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Will you sign up to the new refugee sponsorship scheme?

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JoyousOpalLemur · 27/06/2026 07:51

The Home Secretary Shabana Mahmood is apparently announcing next week a new refugee sponsorship scheme.

It would allow households to privately sponsor refugees from conflict zones.

Applications open this autumn, with the aim of resettling more than 10,000 people.

It’s modelled on Canada’s scheme and the Homes for Ukraine programme.

Sponsors would commit to providing financial, emotional and practical support.

What do people think? I just can't help thinking that with the current pressures on housing, schools, GPs and local services, how this will actually work in practice? Has anyone been involved in the Ukraine sponsorship scheme and can share what it was really like day-to-day?

Curious to hear everyone’s views.

https://www.thetimes.com/uk/politics/article/home-secretary-announce-scheme-refugees-uk-lgdr8ff25

Ukrainian-style scheme to bring thousands of refugees to the UK

Shabana Mahmood will introduce a new sponsorship scheme offering safe and legal routes for migrants in an effort to deter small boat arrivals

https://www.thetimes.com/uk/politics/article/home-secretary-announce-scheme-refugees-uk-lgdr8ff25

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HumberSquid · 27/06/2026 11:12

There are plenty of women seeking asylum in the world. Absolutely no one should feel obliged to sponsor a refugee but to claim to be willing in principle but oops, can't, they are all men is a bit 🤔.

5MinuteArgument · 27/06/2026 11:13

oliviaAustin · 27/06/2026 11:08

We don’t need more doctors! There are thousands of British doctors waiting for training places as we speak…

Yes, and not getting accepted to work in the NHS once they've completed their training. Crazy situation.

HonestLilacWriter · 27/06/2026 11:16

TheLandlordsAreFrowning · 27/06/2026 11:00

Read my other posts.

As I said, some posters just want to use this scheme as a "gotcha" to bully those of us who don't automatically hate all refugees.

Hosting a refugee isn't something anyone should leap into without a lot of careful thought and research. @RedToothBrush wrote a very good post about potential pitfalls.

And if a person decides hosting a refugee isn't for them, that doesn't mean they can't still support the UK accepting refugees. It doesn't mean they can't offer help in other ways. It also doesn't mean they can't object to some of the very negative rhetoric that is bandied about.

Hmm.

For a start, I don't think most if any, posters hate refugees. That's hyperbole and why it's often difficult to have conversations because any objection results in 'you hate refugees'which is just a childish response like saying 'MN hates men' or society hates single mums'.

But in your response to this scheme being 'Well I won't do it but other people should' makes your point a little less valid doesn't it?

You support refugees ideologically? You don't actually want to support them yourself?

NewYear2026NewName · 27/06/2026 11:16

Ideally any friends / family the refugees / economic migrants have in the UK could be the ones to take part in the scheme. Also you have to remember a lot of people who made their way to / via Calais etc paid considerable amounts of money, these are necessarily all destitute.

Ginnyweasleyswand · 27/06/2026 11:17

Fantastic news!

I'm really looking forward to all the Green party MPs and supporters in favour of open borders - Gary Linekar I seem to remember, he's not short of a few bob or a few spare rooms - enthusiastically doing this. It's fantastic that those who are constantly opining on how we should welcome asylum seekers - who obviously must have the finances and emotional resilience to do so - can really put their money where their mouth is.

Rather than foisting the problem on the worst off in society who are already struggling.

I hope it means with so many more safe routes in, especially for the most vulnerable women and children, we'll restrict entry to almost exclusively unvetted young men who've deliberately destroyed their documentation, might be criminals and pose a much, much higher risk than women and children. Hopefully there will be no more entirely preventable rapes and murders (RIP Rhiannon Whyte) and no more children and women's lives destroyed as an active choice by the ruling elite - who can now themselves welcome these people into their luxurious homes.

