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It’s over tomorrow, the heat is over for another year

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LaurieFairyCake · Yesterday 22:27

Firstly I appreciate this is not the same for the rest of the country Flowers

but we’ve had it horrific here (London). I’ve never felt so shit in my life as I have for the last 10 weeks. I’ve spent between £250-350 a month on electricity (portable air conditioners). I’ve felt anxious, headachy, it’s FUCKED with my peri menopause (brain fog, no words, cognitive decline). I’ve felt tearful and as if it would go on forever. There are moments where I’ve thought I can’t take another moment of this. My sleep is proper fucked.

this has to change. I’ve done everything on a personsl
level I can. Air conditioners only when necessary, above 26 inside (DH has long Covid so literally throws up in heat). His asthma is exacerbated. The dogs have had the shittest summer. I’ve had a couple of rescues that can’t go out about 22 degrees. I reckon they’ve been walked briefly 3 times a week. We deliberately went away on a cheap caravan holiday twice just so they could smile. There were endless days I couldn’t work as too hot in my home office and clients cancelled.

I cannot wait til Saturday.

I hope for solidarity from others. I want to wear a fucking hoodie again. I’ve spent every day sat around in my underwear inside for vast stretches of the day. This is not sexy.

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Rpop · Today 08:09

LaurieFairyCake · Yesterday 22:27

Firstly I appreciate this is not the same for the rest of the country Flowers

but we’ve had it horrific here (London). I’ve never felt so shit in my life as I have for the last 10 weeks. I’ve spent between £250-350 a month on electricity (portable air conditioners). I’ve felt anxious, headachy, it’s FUCKED with my peri menopause (brain fog, no words, cognitive decline). I’ve felt tearful and as if it would go on forever. There are moments where I’ve thought I can’t take another moment of this. My sleep is proper fucked.

this has to change. I’ve done everything on a personsl
level I can. Air conditioners only when necessary, above 26 inside (DH has long Covid so literally throws up in heat). His asthma is exacerbated. The dogs have had the shittest summer. I’ve had a couple of rescues that can’t go out about 22 degrees. I reckon they’ve been walked briefly 3 times a week. We deliberately went away on a cheap caravan holiday twice just so they could smile. There were endless days I couldn’t work as too hot in my home office and clients cancelled.

I cannot wait til Saturday.

I hope for solidarity from others. I want to wear a fucking hoodie again. I’ve spent every day sat around in my underwear inside for vast stretches of the day. This is not sexy.

Whilst I hate how this has affected you, I’m heartened that others are the same as me. So many people I know say “just get on with it”. I actually can’t. My head feels like it’s in a vice, migraine frequency has doubled, I’m also peri and felt crap with disturbed sleep anyway. I can’t work in my house (so have had to waste lots of days hiding in our 26 degree livingroom). I just feel like I can’t regulate my temp at all (I am on migraine meds that allegedly disturb this). It makes me feel like life is just about getting through each day in the summer. Going to have to install air con (which is depressing environmentally).

BermudaRhombus · Today 08:09

DontBuyAnotherBook · Today 07:50

You talk about the cold but I have found winters to not feel so cold anymore and I live in Yorkshire and have rubbish circulation.

We certainly seem to be having milder winters which is another positive!

Wildro · Today 08:09

WaitingandWaiting4 · Today 07:29

No point in complaining if we, as a society, don't do anything about it! Here are some things that you can do to support the climate, whilst also keeping costs low:

  • buy second-hand (VINTED is a lifesaver. You can buy clothes, makeup, toiletries, etc. for much lower prices!)
  • reduce meat consumption (no- you don't have to be vegan, but even going meat-free once or twice a week would make a significant difference)
  • buy loose produce, where possible (plastic production contributes significantly to the fossil fuel chaos! I recommend going to a local fruiterer, if you have one, as they are usually a lot cheaper too)
  • use reusable water bottles
  • reuse carrier bags when shopping, or pick up a paper one if you have forgotten
  • although reducing overall consumption is more effective, recycling suitable products is also a great step to begin making
  • walk/cycle instead of taking the car across appropriate distances

Whilst the big corporations are massive contributors to this crisis, by reducing demand for their services/products, we can also "force" them into taking more sustainable approaches.
Ultimately, you are doing this to save your children.

