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It’s over tomorrow, the heat is over for another year

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LaurieFairyCake · Yesterday 22:27

Firstly I appreciate this is not the same for the rest of the country Flowers

but we’ve had it horrific here (London). I’ve never felt so shit in my life as I have for the last 10 weeks. I’ve spent between £250-350 a month on electricity (portable air conditioners). I’ve felt anxious, headachy, it’s FUCKED with my peri menopause (brain fog, no words, cognitive decline). I’ve felt tearful and as if it would go on forever. There are moments where I’ve thought I can’t take another moment of this. My sleep is proper fucked.

this has to change. I’ve done everything on a personsl
level I can. Air conditioners only when necessary, above 26 inside (DH has long Covid so literally throws up in heat). His asthma is exacerbated. The dogs have had the shittest summer. I’ve had a couple of rescues that can’t go out about 22 degrees. I reckon they’ve been walked briefly 3 times a week. We deliberately went away on a cheap caravan holiday twice just so they could smile. There were endless days I couldn’t work as too hot in my home office and clients cancelled.

I cannot wait til Saturday.

I hope for solidarity from others. I want to wear a fucking hoodie again. I’ve spent every day sat around in my underwear inside for vast stretches of the day. This is not sexy.

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Nighttimenoise · Today 14:02

I had to go to the shop a few minutes ago, it's 35 degrees and unbearable, apparently a bit of rain on Monday 🤞

the80sweregreat · Today 14:04

I have become really depressed. I smiled at something yesterday and dh said it was the first time in ages! I had some sleep last night though , so might be that !

Cherrytree86 · Today 14:06

Lampzade · Today 12:42

I agree Op
I hate to be a moaning Minnie but I cannot abide this heat
The stench of BO has made be gag several times this Summer
I usually dislike the rain but I cannot wait for Autumn showers

@Lampzade

people should just shower more then and wear decent deodorant 🤷‍♀️ problem solved

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LakieLady · Today 14:08

BunnyLake · Today 11:12

We last had a proper snowfall (schools closing) in 2018, in the South West. It was called the Beast from the East. Did you not get it?

Edited

Not where I live. There was a winter around then where you could see snow on a high point of the Ashdown Forest, about 20 miles from me, but we didn't get any here. I suppose there could have been a dusting of it in the night that had disappeared by the time I got up, but there certainly wasn't any that settled on the roads or gardens.

I'm only 6 miles from the coast, I don't know if that makes a difference.

Grendel7 · Today 14:09

LaurieFairyCake · Yesterday 22:27

Firstly I appreciate this is not the same for the rest of the country Flowers

but we’ve had it horrific here (London). I’ve never felt so shit in my life as I have for the last 10 weeks. I’ve spent between £250-350 a month on electricity (portable air conditioners). I’ve felt anxious, headachy, it’s FUCKED with my peri menopause (brain fog, no words, cognitive decline). I’ve felt tearful and as if it would go on forever. There are moments where I’ve thought I can’t take another moment of this. My sleep is proper fucked.

this has to change. I’ve done everything on a personsl
level I can. Air conditioners only when necessary, above 26 inside (DH has long Covid so literally throws up in heat). His asthma is exacerbated. The dogs have had the shittest summer. I’ve had a couple of rescues that can’t go out about 22 degrees. I reckon they’ve been walked briefly 3 times a week. We deliberately went away on a cheap caravan holiday twice just so they could smile. There were endless days I couldn’t work as too hot in my home office and clients cancelled.

I cannot wait til Saturday.

I hope for solidarity from others. I want to wear a fucking hoodie again. I’ve spent every day sat around in my underwear inside for vast stretches of the day. This is not sexy.

Don't get your hopes up. They've changed their minds AGAIN about rain.I know how you feel OP as I also live in the "hasn't rained since 15th June" area of UK ( apart from half an hour on 5th August!)
But! It will be winter soon so try to be calm; its Britain, we always have a longer winter than summer!

SandyLanes · Today 14:10

I love the heat! I’m in London and love walking out and feeling that warmth at all times of the day and night. I do not like the fires and worry for the wildlife though.

Cherrytree86 · Today 14:10

Tulipsriver · Today 13:47

I'm completely with you. Strangely, I haven't actually felt hot much this year, but I'm sure I have some kind of upside down seasonal depression.

The sun is too bright and I hate the feeling of air on bare arms and legs and even light breezy fabrics make me feel weird... the amount of excitement I have for wearing jumpers is insane.