I've always rated Shabana Mahmood as one of the brightest among Labour politicians (obviously this is not saying much) and I just like her more and more. Why can't she be PM instead of narcissist Burnham? Looking forward to him being asked if he'll sponsor anyone.

Fresdom · 27/06/2026 11:17

5MinuteArgument · 27/06/2026 11:13

Yes, and not getting accepted to work in the NHS once they've completed their training. Crazy situation.

I thought we needed those foreign doctors because the NHS was understaffed but then I learnt there aren't enough training places for our own doctors

apeaceful2026 · 27/06/2026 11:17

I hosted a Ukrainian mum and children and it was hard because there was zero support for me as a sponsor. I was left to do all the admin, deal with her emotional breakdowns (understandable for what she was going through), find English lessons, translate for her in appointments despite not knowing more than a few words of her language. That was on top of the part where her culture took over the house and I was treated like the house guest rather than the host. Of course it's so hard to enforce boundaries when you can't have a verbal conversation and everything is through typing out translations on an app, that they don't really understand and you don't quite understand the response for either. It was harder than having a child to take care of. The council has set up a team but when I contacted them they weren't interested in offering her any support or signposting to any charities, or finding us a translator to create a plan. There was also no plan offered by the local homes for ukraine scheme for moving her into her own accommodation, helping her find work, integrating her with English lessons etc. it was all left in my shoulders and of course anything I suggested she didn't want to to. There should have been a case manager making sure there was progress.

Sj07 · 27/06/2026 11:18

Let's see how many of the "say it loud, say it clear, refugees are welcome here" brigade actually put their money where their mouth is. Can't wait to hear the excuses. Oh I would, but my house is too small, we're overcrowded, we don't have the space... Our country is too small. We are overcrowded. We don't have the space. And we certainly don't have the infrastructure to support mass amounts of extra people needing school places, doctors, dentist, hospital appointments, mental health support, housing support, financial support.

WhitstablePearl · 27/06/2026 11:19

HermioneWeasley · 27/06/2026 07:59

Absolutely not. I don’t know anyone who had a positive experience hosting Ukrainians, and the people coming are likely to have needs I would t be able to support.

I did! Love them like family. Two sisters in their 50’s

NewYear2026NewName · 27/06/2026 11:19

Fresdom · 27/06/2026 11:17

I thought we needed those foreign doctors because the NHS was understaffed but then I learnt there aren't enough training places for our own doctors

There’s a different scheme for that

WheretheFishesareFrightening · 27/06/2026 11:22

38thparallel · 27/06/2026 10:45

And this isn’t about just immigration - these are REFUGEES. If I needed refuge from my country, I’d be hoping other countries would take me in.

@WheretheFishesareFrightening you expect others to take in refugees even though you won’t do so yourself?

Well I won’t adopt, foster, have children or own a cat either - but I don’t intend to stop other people doing so.

Quooth · 27/06/2026 11:23

I'd like to think I would but in reality I don't even like close family visiting for more than a weekend.
The Ukrainian system was a mixed bag. Worked well enough in the short term but most people had had enough after a few weeks or months.
The big difference also was the Ukrainians were primarily women and children.m
Most asylum seekers seem to be young men. I'd be happy to give very short term refuge to a woman but not a man, whatever their nationality.
This scheme would require people to host for much longer.

MrsPapillon · 27/06/2026 11:24

Cockerpoomom · 27/06/2026 10:59

Notice all the posters mentioning having a positive experience with the last housing the Ukraine's are all mentioning having a woman come stay with them..

Would it be the same if it had been a man???

Absolutely not. But I wouldn’t have a British adult male living in my house either. In fact, when we spoke to our own adult DCs about potentially hosting, my 17 year old said “No men”, but I wouldn’t have anyway.

But it’s a two-way thing, they are scared of us too. I was talking to our younger guest (she was 6 when they arrived) about how brave she was to come and live with us and she said really matter-of-factly “Yeah, I remember when we first came and I couldn’t sleep for like the first two nights because I was scared that you or Mr Papillon would come into my bedroom and kill us with a knife, but after that i knew you were lovely!” It really broke my heart.

