shaving which has been my go to for 30+ years) which will avoid a recurrence of this hideous experience.