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Who is on your hit list (lighthearted)

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Squiillionaire · 03/06/2026 23:08

When I say hit list I don't mean real assassination type hit list. But who would you like to bestow some misfortune on?

My lovely friends ex husband for all the shit he has caused in her life (although he is in such a state now by his own actions he could be crossed off). The absolute wanker she met recently who charmed her and made her trust her and turned out to be yet another wanker.

My brother who caused my parents such hurt.

Mt brother in law who hurt my lovely sister in law ( although there is a bit of is it 6 and 2 threes in the family)

All the absolutely nasty women I have met in my life who have looked down on me for various reasons. And men. But there were fewer men.

I'm happy I'm life . But I do sometimes think I wish sine bad luck would befalf these people.

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Enko · 03/06/2026 23:16

Currently a lot of people at works sister company that has messed up something thats giving me grief.

One girl I knew who was quite hurtful towards me. W her I dont need anything big just something to make her feel ashamed for a bit.

Bil. I will never understand how he could not come visit MIL in her last months where she was so sick and wanting him to visit so bad. Also overall he is just not a plesant human being.

StephensLass1977 · 03/06/2026 23:49

A woman who made my life an absolute misery in my first proper job in 2002, which I adored. I literally had to quit because of her. It was was one of the Royal Colleges and they had no clue how to handle bullying. Absolutely no reason for it, in fact we'd been good friends!

What really made me want to throttle her was the fact that she quit the week after I did! So I could have stayed.

She did this systematically to everyone. Weirdest person I've ever met at a job. And there have been hundreds!

Squiillionaire · 03/06/2026 23:56

Enko · 03/06/2026 23:16

Currently a lot of people at works sister company that has messed up something thats giving me grief.

One girl I knew who was quite hurtful towards me. W her I dont need anything big just something to make her feel ashamed for a bit.

Bil. I will never understand how he could not come visit MIL in her last months where she was so sick and wanting him to visit so bad. Also overall he is just not a plesant human being.

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Same as my brother when my Dad was dying .I just couldn't understand it. At all. My Dad had been a wonderful Dad to us both. It was a choice between watching the football and visiting his Dad for the last few hours.

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iwishihadaname · 04/06/2026 00:26

Anyone in the Taliban

NotInvolved · 04/06/2026 01:30

I'm not wishing ill fortune on anyone. I am desperately hoping that extremely good fortune befalls my SIL. Ideally I would like a tall dark hansome multi millionaire to fall madly in love with her and sweep her off her feet. They will then live happily ever after in his luxury home. Preferably on another continent, unless another planet is an option. Lack of WiFi or a phone signal would be a bonus, though actually if she was happy she'd probably leave us all in peace anyway so it would be a win-win situation.

DilemmaDelilah · 04/06/2026 10:21

My ex husband, because he's a complete arse who put me into huge debt. Two women I used to work with, because they bullied me and both had an over-inflated opinion of their own superiority. The one person I worked on a project with who actually had no idea of the scope of my role and who - in feedback - said that I shouldn't ask questions in meetings. Something it was definitely my role to do and which was appreciated by everyone else I work with. She also never did what she was supposed to do/said she would do and resented my calling her out on it... which was, incidentally, exactly my role - to keep track of actions and to check when they would be done by, who they would be done by, and why they had not been done.

Otherwise - nobody from a personal point of view. I was bullied at school but I really have no interest in those people - and it was more than 50 years ago and I have risen above it now.

Ohwhatfuckeryitistoride · 04/06/2026 11:39

That cunt who allows his/her enormous dog to shite either just outside my gates or my nans and never cleans it up.
The heads of various water companies who have allowed such rampant pollution while pocketing wads of money. I dont want to shoot them, but i think they'd benefit from some open air swimming in some of the rivers they are supposed to look after.

Nofeckingway · 04/06/2026 11:43

TRUMP and too many of his cronies to mention
The people who bullied or were unkind to my kids
The OW
My friends ex husband

EineReiseDurchDieZeit · 04/06/2026 15:28

B - working in the social care sector. A grim childish bully, who should have been receiving social care support not delivering it

K - really well and truly destroyed my life at one time out of a need to be Queen Bee

M - just the worst person I’ve ever met in every way
unfortunately we are related

L - I’m glad I wasn’t your child you raging egomaniac

A - however you want to justify your behaviour you lied to me.

StormGazing · 04/06/2026 21:28

A real bitch who sadly lied her way into a job and became my line manager. She was nasty, rigged a huge reshuffle at work, tried to get rid of people she didn’t like, including me. HR was useless til the unions stepped in and they got an external investigator because there were 36 claims of bullying and 70 odd claims of her using her power in nefarious ways … long story short she got sacked … needless to say our HR / Leadership just brushed it under the carpet, but quite a few senior leaders including head of HR ‘left’ within the next month or so!
she was an absolutely viscous cow

foodfun · 04/06/2026 21:32

All the teachers who didn’t recognise my autism and adhd and punished me daily for my symptoms.

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