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Current female singers that don't use good looks and sexuality?

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mids2019 · 07/06/2026 07:33

I was having a discussion with my daughter's about dining, specifically women, and both said you have to be good looking and sexy to be a singer. The girls quoted Olivia Rodrigo, Taylor Swift, Due Lipa, Sabrina Carpenter, Tate McRae etc. as exmaples. To my heart's dismay I had to agree......It all was tipped off by Olivia Rodrigo's nurses dress in her newest video.

Looking at the men though the likes of Ed Sheeran, Sam Fender,Alex Warren etc. can get away with jeans and a jacket. The double standards are quite apparent and I feel that girls with good singing voices are being dissuaded from careers in music because of a false impression you need to be attractive and willing to use your sexuality to make it in a career.

An I over reacting or is their an inherent sexism and exploration in the music industry?

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LadyGAgain · 07/06/2026 07:34

I don’t disagree but I don’t think that this is something new…

ClaredeBear · 07/06/2026 07:34

CMAT

Twisterlollies · 07/06/2026 07:34

Billie Eilish. She always does that odd eye flickering thing too.

Rituelec · 07/06/2026 07:34

Olivia Dean?

billeth · 07/06/2026 07:36

Check out Yebba. Absolutely insane voice. Just her and her microphone.

mids2019 · 07/06/2026 07:36

I agree with Billie Eilish and CMAT (though CMAT does get trolled about her weight).

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ClaredeBear · 07/06/2026 07:37

Sia, Billy Eilish and Florence Welch.

mids2019 · 07/06/2026 07:37

Olivia Dean isn't exactly bad looking but agree she maybe is a little less provocative??

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TheCurious0range · 07/06/2026 07:37

Lola young

FaceForRadioIII · 07/06/2026 07:38

Lizzie McAlpine. Really talented.

JournalistEmily · 07/06/2026 07:39

You’re
completely right and it’s really depressing. I guess Lola Young is unequivocally herself. I can’t name many more. Female singers have to titillate the old music label creeps to get a deal, sadly

mids2019 · 07/06/2026 07:39

Florence definitely......though you could pigeon hole her as Indy so a little less popular?

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ProudPearl · 07/06/2026 07:41

Have a listen to Rory! She's fab and looks funky rather than traditionally sexy.

mids2019 · 07/06/2026 07:42

Isn't Lola Young positioning herself as an antidote to the obvious use of looks and sex to sell female.music? I think she has been quite savvy in sending that there is a portion of female music audience that is a bit fed up of the likes of Zara Larsson and want something more real?

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AImportantMermaid · 07/06/2026 07:42

Billie Eilish, Florence from Florence and the Machine, Wet Leg, Holly Humberstone, Amy McDonald, Natasha Bedingfield, Pink, and Adele don’t particularly trade on looking ‘sexy’, but I know what you mean, and I think it can undermine the credibility of the artist (although it doesn’t stop them selling records). I’d love to see someone like Sabrina Carpenter looking strong and feisty, for example. I think that would be fantastic. Men dressing sexily was mostly confined to the boy bands of the ‘90s and early 2000s where they all looked like the ‘before’ in a male stripping troup.

mids2019 · 07/06/2026 07:42

Thanks for all the suggestions....

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AImportantMermaid · 07/06/2026 07:44

And Freya Ridings of course, whose father is Daddy Pig in Peppa Pig!

mids2019 · 07/06/2026 07:46

AImportantMermaid · 07/06/2026 07:42

Billie Eilish, Florence from Florence and the Machine, Wet Leg, Holly Humberstone, Amy McDonald, Natasha Bedingfield, Pink, and Adele don’t particularly trade on looking ‘sexy’, but I know what you mean, and I think it can undermine the credibility of the artist (although it doesn’t stop them selling records). I’d love to see someone like Sabrina Carpenter looking strong and feisty, for example. I think that would be fantastic. Men dressing sexily was mostly confined to the boy bands of the ‘90s and early 2000s where they all looked like the ‘before’ in a male stripping troup.

I agree with this but do all those artists get a lot of attention now (e.g. pink)?

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Bonsaibaby · 07/06/2026 07:49

Raye is phenomenal. Gorgeous as well but not routinely dressed in a bikini. It’s the very famous mainstream American female singers that seem to be very sexual in the way they dress etc imo; British singers less so.

mids2019 · 07/06/2026 07:52

https://www.officialcharts.com/charts/uk-top-40-singles-chart/

this is the current top 40 and I would dare anyone to pick out a female artist that wasn't good looking........

the irony is that we have some very good singers in our family but part from being in a choir there is little opportunity in the music industry even if you are creative because of the 'lion's barrier.

Official Singles Chart Top 40 | Official Charts

The Official Singles Chart Top 100 reflects the UK’s biggest songs of the week, based on audio and video streams, downloads, CDs and vinyl, compiled by the Official Charts Company. The UK Top 40 is broadcast on BBC Radio 1. View the biggest songs of 20...

https://www.officialcharts.com/charts/uk-top-40-singles-chart/

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Caravanholiday · 07/06/2026 07:53

Alanis Morrisette.

Taylor Swift.

Both of the above are attractive but position themselves as songwriters.

ScullyD · 07/06/2026 07:53

CMAT and Paris Paloma (supported Florence Welch on tour)

mids2019 · 07/06/2026 07:54

Bonsaibaby · 07/06/2026 07:49

Raye is phenomenal. Gorgeous as well but not routinely dressed in a bikini. It’s the very famous mainstream American female singers that seem to be very sexual in the way they dress etc imo; British singers less so.

I agree and it s not a great direction imho. The is a great singer but even though not absolutely provocative is rarely seen in something that can't be described as clingy to show her curves.

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PaddyTheSaddy · 07/06/2026 07:57

Phoebe Bridgers!

mids2019 · 07/06/2026 07:59

ScullyD · 07/06/2026 07:53

CMAT and Paris Paloma (supported Florence Welch on tour)

Paris Paloma I agree with but isn't this an example of a good musician (who also is good looking) that maybe is relegated to second tier because of the conscious decision to well.....wear normal clothing?

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