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Obsolete words or phrases

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CharliesAngles · 17/06/2026 15:36

MIL said so and so came from a "well-to-do" family.
Made me think I don't know when I last heard that phrase being used (probably also in conversation with MIL 😄)

Are there any words or phrases you've recently heard and thought oh I haven't heard that in donkey's years!

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IdenticalHandTwin · 20/06/2026 19:42

My Scottish friend today talked about someone having a 'bidey-in'. Hadn't heard that for years 😂

HiZev · 20/06/2026 20:00

IdenticalHandTwin · 20/06/2026 19:42

My Scottish friend today talked about someone having a 'bidey-in'. Hadn't heard that for years 😂

Edited

Id almost forgotten this phrase! My mum used to talk about bidey ins!

IdenticalHandTwin · 20/06/2026 20:07

HiZev · 20/06/2026 20:00

Id almost forgotten this phrase! My mum used to talk about bidey ins!

It was always mentioned in a disapproving tone wasn't it! 🤣

'Ronnie's got himself a bidey in'

CharliesAngles · 20/06/2026 20:09

@IdenticalHandTwin

@HiZev
What does it mean?
This is a totally new one to me!

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IdenticalHandTwin · 20/06/2026 20:16

CharliesAngles · 20/06/2026 20:09

@IdenticalHandTwin

@HiZev
What does it mean?
This is a totally new one to me!

It's when a man leaves/kicks out his wife and moves a new woman into his house. She's known as the bidey in, usually causes a huge scandal in the village 😵😅

Cobrakainerd · 20/06/2026 20:20

It's was such a gay day! Meaning a lovely, cheerful day!

IdenticalHandTwin · 20/06/2026 20:27

Cobrakainerd · 20/06/2026 20:20

It's was such a gay day! Meaning a lovely, cheerful day!

And 'Shut that door' 😉

CharliesAngles · 20/06/2026 20:46

IdenticalHandTwin · 20/06/2026 20:16

It's when a man leaves/kicks out his wife and moves a new woman into his house. She's known as the bidey in, usually causes a huge scandal in the village 😵😅

Oooh scandalous!
That'll set off the MN pearl clutchers 😂

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somewhereintheworld · 20/06/2026 21:06

Crikey
Blimey
And tuppence for a particular body part!

SolveMyPrombles · 20/06/2026 21:13

My DSis said someone was 'having it off' with someone else and I hadn't heard that for ages!

B1anche · 20/06/2026 21:16

SolveMyPrombles · 20/06/2026 21:13

My DSis said someone was 'having it off' with someone else and I hadn't heard that for ages!

😂 Oh I'd forgotten that one! Also "bonking"!

HiZev · 20/06/2026 21:36

IdenticalHandTwin · 20/06/2026 20:07

It was always mentioned in a disapproving tone wasn't it! 🤣

'Ronnie's got himself a bidey in'

Edited

Yes! Very disapproving and also usually someone I had very little to no knowledge of. As in "you mind Betty's niece who stays at Dunfermline? Well her neighbour has a bidey in the noo".

ConstanzeMozart · 21/06/2026 10:04

IdenticalHandTwin · 20/06/2026 20:16

It's when a man leaves/kicks out his wife and moves a new woman into his house. She's known as the bidey in, usually causes a huge scandal in the village 😵😅

Is it necessarily when someone has replaced a partner with a new one? I’ve always heard it used more generally, as a term for people who are cohabiting, whatever the history leading up to it!

Iarthar · 21/06/2026 10:20

ConstanzeMozart · 21/06/2026 10:04

Is it necessarily when someone has replaced a partner with a new one? I’ve always heard it used more generally, as a term for people who are cohabiting, whatever the history leading up to it!

Yes, I thought ‘bidey in’ was just a neutral expression for someone you’re living with.

HiZev · 22/06/2026 09:25

My mum uses it as an expression for anyone you're living with that you're not married to. This is still a scandal to her (because she's moderately derangedly catholic).

rumred · 22/06/2026 09:45

Keks - trousers
Fizog- face
Twerp- fool
Bugger me - well I never

I still use them but rarely hear them otherwise.

Manzana · 22/06/2026 11:26

I came across Hodgepodge in a scientific paper recently and it stuck me at the time I've not heard that term for a while, and I like the saying

OttersOnAPlane · 22/06/2026 11:35

rumred · 22/06/2026 09:45

Keks - trousers
Fizog- face
Twerp- fool
Bugger me - well I never

I still use them but rarely hear them otherwise.

I say Twerp as well. See also dipstick, dingbat, and twonk.

Elbowpatch · 22/06/2026 11:56

somewhereintheworld · 20/06/2026 21:06

Crikey
Blimey
And tuppence for a particular body part!

Edited

Heard both used the in the last week. Crikey by a 22 year old.

Tingledtangled · 22/06/2026 12:41

OttersOnAPlane · 22/06/2026 11:35

I say Twerp as well. See also dipstick, dingbat, and twonk.

Aren’t dingbats those visual word puzzles that often come up in table quizzes?

AlgaeDreams · 22/06/2026 12:47

I only read page 1 and none are obselete, but a word (used as an insult) that I haven't heard since a child is:

Pranny.

🤣 I don't know why it makes me laugh, it's hardly the worst put down.

AlgaeDreams · 22/06/2026 12:48

Elbowpatch · 22/06/2026 11:56

Heard both used the in the last week. Crikey by a 22 year old.

Crikey and blimey are part of daily language. I guess it's a regional thing.

AlgaeDreams · 22/06/2026 12:51

Interesting 'fact' according to my Mum is that she always got told off for saying "cor blimey! " because it originated from the phrase "God blind me!"
Makes sense to me.

AlgaeDreams · 22/06/2026 12:53

IdenticalHandTwin · 20/06/2026 20:27

And 'Shut that door' 😉

Ooh Larry!

B1anche · 22/06/2026 12:53

AlgaeDreams · 22/06/2026 12:47

I only read page 1 and none are obselete, but a word (used as an insult) that I haven't heard since a child is:

Pranny.

🤣 I don't know why it makes me laugh, it's hardly the worst put down.

😂 That is a blast from the past! I don't even know what it what it means but often heard it thrown around as an insult in tbe 80s, usually when someone had done something stupid ("You pranny").