This!!!!

also move with your money, switch to a bank that doesn’t invest in fossil fuels (monzo, nation wide co-op). Invest in companies which are supporting renewable energy and technology.

switch to a renewable energy provider (good energy, octopus)

Write to your MP about the climate crisis.

shop second hand - everything we possibly need already exits in the world

Talk to your employers about how remote working can reduce carbon footprint.

No point sitting around doing nothing! Stop lining the pockets of said billionaires

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andthat · Today 08:11

I’m so over it as well. To add insult to injury jury I’ve got an awful cold, so my head just feels like a hot swollen, sweaty snotty mess.

Dreaming of rain.

LondonLass2026 · Today 08:12

People comparing the temperature numbers to other countries ("oh it's 40c in Spain and I can walk around, stop moaning!") don't understand about humidity. That's our downfall in the UK. It's been just short of 30c this week in the north east of England, but the humidity is what makes unbearable.

When I was in Southern Europe a few weeks ago, it was 30c but low humidity, so it was comfortable, and easy to walk. My hair didn't frizz up at all out there, whereas here at 25c it will, because that's humidity.

In the UK you just feel wet and clammy when it's warm or hot, and that's why we get fed up.

CroissantsByTheSeine · Today 08:13

FigTreeInEurope · Today 07:38

43c here in beautiful Salento Italy, we don't have air con, but we are in the countryside. That's my best advice, get away from the city, if you can. The concrete is a heat sink far worse than most realize. Here you can actually feel the heat increase as you walk past buildings.

We visited the Roman Forum last week when it was 40 degrees and it was then that I realised how true this is about buildings/stone!!

CoffeeAndACroissant · Today 08:13

BermudaRhombus · Today 08:07

But there’s an element of inconvenient truth in this.

Let me guess... 1976?

So predictable.

YourAmplePlumPoster · Today 08:15

I used to live in Madrid and this was a normal summer starting in June and lasting until around mid September. But they were well prepared for it. School finishes mid June and starts mid September but there are always activities for kids. Transport is air conditioned. Hospitals are air conditioned. Public Office workers start early and go home early at 3. Many apartment buildings have communal pools. Shutters on windows are wonderfully cooling. Citizens are very cautious about exposing themselves to the heat and know how to get into the shade. If anything Burnham needs to do is adapt this country to the climate change instead of dragging three steps behind. Desalination plants mean fewer water shortages. The Israelis and Arabs have the technology already,

oliil4l · Today 08:15

I can understand why you’re ready for cooler weather after a summer like that. London heat can be particularly difficult when the temperature stays high indoors and there’s no real chance to recover overnight. Hopefully the change in weather gives you, your husband and the dogs some proper relief, and being able to open the windows and wear a hoodie again will feel like a luxury.

IzzyGone · Today 08:15

Some of this we have brought on ourselves, we have to stop taking away the greenery and replacing with concrete and cars. Paving over front gardens isn’t really helping

putting up outside blinds, using reflective film, keeping trees and bushes,

using inside blinds traps the heat and isn’t as affective. There is plenty we can and could do to make our living conditions more comfortable

It’s over tomorrow, the heat is over for another year
It’s over tomorrow, the heat is over for another year
Princejoffyjaffur · Today 08:15

I dunno. There's been a few times that it's been a bit uncomfortable, but I've enjoyed it on the whole.

HJC88 · Today 08:16

I feel for you living in London. I grew up there but moved to the South coast nearly 40 years ago where it is considerably cooler and there is a breeze all the time except on extreme days like yesterday.

Yes in the winter the breeze is literally "knock you off your feet" style but in the summer..... Ahhhhh.

Hang in there. 😎

Maverick197 · Today 08:17

Totally agree, haven't slept properly for weeks (months?) and it's having a negative domino effect on everything in my life! My 12 year old senior dog is also miserable.

BermudaRhombus · Today 08:19

CoffeeAndACroissant · Today 08:13

Let me guess... 1976?

So predictable.

No, nothing to do with 1976 which was clearly a statistical outlier.

SadiraOfTyr · Today 08:20

Where are you all getting these detailed forecasts out two week? Met Office only gives daily forecasts for the next 7 days. Anything more than that is guesswork.

