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providing lunch for builders?

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vguil · 29/06/2026 14:03

we’ve got builders in for three weeks replacing a kitchen.
We’ve set them up with a kettle and coffee/sugar/tea bags/milk and biscuits. There are three or four of them.
They’ve just asked my husband for lunch/ sandwiches. Is this the done thing; the expected thing?

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PruneEnigmatique · 30/06/2026 23:23

How can you make anyone lunch without a functioning kitchen anyway? Maybe they were joking.

Ownedbykitties · 30/06/2026 23:29

Who are these people? 😮

GoldenGail · 01/07/2026 03:02

I had builders for seven weeks and noticed they were buggering off for almost two hours for lunch each day. I started making soup each day and served it with nice hot bread and they loved it . The job got done in much shorter time and they did lots of extra little jobs for me. I provided cold drinks on hot days too and teas and coffees. It was well worth it for me and the happy atmosphere in the house was lovely. Not sure how I would have felt if they had asked for it though?

Blondeshavemorefun · 01/07/2026 05:42

How strange but no they bring their own lunch

HughJackmansLeftFoot · 01/07/2026 07:05

vguil · 29/06/2026 14:03

we’ve got builders in for three weeks replacing a kitchen.
We’ve set them up with a kettle and coffee/sugar/tea bags/milk and biscuits. There are three or four of them.
They’ve just asked my husband for lunch/ sandwiches. Is this the done thing; the expected thing?

Cheeky sod’s no it’s not!! I’m from a family of builders and they are grateful for tea and biscuits and would never dream of asking for anything else!! If they ever got a bacon sandwich at the end of the week on a job it would make their day but they’d never expect it, and definitely wouldn’t ask for it!

Thebinisrightthere · 01/07/2026 08:15

Markovenchip · 30/06/2026 18:35

I would say 'don't you have wives or girlfriends who could prepare lunch for you ?', it's a bit of cheek expecting you to lay on lunch for them, thing is would they do a shoddy job in return for no lunch, maybe meet them halfway, purchase a cheap sliced loaf, cheap marg, and some value cheese and ham (from somewhere like Iceland store), and say to them 'feel free to make a sandwich'.......😊

Shoddy job = no payment and word spread around to not use their company

PeachyPeachTrees · 01/07/2026 08:47

Absolutely not the norm! I make teas and coffees and if it's a hot day, some cold drinks. Maybe it was a joke because you can't easily prepare a lunch with no kitchen.

mambojambodothetango · 01/07/2026 10:28

Massive no. Also, it won't be three weeks. It will be double that by the time they've actually finished.

Thebinisrightthere · 01/07/2026 15:51

mambojambodothetango · 01/07/2026 10:28

Massive no. Also, it won't be three weeks. It will be double that by the time they've actually finished.

Not necessarily. Ours was done in 3 weeks with only 2 men

pouletvous · 02/07/2026 09:26

Cheeky F*ers

pouletvous · 02/07/2026 09:27

whose employer provides free lunch for their workers?

none!!!

geumsun · 02/07/2026 09:28

I've had builders at mine for months. They've never asked for food and always offer to buy me lunch from the shop when they go (I work from home). I do provide copious amounts of tea, coffee and diet coke though.

Summer26 · 02/07/2026 09:35

I have done it, yes. They were very grateful and suprised. To ask seems cheeky. I might make a comment like did you forget yours, otherwise you'll be doing it every day.

TheLovelinessOfDemons · 02/07/2026 12:34

pouletvous · 02/07/2026 09:27

whose employer provides free lunch for their workers?

none!!!

Most food service employers.

Whatifwewereallperfect · 04/07/2026 09:29

Not normal in the UK but on the continent very normal unless you want them disappearing for the afternoon!

Another2Cats · 04/07/2026 17:43

pouletvous · 02/07/2026 09:27

whose employer provides free lunch for their workers?

none!!!

Maybe not now, but I certainly remember that my first employer, BP, provided very cheap lunches. We typically paid around 5p or 10p - although this was back in the late 1980s (but, even then, 10p was ridiculously cheap - allowing for inflation that would be about 30p today).

Although not a free lunch, I recall that my uncle (who ran a removals business) always provided a free breakfast to all his employees.

Likewise, my DB used to work for Sainsburys a while back and warehouse workers in store and bakers who came in early would always get a free breakfast.

Although, to be fair, I believe that they don't do that any more (if only because there aren't any real bakers any more in Sainsbury's stores - they used to employ actual bakers to bake bread and rolls etc instore - today it's a "bake-off" operation where they just heat up chilled or frozen products).

AllJoyAndNoFun · 04/07/2026 18:46

Anglo American does across all the mines but also in the head offices

daleylama · 07/07/2026 15:27

vguil · 29/06/2026 14:03

we’ve got builders in for three weeks replacing a kitchen.
We’ve set them up with a kettle and coffee/sugar/tea bags/milk and biscuits. There are three or four of them.
They’ve just asked my husband for lunch/ sandwiches. Is this the done thing; the expected thing?

Not expected st all here, but we're awash with cafes etc. If you're miles from shops, maybe, but in general I think very cheeky

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