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New job - training style

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UserID59272626 · 15/07/2026 18:09

Started a new job recently in a new firm.

Been told not to ask questions of colleagues training/handing over to me and need to figure out things myself. Told it’s the “best way of learning”. This is fair if I pose questions which are in the handover information, and I can’t be bothered to look for it but 9/10 it isn’t. It’s a very niche role and when I am asking a question, it is because I’ve not come across this in the role before and there is nothing in the handover information. Boss confirmed they would rather I cock something up and then correct it, instead of asking questions. I’ve not really had this approach before, in any role I have had and I am pretty baffled. Any advice?

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Coralsunset · 15/07/2026 18:27

Bizarre. Is there a trade union? Join immediately.

Do you have it in writing from manager that they would rather you cock up than ask questions? If not, I would email them seeking written confirmation.

Crinkle77 · 15/07/2026 18:28

I'd suggest you run!

UserID59272626 · 15/07/2026 18:38

No trade union. There are no formal training policies.

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ContractorQuestion · 15/07/2026 18:41

“Any advice?”

Leave, if you are able. They sound wildly unprofessional and will be dreadful to work for! If they are like this with your induction training I dread to think how they handle all sorts of other scenarios.

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