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Neighbour demanded proof of our hosepipe ban exemption

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HoseBan · 11/07/2026 16:35

My NDN has just demanded to see proof that we are exempt from the local hose pipe ban !!!!

I have said to them I won’t be showing them anything as it’s private but they can report me if I want and the water company can check.

We literally have just been filling a small paddling pool daily for the dc for after school and today have a little sprinkler toy as it’s boiling.

I know some people aren’t aware that there are exemptions (eg being on priority services register or certain tariff) but I’m so shocked they demanded proof !!!

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JohnnieFedora · 12/07/2026 13:31

sittingonabeach · 12/07/2026 12:40

@JohnnieFedora doesn’t mean she should be using a sprinkler toy, all because you can doesn’t mean you do

So what?

She's entitled to use it... Just because you think she shouldn't, doesn't mean she shouldn't.

You just sound jealous and like one of those fucking awful people that merrily snooped on people during lockdowns taking nite if they dared to go for more than one walk across field a day.

ThreadGuardDog · 12/07/2026 13:34

ThePieceHall · 12/07/2026 12:46

But why are your plants more important than the OP’s children’s needs? Gardens and flower tubs are no more essential.

Because that’s what the exemptions state. It’s to make things easier for disabled, not to enable irresponsibility.

JohnnieFedora · 12/07/2026 13:36

ThePieceHall · 12/07/2026 12:46

But why are your plants more important than the OP’s children’s needs? Gardens and flower tubs are no more essential.

They're not more important than each other... but they're both allowed to use the hosepipe to water plants and fill paddling pools...

And everyone else is allowed to water plants and fill paddling pools etc, just not with a hosepipe 🤷🤷

ThreadGuardDog · 12/07/2026 13:36

PinkSparklyPussyCat · 12/07/2026 09:37

Not everyone can have a meter, we can't.

Yep. We applied at our previous property and were told it wasn’t possible. When we moved the new property had a meter and we found that our water bills were half what they were on the old ‘rates’ system.

ThreadGuardDog · 12/07/2026 13:49

whowhatwerewhy · 12/07/2026 06:21

Your Being extremely selfish, just because you can does not mean you should.
The ban is to try to conserve water for everyone but you believe a sprinkler system and padding pool are essential for your child . You sound very entitled no wonder disability gets such bad press.

I’m probably going to get flamed for this but I’m going to say it anyway. And I’ll caveat everything I say with the fact that I am disabled myself.

I’ve worked in disability support for over twenty years and during the latter years I noticed a growing sense of entitlement among disabled people, as well as their families and other advocates - that simply because they are disabled, they have no obligation to consider the welfare or even the feelings of others - including other disabled people. I’ve watched the benefits and concessions for disabled people slowly being eroded, and eyed with cynicism, and I think it’s undeniable that there’s a link with the growing attitude of ‘ I can so I will’ . I hope the message I’ve tried to convey over the years has been more ‘just because you can, doesn’t mean you should’.

ThreadGuardDog · 12/07/2026 13:56

JohnnieFedora · 12/07/2026 13:36

They're not more important than each other... but they're both allowed to use the hosepipe to water plants and fill paddling pools...

And everyone else is allowed to water plants and fill paddling pools etc, just not with a hosepipe 🤷🤷

It’s OP that’s using the hosepipe to fill the paddling pool. Unless the exemption applies specifically to her, then she shouldn’t be doing it - because there is nothing stopping her from using a watering can like everyone else.

ThreadGuardDog · 12/07/2026 14:01

JohnnieFedora · 12/07/2026 13:31

So what?

She's entitled to use it... Just because you think she shouldn't, doesn't mean she shouldn't.

You just sound jealous and like one of those fucking awful people that merrily snooped on people during lockdowns taking nite if they dared to go for more than one walk across field a day.

How about the poster may just be concerned that the more disabled people take the piss with the accommodations and concessions afforded to them, the more difficult those accommodations and concessions will be to access ? And it’s a fact that water companies issuing these exemptions to disabled people will ask them to exercise it only for the needs of the disabled person, and to still be mindful of the needs of others.

justasking111 · 12/07/2026 14:01

ThreadGuardDog · 12/07/2026 13:34

Because that’s what the exemptions state. It’s to make things easier for disabled, not to enable irresponsibility.

No-one is being irresponsible the reservoirs are 89% full. They're paying £££ for a service that's not available because greedy board members have swanned off with money which should have been invested in infrastructure.

When would you admit to being conned @ThreadGuardDog or are you a forelock tugger.

concertinacornflake · 12/07/2026 14:03

ThreadGuardDog · 12/07/2026 13:56

It’s OP that’s using the hosepipe to fill the paddling pool. Unless the exemption applies specifically to her, then she shouldn’t be doing it - because there is nothing stopping her from using a watering can like everyone else.

If the OP has an exemption, she can use the hosepipe to fill a paddling pool. This is absolutely fine and within the rules.

A paddling pool, being so small, is a fine thing to use some water for.

justasking111 · 12/07/2026 14:05

SE water were fined £22.5 million last year for pollution. That could have fixed a lot of leaks. Improved a lot of pipeline.

NeverDropYourMooncup · 12/07/2026 14:18

ThreadGuardDog · 12/07/2026 13:49

I’m probably going to get flamed for this but I’m going to say it anyway. And I’ll caveat everything I say with the fact that I am disabled myself.