EasternStandard · 27/06/2026 11:25

WheretheFishesareFrightening · 27/06/2026 11:22

Well I won’t adopt, foster, have children or own a cat either - but I don’t intend to stop other people doing so.

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It’s not about stopping people it’s more you feel strongly about doing it just not enough for it to be you who does.

daughterfromhell · 27/06/2026 11:25

JoyousOpalLemur · 27/06/2026 10:09

As the UK has a housing shortage, why can't we say the same thing - we haven't got the room but we do have compassion we could offer instead?

We do have the room in the UK. The housing crisis is complex and lack of housing actually isn’t the main issue. Affordability and house prices, people owning multiple homes, un occupied or under occupied homes. Holiday rentals being prioritized over affordable homes for people.

We are not full but our priorities are absolutely fucked.

If I had a room I could offer, I absolutely would. I know people who have, I have volunteered with people who have and I have heard numerous hugely positive stories and outcomes and very few where it went wrong.

I know one host who had 2-3 families and a single man in their time hosting. They are all still close and have such wonderful connections. Their kids are close and have grown up together. It can be amazingly rewarding for all involved but obviously not always.

I could tell more horror stories about house share and lodger situations that the many refugee hosts I have encountered.

It is a huge commitment though and not something it’s always possible to offer even if you have the space. I don’t think everyone with a spare room should offer to host a refugee but if you feel you could, it’s a great thing to explore.

Ginnyweasleyswand · 27/06/2026 11:26

And the answer to the question is no, I'm struggling enough with my own life, juggling work, caring (child and elder), never having enough money, etc. It's stressful, so very stressful.

Frankly I'd like refuge from the endless demands upon me, I'd love to go and live with someone else and have them provide financial and emotional support. Can existing citizens apply?

NewYear2026NewName · 27/06/2026 11:26

Sj07 · 27/06/2026 11:18

Let's see how many of the "say it loud, say it clear, refugees are welcome here" brigade actually put their money where their mouth is. Can't wait to hear the excuses. Oh I would, but my house is too small, we're overcrowded, we don't have the space... Our country is too small. We are overcrowded. We don't have the space. And we certainly don't have the infrastructure to support mass amounts of extra people needing school places, doctors, dentist, hospital appointments, mental health support, housing support, financial support.

importing massive potential future problems, this doesn’t compare with previous recent history of immigration to the UK such as Windrush, WW2 or late 19th century where it was controlled, monitored and largely people has past connections with UK

apeaceful2026 · 27/06/2026 11:27

Adelle79360 · 27/06/2026 10:19

Haven’t read all the posts but what happens when the people decide they cannot or no longer want to sponsor the person that’s staying with them?

My son had a Ukrainian refugee in his class and when their sponsor could no longer continue to keep them, they had to move back to Ukraine because they couldn’t afford to stay in the UK (we live in one of the most expensive towns in the UK and the mum was working as a school dinner lady). Quite frankly it’s disgusting to promise somebody safety and for them to then be left in a position whereby they have to go back to the country they’ve fled from. There were a small number of other Ukrainian refugees at school, none of which are there any more so it does make me wonder what’s happened to them all. Presumably they’ve all had to move out of our area, not necessarily back to Ukraine, because their hosts could no longer support them. There really needs to be a proper plan for people, not just dumping them on individuals who want to try and help but can’t do it indefinitely.

That's not true, they wouldn't have been left destitute if the sponsorship broke down. The council would have housed them in temporary accomodation and had a duty of care to support with housing from then onwards, just like any other family facing eviction or homelessness. They obviously went back out of choice if they didn't like the idea of temporary accomodation. Many did go home to the west of Ukraine, because it wasn't what they imagined over here and they didn't like being asked to work by the job centre. (I'm not saying this was your Ukrainian's reason, just giving an example I experienced a lot). I know this because I was a sponsor and was in a lot of groups where we spoke about our experiences as hosts.

