Dd12 has had a difficult year 7. She's been friends from primary with 2 girls. 1 girl is quite dominant, the other girl 2 seemed a nice girl but apparently not as nice as she seems. Both girls have been targeting another girl- girl 3- all very low level. My daughter is friends with girl 3 from primary and and outside school activity. She's been the peacemaker/ drawn in at some points its been difficult. Now its summer shes decided she doesn't want to be friends with girl 1& 2. Shes withdrawn from the whats app groups etc.
The problem is girl 2s mum and I are best friends. We usually do alot together over summer, we have other children in classes together. She- my friend- seems oblivious to anything going on and wants to arrange a few outings over the summer but dd is reluctant. Im tempted to say nothing and go with my other kids, make an excuse for dd. Im not sure I want to get into anything with my friend if her dd hasn't said anything, also im aware she might have a totally different story to tell from her dd point of view. Or do I just say the girls seem to be finding there own friends and leave it at that?