I’ve worked in disability support for over twenty years and during the latter years I noticed a growing sense of entitlement among disabled people, as well as their families and other advocates - that simply because they are disabled, they have no obligation to consider the welfare or even the feelings of others - including other disabled people. I’ve watched the benefits and concessions for disabled people slowly being eroded, and eyed with cynicism, and I think it’s undeniable that there’s a link with the growing attitude of ‘ I can so I will’ . I hope the message I’ve tried to convey over the years has been more ‘just because you can, doesn’t mean you should’.

I think that's more to do with being subjected to the attitudes of how dare they think they're so special/you get a free car/free house/you're probably lying anyway/nothing wrong with you because you dared to leave the house /my auntie's neighbours' cats' grandparents know somebody who gets thousands a week when he's off scaling Everest in his lunchbreak from playing computer games and explores the Mariara Trench on Tuesdays when we're all at work so this proves that people claiming are all lazy shirkers who need to get a job (and probably go on a diet and start jogging whilst they're at it).

If people get that all the time then, yeah, not everybody is going to scuttle around being oh, so humble and trying to fulfil the preferred media image of the smiling Noble Cripple, eternally grateful that they're permitted to exist and maybe even be seen as nearly as good as everybody else, they're going to advocate for themselves and their children.

JohnnieFedora · 12/07/2026 14:23

ThreadGuardDog · 12/07/2026 14:01

How about the poster may just be concerned that the more disabled people take the piss with the accommodations and concessions afforded to them, the more difficult those accommodations and concessions will be to access ? And it’s a fact that water companies issuing these exemptions to disabled people will ask them to exercise it only for the needs of the disabled person, and to still be mindful of the needs of others.

Nonsense.

She's probably just jealous and and a bit embarrassed she's wrong about imaginary rules she's invented.

SerendipityJane · 12/07/2026 14:31

justasking111 · 12/07/2026 14:05

SE water were fined £22.5 million last year for pollution. That could have fixed a lot of leaks. Improved a lot of pipeline.

Who cares ? The shareholders got their bonuses. Well done SE water.

justasking111 · 12/07/2026 14:45

SerendipityJane · 12/07/2026 14:31

Who cares ? The shareholders got their bonuses. Well done SE water.

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This exactly. The martyrs on here are just paying for the millionaire lifestyle of a few while counting raindrops.

SerendipityJane · 12/07/2026 14:50

justasking111 · 12/07/2026 14:45

This exactly. The martyrs on here are just paying for the millionaire lifestyle of a few while counting raindrops.

Long may it continue !

Trebles all round !!

Nothankyoucat · 12/07/2026 14:54

This is absolutely a wind up.

EasternStandard · 12/07/2026 15:00

ThePieceHall · 12/07/2026 12:46

But why are your plants more important than the OP’s children’s needs? Gardens and flower tubs are no more essential.

I think the pp meant the exemption is because some people will find it hard to carry a watering can. Rather than use more generally anywhere.

godmum56 · 12/07/2026 15:05

I think there are two things here. All the stuff, both factual and what's fair about exemptions.....then there's the asshole who thinks he is the water police.

Imdunfer · 12/07/2026 17:43

LetMeGoogleThat · 12/07/2026 10:50

No, they're to mitigate for the hundreds of miles of leaking pipes, lack of investment into the infrastructure and creaming off of profits, that has been going on since privatisation. Oh, and the costs of fighting the court cases, when they are caught pumping raw sewage into the rivers.

I never thought water should be privatised and I agree with you that there are problems. But I suggest you look at

  • just how many decades Thames water has been attempting to get planning consent for a new reservoir and just how often they have warned that they cannot continue to supply all the new housing being put in without one
  • the cost benefit analysis of fixing leaks and how much customers would have to pay for replacing all the old pipework the companies inherited to stop all leaks
  • the changing weather patterns with climate change which dump far more than expected amounts of rain in short heavy bursts into systems where surface water goes straight into the same system as sewage, inherited from the Victorians, which is what most often causes sewage to be released

There is NO excuse to defy hose pipe bans, it is simply shitting on your next door neighbour when the water runs out.

StarCourt · 12/07/2026 18:26

ofcolitas · 11/07/2026 16:49

It doesn't sit right with me that a disabled persons kids can have a paddling pool out but an able bodied persons kids have to go without. That makes no sense whatsoever and I say that as a disabled person.

How do you know it’s not the kids who are disabled? Or the family as a whole?

glitterpaperchain · 12/07/2026 18:38

Deliberately goady thread 🙄

ElectricLegs · 12/07/2026 20:05

Grab some recruitment literature from the local Police Force. It sounds like a job that might interest them. Or move to Scotland. We have plenty of water up here!

Frumpitydoo · 12/07/2026 20:49

You are taking the piss OP.

southeasticelandbaileyfaeroes · 12/07/2026 21:00

I’d like to go swimming on one the many beaches near me. I can’t because they are discharging sewage into our waters. But hey it’s all falling apart because I need to water 6 plant pots with a hose because I’m in pain after an operation. Maybe if they invested in reservoirs instead of selling them off we would be ok? As long as those share holders are ok that’s all I worry about personally. Oh and dying of dysentery after going for a paddle in the sea.

justasking111 · 12/07/2026 21:02

"Nighttime water restrictions for some areas tonight" https://www.rte.ie/news/ireland/2026/0711/1582859-ireland-weather/

They've been more honest in Ireland. Working round the clock to fix leaks. Unfortunately they've had to turn off all water in some areas from 6pm to 6am.

Nighttime water restrictions for some areas tonight

Uisce Éireann has said nighttime restrictions on water will come into effect in some parts of the country tonight.

https://www.rte.ie/news/ireland/2026/0711/1582859-ireland-weather/