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What's the worst place you've ever been in the UK?

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In2mindsss · Yesterday 22:47

Ill go first.

Morecambe. Nice views but proper creepy.

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HoppityBun · Today 12:34

Jennalong · Today 10:54

I think you've just wrote about the majority of all town centres with that description .

I think this is right, but the moaning on my local Nextdoor is bizarre. They see nothing good, though there are plenty of things around that are great, plus - and this is the relevant part in respect of your post- they really don’t understand that this isn’t particular to our town, it’s a national if not a global problem

SqueakyFromme · Today 12:34

Jellyworms · Today 12:33

Boscombe in bournemouth. I was so shocked. It was like one of those meth towns you see on the tv in America.

Known as Boz Vegas to the locals. My colleague moved there and her car insurance increased a lot.

Lentilcakes · Today 12:35

Also Stevenage - not the old part near the station, but the ‘new’ - bad shopping centre and bad vibes all round.

rhubarbcustardrhubarb · Today 12:36

Jujubeansjo · Today 11:55

Enjoying the thread.

Chester is lovely, if a tiny bit shallow and soulless.

I had a strange experience in Shropshire countryside, felt oddly claustrophobic even though I was in fresh air. Felt like that all week of our lodge holiday and was relieved to leave. Very odd.

Birmingham is my home town. Its nothing like It was in the 90s. It was always very working class and rough round the edges, but in a good way. Now though, it's like it's been taken over by zombies. Its scary and disjointed. It makes me really really sad. I used to go shopping on my own at 14 in the city centre and never felt unsafe (and my mum let me!) Most grown women can feel a bit unsafe in the city centre now. There are still some nice enough parts outside of the centre like Sutton Coldfield and Four Oaks, Harbourne and Kings Heath are the trendy parts these days but on the whole its not a great place anymore.

I am hoping not to see too much more of Lincolnshire on here, I've booked some time away in Mablethorpe, Louth and Sutton on sea and hope they aren't mentioned soon 🤣🤣

I get that as someone who lives in the West Midlands. Seems like we have to pretend the Roma aren't a huge pain in the arse even though we gave lived in harmony with people from all over the world for over 80 years and have embraced and shared each other's cultures

Jellyworms · Today 12:36

SqueakyFromme · Today 12:34

Known as Boz Vegas to the locals. My colleague moved there and her car insurance increased a lot.

We had no idea and booked a b&b there! We are from London and we were shocked. Lol

IlikebigboatsandIcannotlie · Today 12:36

Forestgreenblue · Today 12:33

Drive a lot for work - the entire North of the country. By far Bradford is the worst. It’s like driving through a third world country

The entire north?
Even Durham /Ilkley/York/ the dales/ Cumbria/ Northumberland.....

I can only assume you visit very particular pockets of the north .

I don't disagree that Bradford is grim but there are plenty of grim places in the south too

CheesyBeanos · Today 12:37

Kinlochleven. I've never been creeped out by anywhere before and this place just had bad vibes.

SqueakyFromme · Today 12:37

Jellyworms · Today 12:36

We had no idea and booked a b&b there! We are from London and we were shocked. Lol

I’m sorry that happened to you. The beach is lovely though.

AmadeustheAlpaca · Today 12:38

feellikeanalien · Today 10:17

I am old but my memories of Wick include Fred Shearer's department store with the huge teddy that used to stand on the stairs and Cabrelli's cafe where mum used to take us for a treat.
Both sadly gone now.

I'm old too and I remember Dunnett's shoe shop and the pediscope which took X rays of your feet (!!!) In the shoe shop. It was administered by one of the sales assistants. The actual device is now in the Heritage Museum.
I've been to Cabrelli's cafe for chips a very long time ago.It was my Saturday treat as well.
No one seems to have taken over the old Woolworths building which is such a shame. Wick was a lively place many years ago, it's a shadow of itself now. Though I would thoroughly recommend Wickers Wotld cafe at the harbour, big platefuls of tasty homemade food. I have no affiliation to them, I've just had some good lunches thete.

Lentilcakes · Today 12:39

BountifulPantry · Today 11:54

London Euston station. Currently there. Horrific.

It’s a horrible station!

igelkott2026 · Today 12:41

springintospring26 · Today 07:59

Isle of Sheppey, every bit of it. Horrible place and I get a feeling like a drop in my stomach when I start the drive over the bridge on the occasions I need to go there. The main town of Sheerness is probably the most depressing town and the surrounding areas not much better. Plus there’s three prisons

I used to get the ferry from Sheerness to Vlissingen back in the day and thought Sheerness was a poor advert for the UK.

Same with Ramsgate when it had the link to Ostende.

But I guess port towns are industrial and not very pretty (though Dieppe is quite nice).

igelkott2026 · Today 12:43

Lentilcakes · Today 12:39

It’s a horrible station!

I agree. It's funny how London stations have different vibes and demographics and feel very different to each other.

ArabellaScott · Today 12:44

CarraghInish · Yesterday 23:01

Ooh oh oh

Always makes me think of 'Slough of Despond'

PilotingAWail · Today 12:46

Blackpool was run down in 90s. I don't believe its got better since.
I didn't enjoy Bristol.
It may have been different if I hadn't been alone, but I didn't feel comfortable eating out alone in the evening and was very pleasantly surprised to find the hotel (inexpensive) restaurant had a great chef.
If you're a tourist, you wouldn't see them, but there are parts of Edinburgh that I wouldn't go to.
I expect most people feel like that about areas where they live though

LakieLady · Today 12:48

Heartbroken38 · Yesterday 22:53

Thornton heath

I was going to say Croydon, but I considered Thornton Heath. I lived in Croydon for the first half of my life, but mostly close to the Thornton Heath border.