MummyJ36 · Today 08:20

Every year since I’ve lived (willingly!) in London I’ve struggled with the summer heat but this has been off the scale. We have two portable air conditioners in our house as I cracked many years ago and got them. Safe to say I’ve not felt particularly environmentally friendly this year running them so much but it’s really been relentless. I’ve also noticed that people who I consider to really like summer / hot weather have also hit their breaking point too. Cannot wait for this to be done and dusted!!

lovingthebeachlife · Today 08:21

Some of this we have brought on ourselves, we have to stop taking away the greenery and replacing with concrete and cars. Paving over front gardens isn’t really helping

I never realised what a difference this makes. We moved to a leafier area with a bigger garden with trees etc & it really is cooler.

Mnetcurious · Today 08:21

IDrinkTeaAllTheTime · Today 05:46

If it’s any consolation to anyone on this thread, I saw Halloween and Autumnal decorations in a shop the other day.

Although that’s mental in its own way because it’s still August and I’d normally roll my eyes and moan about consumerism, it was also a relief to know we’re getting there and hopefully this is now the tail end.

Autumn tat that people don’t need and Halloween costumes are part of the reason we’re in this mess.

IzzyGone · Today 08:23

These are some of the initiatives in Paris

Key Urban Cooling Strategies in Paris

  • Pavement Removal: Ripping up asphalt and concrete in major public plazas and squares to stop heat retention.
  • Urban Forests: Planting dense groves of climate-resilient trees to drop local summer temperatures by 2°C to 4°C.
  • School Streets: Converting hundreds of zones around schools into car-free, green pedestrian spaces for families.
  • Water Networks: Expanding underground infrastructure that circulates chilled water from the Seine river to cool public buildings
garlictwist · Today 08:23

CroissantsByTheSeine · Today 08:13

We visited the Roman Forum last week when it was 40 degrees and it was then that I realised how true this is about buildings/stone!!

This is true. It was hot in Yorkshire yesterday for once. I went up on the moors for a hike and it was lovely, very bearable with a nice breeze. Back in the city it was awful and airless.

Pacificbeach · Today 08:23

I am with you OP! It’s been horrendous. I cannot wait for cooler weather.

We need to move towards spending our money adapting to climate change not trying to hold it back like King Canute!
-more reservoirs dug now!
-electricity grid updates
-more trees in urban centres
-changes to planning laws to allow for awnings
-aircon in schools, hospitals and public transport
-subsidies for heat pumps that both heat and cool

Parisienne123 · Today 08:23

GarlicAnywhere · Today 03:19

They might be. I've just been reading about sunspot cycles. 2025 and 26 are a 'double peak', meaning the Sun's been blasting out radiation on the high setting for two years. This is also why the Northern Lights have been so spectacular; they will be again this winter.

Obviously, global warming is real but I think catastrophe calls are a bit premature, in Europe anyway. Solar cycles are 11-14 years. Astronomers can predict them quite accurately.

In six years' time, we'll all be moaning about the cold summers!

Nope I won’t moan promise.

ItsPickleRick · Today 08:23

PalePinkPeony · Today 01:04

Not overcast in the south where I am- 33 degrees and full sun- same as today and many days!

I’m in the midlands, and it’s looking a lot more bearable next week.

I hope you get some cooler weather soon!

It’s over tomorrow, the heat is over for another year
MonetsLilac · Today 08:23

lovingthebeachlife · Today 08:21

Some of this we have brought on ourselves, we have to stop taking away the greenery and replacing with concrete and cars. Paving over front gardens isn’t really helping

I never realised what a difference this makes. We moved to a leafier area with a bigger garden with trees etc & it really is cooler.

It really does. A lot of people have that plastic grass in their gardens now, which is awful.

PistachioTiramisu · Today 08:24

I so hope you are right, OP, although the forecast where I am (south coast) is 31 today, 29 tomorrow and 26 on Sunday so not much relief! I too an absolutely tired of this relentless glaring sun and heat - I feel sick the whole time, can't sleep more than 4/5 hours a night because I'm so hot and anxious about how hot the next day will be. My digestive system has gone haywire (always does in the heat). We have had no proper rain or even a shower since early June - my garden is finished - no colour left in it at all apart from a couple of hanging baskets which are just about hanging on with regular watering. I had so many plans for the garden back in May and have not done a single thing as it's just too hot.

I used to be a complete summer lover, but have completely changed my mind now - cannot wait for rain, frost and hopefully snow!

Edit to add that it's just boring as well to wake up to the endless blue sky and glowering sun in the sky! We need variety.

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