I have made some nice summer memories with the kids but I never feel quite 'right' and at ease in summer. I just can't wait to feel cosy and comfortable again.

@Iliketulips

i hate cosy

Pleasedontdothat · Today 14:11

When I was at primary school in the 70s we made a weather chart in the summer term, where we recorded temperature, rainfall etc every day. Our teacher said we should have the temperature gauge going up to 21 degrees as it was so unlikely to go above 21 by the end of term in July… obviously we then had the summer of 1976 but up until then mid 20s was considered absolutely scorching

Grendel7 · Today 14:11

Starlightstargazer · Yesterday 22:37

I can’t wait! It’s been relentless heat here. I feel so sad for the farmers, people who’ve lost homes, wildlife! We need a balance and not extremes (said to whoever controls the climate!!)

Does anyone else think some clever clogs could work out how to utilise sea water? I mean we are an islan,how hard can it be?

Tedsnan1 · Today 14:11

cowasballerina · Yesterday 23:08

I will never moan again about any dismal wet January and february.

Yes you (we) will 😂

NimbleHiker · Today 14:12

This summer has been awful. It was 35 degrees where i live yesterday. I honestly felt as though i was cooking alive. It is 28 degrees now and it is going to be 20 degrees next week.

OnlyUsername · Today 14:13

Cherrytree86 · Today 14:06

@Lampzade

people should just shower more then and wear decent deodorant 🤷‍♀️ problem solved

If you would like to go up to the stinky men in shop queues, in 3-day-old shirts with pits stained yellow, and ask them to do so - have at it.

Candleflakes · Today 14:15

We’ve got thunderstorms forecast for later on today and perhaps a light shower, I’m so excited.

Ive always thought I was prepared for extreme heat but this year has thrown me, I can’t it

Rainbowstarssunlight · Today 14:21

LastOnePlease · Yesterday 23:09

This kind of attitude is so selfish and depressing. So glad you’re ‘loving’ the summer whilst people’s homes have burned down, critical incidents have been declared by fire services around the country over the last two months and farmers have said they won’t have enough hay to feed their livestock as there is no grass for them to eat. Ariel shots show the land is suffering, animals have dyed from the drought. But hey ho, you’re loving summer so that’s all okay then. By the way this isn’t a normal summer, this is a warning sign.

This comment is a bit daft. I love warm weather so the heat we’ve had this summer hasn’t bothered me and I’ve really enjoyed being constantly barefoot, sitting outside in the evenings etc particularly after the absolutely miserable winter we had this year.

At the same time I have watched with concern the wildfires in France and the drought and thought about climate change a lot.

Its possible for to feel both things at the same time.

LakieLady · Today 14:22

EndlessSeaViews · Today 11:31

My husband has been winter gritting for the council here in the SE since 1993, he can’t recall many recent years where they have had to put the snow ploughs on the gritter lorries.

When he first started in his early 20’s some years the snow would be so deep that he couldn’t see anything in front of him other than endless blankets of snow and one year he jumped out of his lorry and landed into snow right up to his chest.

I truly believe those days are part of history now.

Because I'm old, I can remember the bitter winter of 62/63, when it snowed on Boxing Day and there were still bits of snow on the ground in early March. My early 20s niece found this incomprehensible, she looked at me like I was talking about the Ice Age or something.

We lived in a cold, draughty flat with an outdoor lav, and the water in the cistern and the bowl froze solid. My dad came home one day with some arcane bit of kit called a Tilley stove that ran on paraffin, and put that out in the toilet. It gave out just enough heat to stop the water from freezing up once he'd thawed it out.

Grendel7 · Today 14:24

hotmumshit · Yesterday 22:41

Is it really over though? What makes you think its over?

God, please let it be over.

Its not over,unless you are in the north?
South still has upwards of 30°. Met office keep changing their minds.

HoppityBun · Today 14:24

hahabahbag · Today 07:27

Remember whilst we had warmer temperatures, ne Europe is far colder than normal. It’s a weather pattern that only occurs every so often, I don’t remember 76 because I was tiny, that was the last time like this

Now this is interesting because it gets to the heart of misinformation and disinformation. Who told you this? @hahabahbag and why do you believe them?

It takes a moment effort on any search engine you care to use, to find out that there have been massive and repeated heat waves across central, mid and southern Europe. It’s 37° in Paris, currently, Spain is around 40°. In Basel it’s 36°. What are you on about?