5MinuteArgument · 27/06/2026 11:27

Fresdom · 27/06/2026 11:17

I thought we needed those foreign doctors because the NHS was understaffed but then I learnt there aren't enough training places for our own doctors

We train lots of doctors every year who then can't get places to work in the NHS because, unlike in many countries, the NHS makes our doctors compete with applicants internationally. Crazy.

HonestLilacWriter · 27/06/2026 11:28

SadSandwich · 27/06/2026 08:36

I think it’s a great idea. Most of those folks claiming asylum have a claim becuase they have family members in the UK but the present system sees them kicked into the detention system. This sounds like a sensible route to enable those with family connections to be cared for through existing networks - providing a support network through family and wider community and an opportunity to disperse refugee communities throughout the country rather than have everyone living in barracks or hotels. I think is a dignified solution all round.

Only about 20 to 25% of asylum claims are for dependants or family members of a main applicant so not 'most of these folks'.

The overwhelming majority of asylum claims are lone men with no ties to the UK

ToiletKaren · 27/06/2026 11:28

Lugol · 27/06/2026 10:35

How many will you be housing?

Pp said "we don't want them here" I am pointing out many people do want us to fulfill our commitment under the UDHR to accept refugees.
I live in a country that operates social policies - wanting to support single mothers doesn't mean giving them a room in my house, wanting to support the elderly doesn't mean giving them a room in my house, wanting to support homeless people doesn't mean giving them a room in my house. So it's a daft "gotcha" to say you can't support refugees if you don't want to bring one into your own home to live.

oncemoreuntothebeachdearfriends · 27/06/2026 11:32

I wonder how many S.M. will take in ?

Ginnyweasleyswand · 27/06/2026 11:33

ToiletKaren · 27/06/2026 11:28

Pp said "we don't want them here" I am pointing out many people do want us to fulfill our commitment under the UDHR to accept refugees.
I live in a country that operates social policies - wanting to support single mothers doesn't mean giving them a room in my house, wanting to support the elderly doesn't mean giving them a room in my house, wanting to support homeless people doesn't mean giving them a room in my house. So it's a daft "gotcha" to say you can't support refugees if you don't want to bring one into your own home to live.

Well I can tell you from experience that the elderly who've lived here their whole lives and worked their whole lives aren't getting the help they need. Instead we're paying 500k a year per unvetted male illegal immigrant who often have paid a lot of money to get here because they know they can scam the system. Young men commit more crime than women plus getting rid of your documents suggests there is something to hide. That could go to children going hungry, That could go to helping raped women rebuild their lives. There schools that can't operate properly and elderly people currently left in their own faeces for days.

We do not have the money, as a country right now, to support these men. Them taking up so many resources does mean others go without - I've seen it with my own eyes. But the elderly aren't strong, often can't speak up and most importantly aren't the pet project of the ruling elite. No-one cares about them.

Sunglade · 27/06/2026 11:33

No, a good proportion of the UK population has seen a massive decline in their living standards, job opportunities etc. Young people are facing a future without stable employment or the hope of ever having a home or family of their own. This isn't a choice it's the result of exploitative economics.
We don't need to cram more needy people onto this island, it's all purely to artificially keep properly prices high to fill the pockets of landlords with taxpayer's money. How about we invest that money on making this place a decent place to actually live? Making sure young people have some sort of reason to aspire to do well, since at the moment there is nothing to motivate them, knowing they will never be able to have what the previous generation had etc etc.

I mean, what a shithole.

Icanseeasquirrel · 27/06/2026 11:34

Great idea as an ALTERNATIVE to illegal migration by huge groups of self selected young men. We have some capacity to offer support to refugees but all that capacity is drowned by the people who just ignore the law.
The illegals won’t stop coming as it’s big business now. So no. Those men have taken the places that should rightfully go to families, women and children.

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