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CurlewKate · 04/07/2026 17:40

….I need proverbs meaning “don’t bite the hand that feeds you”. In English, but translations from other languages particularly welcome. Thank you!

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LuisCarol · 04/07/2026 17:45

Don't saw off the branch you're sitting on?

HobgoblinNorFoulFiend · 04/07/2026 17:46

Don’t set yourself on fire to keep someone else warm. Courtesy of this very board 😀

TreesAtSea · 04/07/2026 17:51

Don't look a gift horse in the mouth.

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Chesspitofbacteria · 04/07/2026 17:55

HobgoblinNorFoulFiend · 04/07/2026 17:46

Don’t set yourself on fire to keep someone else warm. Courtesy of this very board 😀

It's an excellent expression, but it doesn't mean the same thing at all.

ThisSparklyHelper · 04/07/2026 17:56

Don't cut off your nose to spite your face

Chesspitofbacteria · 04/07/2026 18:02

ThisSparklyHelper · 04/07/2026 17:56

Don't cut off your nose to spite your face

That doesn't mean the same thing either - am I reading a different OP?

KittyKokum · 04/07/2026 18:03

'Don't spit in the soup' from the French proverb meaning similar.
Also one I have heard of 'Don't poison the well' which I think doesn't mean who has helped you and you are rejecting I think it means that anything that is of benefit to you, such as water from a well, one should not poison!

ShakaWhenTheWallsFell · 04/07/2026 18:07

Don't piss upstream

ThisSparklyHelper · 04/07/2026 18:07

Don't burn your gift horse 😂

mathanxiety · 04/07/2026 18:12

Don't foul your own nest?

SoManyTshirts · 04/07/2026 18:15

Don’t shit on your own doorstep
Don’t kill the goose that lays the golden eggs

AnnaBelIa · 04/07/2026 18:25

Tip: If you ever feel the need to say any of these quotes to anyone... don't, just remove them from your life, permanently! 😊

I hate it when you do something good for someone and instead of respect and gratitude, they do the opposite. Fastest way to get removed from my life for good!

Gingernaut · 04/07/2026 18:32

Don't kill the goose that lays the golden eggs

TofuTuesday · 04/07/2026 18:51

I googled and I found ones that were supposed to be similar (like the Italian don’t spit in your plate) but I feel like they aren’t really the same meaning). Like don’t shit on your own doorstep, don’t poison the well you drink from, they all have slightly different meaning.

CurlewKate · 04/07/2026 20:36

Isn’t it weird! I couldn’t find anything that means exactly the same-and it does look as if neither can anyone else! Thank you for trying!

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palepeony · 04/07/2026 21:25

Never burn your bridges, you may need them one day

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