Flirted back and fourth with a guy at the gym. We sexted a little and sent pictures back and fourth. I just so happened to speak to one of the other women at the gym. She said I should be careful he's a player and has a bit of a reputation. I had no idea about this as I'm pretty new there. Anyway, he came across as polite etc to my face always sort of respectful even when we were sexting it never felt weird.
Fast forward to yesterday evening. I was finishing up and walking out and so was he. He turns round and said those pictures left such an impression maybe we should move this forward a bit. Anyway I said yeah maybe (given what I was told I just felt a bit cautious) I said you're really attractive to me but I just want to have a think about things my home really is my peaceful place and I don't want a man coming in to disrupt any peace as usually that's where these things go. He said "we're both adults we just treat it like sex no more no less" I said "yes but to me it's a bit more of an emotional exchange and believe me I do want to go there but I'm not ready for what I could feel after and you don't need that either" he walks away and said "ok sure take your time to think" next thing I know I get home and got a message saying "look give me a yes or no. I don’t have the time for a back and forth. You can either get f*cked tonight, my balls are full, or we’ll leave it"
I was disgusted so I sent a voice message back along the lines of how dare you think it's okay to send me that when I said I want to think about it. Yes I flirted I know and yes I felt the chemistry but there's absolutely no way you can send me that and think it'll make me want anything at all from you. How dare you. I'm not being spoken to like I'm your bi*ch and you can't just use my body whenever you please. I need to be ready too.
Anyway convo ended and he blocked me which was fine but I wonder if maybe I should have just said no thanks and moved on. Maybe I'm just fed up of men who can't be respectful even when it is just sex.