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I thought it wasn’t about race 🤔

46 replies

Jellox · 08/06/2026 17:40

I’m just laughing at how pathetic some of the right winged idiots are.

How quickly many of them are turning on Henry Nowak now that they’re seeing most of his social media posts with his friends and family - many of whom are not white or are of different religions.

So many of them have quickly lost their apparent sympathy now they know he can’t used as their racist poster boy.

His family are having to deal with racist abuse on their SM as they’re not all white - but I thought this wasn’t about race?!

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SoberannSerene · 08/06/2026 22:13

mumofoneAloneandwell · 08/06/2026 22:10

Yes it is.

I dont think that being disgusted by those choosing to riot over a young man's death is making cheap points.

Commenting on the surname Novak and how unEnglish it is is a cheap and nasty thing to do.

SoberannSerene · 08/06/2026 22:15

WilfredsPies · 08/06/2026 20:37

Surely it’s hilarious that undercover racists have been called out

There’s not an ounce of humour to be had in this whole tragic situation. That you find it acceptable to use a young man’s death to score a political point is abhorrent. Where the fuck is your humanity?

Absolutely

mumofoneAloneandwell · 08/06/2026 22:17

SoberannSerene · 08/06/2026 22:13

Commenting on the surname Novak and how unEnglish it is is a cheap and nasty thing to do.

But it is unenglish - its a lovely surname with i'm sure a fantastic meaning and heritage.

The far right being upset that this family have good English values of respect and diversity, is awful.

Jellox · 08/06/2026 22:19

SoberannSerene · 08/06/2026 22:11

Can’t you see the hypocrisy that you have created your own thread about this tragedy to score political points?

How am I trying to score political points?

Nothing I’ve said has anything to do with political views.

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Jellox · 08/06/2026 22:19

SoberannSerene · 08/06/2026 22:13

Commenting on the surname Novak and how unEnglish it is is a cheap and nasty thing to do.

His surname is Polish.

Theres nothing wrong with being Polish.

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upinaballoon · 08/06/2026 22:31

Jellox · 08/06/2026 21:40

The family have had to take down their SM/ make it private.

Multiple people have had accounts removed.

Basically the far right are angry that they didn’t listen that his family were polish and he has mixed race nephews and friends who are not all white British Christian’s.

The sister in particular has been called awful names and has had people trolling her, saying awful things about what men should do to her.

It was only a couple of weeks ago that these same men were rioting and inciting hatred which apparently had nothing to do with race.

They are embarrassed because they’ve acted like such idiots and instead of staying quiet or apologising, they’re retaliating with anger.

Many things have been taken down now but you can still see some of it if you google it.

These men are absolutely vile.

These are plurals in your post: accounts, nephews, friends, weeks, idiots, things, Christian's. You have put apostrophes quite correctly in they've and they're. Why did you put an apostrophe in the plural Christians? Maybe it was an oversight. I think it must have been.

So you are telling us that you think some folk were sympathetic towards Henry but that they're now upset to find that Henry had Polish ancestry and had mixed-race relations, because they didn't realise that the name Nowak was a bit eastern-European sounding, and they're miffed that he had mixed-race relations. O.K. I don't disbelieve you. Nowak, spelled with a w and pronounced Novak as if it's spelled with a v, is not unlike the name Paderewski and its pronunciation.
About 20-15 years ago some folk around here were angry about the large number of Eastern Europeans who'd come over to work, and they were accused of racism. I used to be irritated by that. Zenophobia, yes, racism no. In a general way I think some people throw the word 'racist' around carelessly. I do think that Henry and Digwa were of different races, just for the record - not too difficult.

upinaballoon · 08/06/2026 22:36

Kim Novak - actress - lovely. Is there anyone out there old enough to remember her?

Allthatwegotisthispalebluedot · 08/06/2026 22:42

I have seen some fairly appalling racist screenshots of comments about his sister/her child being shared on threads. I won’t post them here because they are vile, but if posters don’t believe me then they can search for themselves quite easily.

I don’t think it’s ’creating division’ to say that.

Jellox · 08/06/2026 22:48

Allthatwegotisthispalebluedot · 08/06/2026 22:42

I have seen some fairly appalling racist screenshots of comments about his sister/her child being shared on threads. I won’t post them here because they are vile, but if posters don’t believe me then they can search for themselves quite easily.

I don’t think it’s ’creating division’ to say that.

Thank you.

I agree that it’s not creating division to comment on how vile these ‘men’ are being, when just a few days ago they were claiming to care so much about it.

I heard numerous people say it’s not about race it’s about X, Y, Z but this has proven that for many it absolutely is about race.

They only care if it fits their narrative.

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SoberannSerene · 08/06/2026 22:58

Jellox · 08/06/2026 22:19

His surname is Polish.

Theres nothing wrong with being Polish.

Obviously!!! So why was it mentioned?

Jellox · 08/06/2026 23:07

SoberannSerene · 08/06/2026 22:58

Obviously!!! So why was it mentioned?

As I said, there are people abusing the family because of their Polish roots as well as for having non-white people in their family.

These are the same people that not that long ago was using him and his family to incite hatred and division.

It just goes to show that they never cared about Henry or his family.

