My Ds is going into year 6 so I soon need to look at secondary schools. My older children really struggled at secondary. Ds refused to go at all. From year 9 or 10. Dd struggled from year 10 and was suicidal self harming. The pressure was absolutely awful. My ds who's in his 20s recently told me some of the horrible things that went on.
I really do not want to put ds through that. I'm not able home educate or send him to private school. I know that either year 9 or year 10 he could choose to go to college. Has anyone else done this? If so how was it?