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Is it bad that I go to nightclubs just with the intention of pulling?

16 replies

rnuk · 07/08/2026 18:05

How likely is this to happen
i have only been successful once and that was in Vietnam
i am decent looking and can hold a good conversation

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IdaGlossop · 07/08/2026 18:07

Q1 No. You are a free agent.
Q2 Too many variables to give a definitive answer

Ketley67 · 07/08/2026 19:10

That’s what they’re for isn’t it?

StrawberryMatchaLatte · 07/08/2026 21:11

As an adult, you're in control of your own life. Do what you want.

FionnulaTheCooler · 07/08/2026 21:14

Are you male or female?

Coconutter24 · 07/08/2026 21:23

FionnulaTheCooler · 07/08/2026 21:14

Are you male or female?

Would that change your answer?

Shloopie · 07/08/2026 21:25

how many threads are you going to start on this pulling at the club subject?

I bet you're too nervy in real life to approach anyone

DaysIllRememberAllMyLife · 07/08/2026 21:31

Shloopie · 07/08/2026 21:25

how many threads are you going to start on this pulling at the club subject?

I bet you're too nervy in real life to approach anyone

Or too creepy

FionnulaTheCooler · 07/08/2026 22:05

Coconutter24 · 07/08/2026 21:23

Would that change your answer?

Having just seen the OP's other thread on this subject it's pretty much confirmed my suspicion that this is just another entitled man who thinks he's owed female attention.

Coconutter24 · 07/08/2026 22:15

FionnulaTheCooler · 07/08/2026 22:05

Having just seen the OP's other thread on this subject it's pretty much confirmed my suspicion that this is just another entitled man who thinks he's owed female attention.

Hmm yes I’ve just seen the other thread. I would say anyone that goes clubbing with the intention of just being there to pull usually comes off as desperate because they’re usually trying to force a connection. After reading the other thread I think that’s definitely the case here!

ShetlandishMum · 07/08/2026 22:16

You do you but no I am not impressed.

EmailsaysOOO · 07/08/2026 22:22

It's not bad. Not all women go for the same reason so you may or you may not get lucky.

Minasama · 07/08/2026 22:25

Honestly, the people I’ve known (both male and female) who did this consistently and had one night stands were pretty unhappy people.

BIWI · 07/08/2026 22:25

Incel.

LadyBrendaLast · 07/08/2026 22:34

No-one looks twice at me since I hit the menopause!

rnuk · 08/08/2026 03:00

LadyBrendaLast · 07/08/2026 22:34

No-one looks twice at me since I hit the menopause!

Has it worked?

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rnuk · 08/08/2026 03:08

Minasama · 07/08/2026 22:25

Honestly, the people I’ve known (both male and female) who did this consistently and had one night stands were pretty unhappy people.

Why?

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