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SoberannSerene · 08/06/2026 23:30

Jellox · 08/06/2026 23:07

As I said, there are people abusing the family because of their Polish roots as well as for having non-white people in their family.

These are the same people that not that long ago was using him and his family to incite hatred and division.

It just goes to show that they never cared about Henry or his family.

What does your title mean ? It’s unclear…

Racism is a part of this tragedy because The killer and his brother accused Henry of racism . They lied. Henry wasn’t racist.
The police handcuffed Henry and ignored his 9 pleas for help because he had been stabbed.
The police had been trained to view accusations of racism as the most serious accusation- to the extent that they handcuffed Henry as he lay dying - obviously no threat to anyone.

Why are you not angry about the way Henry was treated when he lay dying?

The police were wrong to treat Henry as the aggressor when he was really the victim - it’s valid to feel angry about that.

It’s obviously not ok to riot or be racist or intimidate the Sikh community.

The person responsible for Henry’s death is Digwa. The police contributed to the pain and suffering of Henry because they took accusations of racism more seriously than accusations of stabbing.

Believing that there is two tier policing in this country does not mean you’re a far right racist.

Dont use Henry’s death to make facetious points about the “far right”. Henry wasn’t killed by the far- right.

Jellox · 08/06/2026 23:43

SoberannSerene · 08/06/2026 23:30

What does your title mean ? It’s unclear…

Racism is a part of this tragedy because The killer and his brother accused Henry of racism . They lied. Henry wasn’t racist.
The police handcuffed Henry and ignored his 9 pleas for help because he had been stabbed.
The police had been trained to view accusations of racism as the most serious accusation- to the extent that they handcuffed Henry as he lay dying - obviously no threat to anyone.

Why are you not angry about the way Henry was treated when he lay dying?

The police were wrong to treat Henry as the aggressor when he was really the victim - it’s valid to feel angry about that.

It’s obviously not ok to riot or be racist or intimidate the Sikh community.

The person responsible for Henry’s death is Digwa. The police contributed to the pain and suffering of Henry because they took accusations of racism more seriously than accusations of stabbing.

Believing that there is two tier policing in this country does not mean you’re a far right racist.

Dont use Henry’s death to make facetious points about the “far right”. Henry wasn’t killed by the far- right.

Who said I’m not angry about the way Henry was treated whilst dying?

I believe you’re being intentionally obtuse.

This thread is about the people who pretended to care about his death but it was only so they can push their own twisted agenda.

This thread has nothing to do with the police or how they treated Henry.
This is only about the people who used him and his family’s grief for their own benefit.

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SoberannSerene · 09/06/2026 00:13

Jellox · 08/06/2026 23:43

Who said I’m not angry about the way Henry was treated whilst dying?

I believe you’re being intentionally obtuse.

This thread is about the people who pretended to care about his death but it was only so they can push their own twisted agenda.

This thread has nothing to do with the police or how they treated Henry.
This is only about the people who used him and his family’s grief for their own benefit.

“This is only about the people who used him and his family’s grief for their own benefit”

Who has benefited from Henry’s death?

And What “twisted agenda” are these mysterious “people” trying to push?

People are allowed to be angry over what happened. There is no “twisted agenda” - just legitimate concern and valid criticism .

No one benefits from this terrible tragedy.

Msmfailedusbad · 09/06/2026 04:50

This is an awful thread and should be taken down .

Twiglets1 · 09/06/2026 05:17

Msmfailedusbad · 09/06/2026 04:50

This is an awful thread and should be taken down .

Agree.

I'm not aware of anyone in the media or in real life criticising Henry Novac or his family or saying nonsense about his surname being Polish.

I think OP has encountered some nasty people on social media and perhaps should take a break from that or not believe everything they read on it anyway.

SoberannSerene · 09/06/2026 07:53

Msmfailedusbad · 09/06/2026 04:50

This is an awful thread and should be taken down .

Agreed- I reported it yesterday…

MaturingCheeseball · 09/06/2026 10:44

I agree. It’s really tasteless. There’s no point engaging with such a nasty OP + henchmen.

Zov · 09/06/2026 15:35

Msmfailedusbad · 09/06/2026 04:50

This is an awful thread and should be taken down .

I agree. It's dreadful. Using a tragedy like this, to try and make a point, and attacked 'right winged people.' 🙄 Awful thread @Jellox you should tell MN to delete it.

VimesandhisCardboardBoots · 10/06/2026 14:35

Jellox · 08/06/2026 23:43

Who said I’m not angry about the way Henry was treated whilst dying?

I believe you’re being intentionally obtuse.

This thread is about the people who pretended to care about his death but it was only so they can push their own twisted agenda.

This thread has nothing to do with the police or how they treated Henry.
This is only about the people who used him and his family’s grief for their own benefit.

I struggle to see how anyone who's angry about this could find the fallout from it "hilarious".

There's absolutely nothing funny about any of this. There are people involved, someones been murdered. It's not a fucking team sport where its a laugh when you get one over on the other side.

Grow the fuck up.

augustusglupe · 10/06/2026 14:53

upinaballoon · 08/06/2026 22:36

Kim Novak - actress - lovely. Is there anyone out there old enough to remember her?

Me 👵🏻

It’s been an awful week, full of terrible news.
I’d step away from social media OP.

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