It was grim when I moved away 35 years ago, and have in-laws who still live there. I'm told that the police call the area approximately between Selhurst and West Croydon stations "Stab City" now.

Advocodo · Today 12:49

Raven08 · Yesterday 23:23

Stoke
Norfolk
Blackpool
Derby

What’s wrong with Norfolk?

WilfredsPies · Today 12:50

70isaLimitNotaTarget · Today 09:52

Romford is a rose between two thorns .
What's wrong with Romford?

Did you ever see that programme with Ross Noble where he went to various places and did various things? He’d gone somewhere and a person said that it was one of the most inhospitable places on earth. Ross replied ‘You’ve obviously never been to Romford’ 😁

notnorman · Today 12:50

Jujubeansjo · Today 11:55

Enjoying the thread.

Chester is lovely, if a tiny bit shallow and soulless.

I had a strange experience in Shropshire countryside, felt oddly claustrophobic even though I was in fresh air. Felt like that all week of our lodge holiday and was relieved to leave. Very odd.

Birmingham is my home town. Its nothing like It was in the 90s. It was always very working class and rough round the edges, but in a good way. Now though, it's like it's been taken over by zombies. Its scary and disjointed. It makes me really really sad. I used to go shopping on my own at 14 in the city centre and never felt unsafe (and my mum let me!) Most grown women can feel a bit unsafe in the city centre now. There are still some nice enough parts outside of the centre like Sutton Coldfield and Four Oaks, Harbourne and Kings Heath are the trendy parts these days but on the whole its not a great place anymore.

I am hoping not to see too much more of Lincolnshire on here, I've booked some time away in Mablethorpe, Louth and Sutton on sea and hope they aren't mentioned soon 🤣🤣

I also find Shropshire weird. Bridgnorth is definitely weird. Lovely, clean, interesting shops- but feels weird.

Failedcrunchymum · Today 12:51

Portsmouth. I lived there for work for several years. I think people who visit tend to stick to Gunwharf Quays and the Harbour, but never really see the town centre or the residential areas around it. I've lived in other dodgy places but I never saw as much scary stuff or felt as much hopelessness as I did living in the centre.

ginasevern · Today 12:52

Ricecrispiesatsix · Yesterday 22:55

Pilning

Surprised you didn't say Severn Beach. Pilning isn't "pretty" but I've seen a lot worse. Mind you, they are building all those giant warehouses now with unrestricted planning permission.

CoffeeCantata · Today 12:54

Favouritefruits · Today 08:26

I hate these kind of threads, it’s basically bashing the whole of the north! No wonder we are all peed off and annoyed everything is London centric! There’s so much deprivation because we don’t get the funding.

its just a thread about laughing at all the ‘poor northern people’ in their horrible towns! We can’t all afford to live in fancy areas but we have feelings!

I absolutely agree that just sneering at deprived areas is tasteless and frankly very dim.

But I don't think that's what most people are doing here. Most pps get that it's meant to be subjective so even some beautiful places are being mentioned.

I'm from the north and I know most of 'The North' is lovely - but as another pp said, 'Sssshh! - don't tell them!'

I'm fascinated by architecture and culture and I think what we're mostly condemning are 3 things:

  • appalling post-war architecture, especially Brutalism and the ripping out of historic town centres to build horrible, generic, could-be-anywhere shopping malls (now largely being abandoned due to economic decline and online shopping.
  • the lack of investment in infrastructure - maybe worse in the north? - producing private wealth and public squalor, to quote someone.
  • the lack of civic pride in towns, ignorance about their history, indifference to their old buildings and industries and less community activities than perhaps a generation or two ago. Is this due to poor education? Only wanting to watch Netflix rather than join a club or a night-school class (mostly gone now!)?
Just my theories because, reading this, it is disturbing the number of UK towns which seem to be in terminal decline!
CoffeeCantata · Today 12:56

notnorman · Today 12:50

I also find Shropshire weird. Bridgnorth is definitely weird. Lovely, clean, interesting shops- but feels weird.

I love Shropshire and Shrewsbury is very nice. But I sort of know what you mean about Bridgnorth! I got funny vibes there too.

BillieWiper · Today 12:58

I don't think I've ever been anywhere really awful. I'd say Telford is pretty charmless, at least it was in the 80s. But most places are just houses/flats and same old chain shops.

Somewhere like Galleons Reach in London is a bit nothing. It's just tall buildings and a shopping complex. Like no pedestrians or things to look at if you were a pedestrian.

CoffeeCantata · Today 13:00

If there's one thing which puts me off a town and I think is a sign of urban decay, it's graffiti everywhere. I find it deeply depressing.

I'm not getting into an argument about whether it's art or not. Yes, it's clearly art. I just don't want if on beautiful brick, stone and wood and I don't want it shoved in my face everywhere, whether I want it or not.

Sure, some of the graffiti-ers are talented but I wish they wouldn't deface buildings with their designs.

Apparently Berlin is just covered in it.

Moveoverdarlin · Today 13:04

Bridlington.

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