It is true that there are parts of eastern and northern Europe that are experiencing cooler temperatures: Denmark, Finland, Sweden.

It is simply untrue to sweepingly say “Europe is far colder than normal.

The river Danube is drying up - drying up! Because of severe droughts and lack of rain.

You can find out this information for yourself so, so easily. Why are you peddling this nonsense?

And it is absolutely not true that 1976 is the last time we had weather like this. Just not true. You can see from this link that we have had repeated heat waves since 1976.

https://www.metoffice.gov.uk/blog/2026/uk-heatwaves-how-the-records-tell-a-changing-story

UK heatwaves: How the records tell a changing story

Heatwaves are a familiar feature of UK summers, but the way they are recorded and understood has changed over time.

https://www.metoffice.gov.uk/blog/2026/uk-heatwaves-how-the-records-tell-a-changing-story

the80sweregreat · Today 14:25

My late mum spoke about the bad winter of 62/3 and how it went on and on. Then it was a nice summer apparently, but nothing like this.
I loved my childhood summers of rain and more rain ( pre and even after 76)

PlumpHobbit · Today 14:28

I absolutely despise this fucking summer, the heat has been absolutely disgusting, I HATE it, it just wont fuck OFF

Each time you think the upcoming week is a little better, the temperatures have ramped up by tne time it comes around

Trying to cool the house and us, toddler and cats is horrendous

I had a toddler free morning today, so thought id blitz cleaning the house, in peace

Got the bedroom, his room and lounge done, considered the bathroom but couldn't face it, I was already feeling queasy when I woke up

I seem to have a near constant pounding headache

Cant go anywhere because its hotter than he'll

No energy

Sick of people saying "its summer" on fb posts, no it fucking isnt not at this heat

House fire is one of my biggest fears anyway, but everything is a tinderbox atm so its adding to it

Seeing these devastating fires in the news is awful, those poor poor people losing everything. If its true any were deliberate, I hope the perpatrators rot for the rest of their lives

I honestly feel like its going to be hot all through autumn and winter at this point

I hate summer anyway, but this one is the worst ever

Even if you wake up to some sort of cloud cover, the bastarding fucking sun is back out blazing to heat everything up before bedtime

The bastarding seagulls and neighbours dogs keep waking me up as we are sleeping with the windows open

Honestly fuck this summer

Tonight is apparently another tropical night, last night I felt sick with a pounding headache so cant wait for round 2 tonight

LakieLady · Today 14:30

Grendel7 · Today 14:11

Does anyone else think some clever clogs could work out how to utilise sea water? I mean we are an islan,how hard can it be?

There are countries that use desalinated sea water, mainly in the Middle East, I believe.

I suspect building the plants to desalinate the water requires significant investment though. It's almost certainly only worth it if really hot weather becomes the norm.

I do question why all our water has to be treated until it's fit to drink though. It seems crazy to go to all that expense and effort just to use it to flush toilets and wash clothes.

Queenncat · Today 14:30

Queenncat · Yesterday 23:20

Yes. The issue is - that these 'wild' fires have almost undoubtedly been caused by people. They rarely just start out of nowhere, that's not a common thing. They've been started either maliciously - stupidly - on purpose (most likely, bored kids, thick bored adults) or by accident. Fckers. Most will get away with it.

Edited

Just one example - they've caught one arsonist at least

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/c3d32np89z4o

An aerial photo of the scene, showing the full extent of a blackened patch of land. The burned homes are on a resident street, with another row of housing behind.

Arson arrest after massive fire destroys Newbridge homes

A 29-year-old woman is arrested on suspicion of arson after a massive fire destroys homes.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/c3d32np89z4o

Tiddlywinks63 · Today 14:31

PrettyLittleRose · Yesterday 22:44

No way is it over! It's over for maybe 4-5 days, maybe a week, but we will have another heatwave before the summer is over. Maybe even more than one! Even tomorrow it's going to be 27C where I am!

I agree, there’s more forecast for September into October.
I’m seriously considering booking holidays anywhere north of Yorkshire so I can get a break.
I don’t care if it’s wet and cold for a fortnight; anything other than this relentless, oppressive heat.

ChaliceinWonderland · Today 14:31

@LaurieFairyCake you summed it all up perfectly. Its shite.
Markand spencers is seeing alot ov me this week, wandering round with my trolley, inhaling the cool. Tending only to go out into the woods at dawn, or after 9pm, this odd middle aged creature is tobefound strolling only after dark... muttering ffs this is unbearable..