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Does this woman have no decency??

432 replies

somanychristmaslights · 29/05/2026 18:22

I really thought I believed in letting women do whatever they want to and trying to see things from their point of view. But I just can’t understand Bonnie Blue for her “baby shower” plans… https://www.facebook.com/share/r/1DHqdeB6ed/?mibextid=wwXIfr

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likelysuspect · 29/05/2026 20:55

Samysungy · 29/05/2026 20:47

If she is mentally ill and acting without her own autonomy and some magical force in her brain making her do it, then all these men are raping her as she knows not what she does....and she is a victim....and you are sitting there watching a victim be harmed some more.....

Or she is choosing to do it and there is nothing at all wrong with her and her behaviour is all her own choice...

Which is it?

You seem to think that someone with a mental illness (she isnt one of them) doesnt have capacity to consent to sex?

She isnt being raped even if she is mentally unwell

Im mentally unwell with a diagnosed MH condition, medicated, go to work and have capactity.

daisychain01 · 29/05/2026 20:56

TheBlissfulSloth · 29/05/2026 19:11

I agree. And I'm surprised Shelagh Fogarty went so easy on her during the LBC interview. It was like she was giving her credibility.

I don't think that's a fair assessment of Shelagh Foggerty's interview on LBC today.

it would have been the easiest thing in the world for SF to froth and rant at BB, particularly as BB says "not my problem" re her social responsibility, knowing that her influence will cause significant harm to all the young men and women who are aware of what she does,

SF had a rational discussion and let BB say her piece, which most LBC presenters often don't do, ie let their interviewee get a word in edgeways.

BB makes around £1M per week, and promotes the fact that she repeatedly emphasises it is by consenting adults. it's appalling but it's the world we have to inhabit, seeing scum like her behave like that. There are no words.

seagullstolemypie · 29/05/2026 21:02

Her actions are depraved, but she has learned that the fact that sex sells is a way to find infamy, and also to increase her bank balance. I do not see her in any way a victim in this, but more an exploitative manipulator of (some) men’s weakness. No worse nor better than any commodity that uses sex to sell, be it books, music, cars … her commodity is her body.

To increase her infamy and to keep the money rolling in by the men who are happy to participate in the depravity, she will have to find new ways of upping the click bait shock value. Today, it’s urine; next week it will probably be faeces.

They are all consenting adults and those of us who express our shock/horror are also playing into her money making. We increase her audience and her infamy.

Lifeomars · 29/05/2026 21:05

I seem to remember she was going to do something called Bonnie Blue's Petting Zoo which was going to involve her being naked in a pen and men could do as they wanted to her. It was stopped so hopefully the same will happen to this vile and pervered plan. She is dead behind the eyes but you would have to be to do what she does.

MeltyMomenrs · 29/05/2026 21:05

user293948849167 · 29/05/2026 19:39

I mean I can’t get past any man wanting to do this let alone thousands of them, that’s who I’m mostly disgusted by.
I feel sorry for the child

I'm disgusted by her
I'm disgusted by the men

...but most of all I'm disgusted by her mother

the baby should be taken off her as soon as it's born & entrusted to a couple to bring it up well away from this circus.

Riceball · 29/05/2026 21:05

This is why cases like the Gisèle Pelicot case happen. They walk amongst us. Men who desire to do this to vulnerable women. Sickening.

TY78910 · 29/05/2026 21:05

seagullstolemypie · 29/05/2026 21:02

Her actions are depraved, but she has learned that the fact that sex sells is a way to find infamy, and also to increase her bank balance. I do not see her in any way a victim in this, but more an exploitative manipulator of (some) men’s weakness. No worse nor better than any commodity that uses sex to sell, be it books, music, cars … her commodity is her body.

To increase her infamy and to keep the money rolling in by the men who are happy to participate in the depravity, she will have to find new ways of upping the click bait shock value. Today, it’s urine; next week it will probably be faeces.

They are all consenting adults and those of us who express our shock/horror are also playing into her money making. We increase her audience and her infamy.

I agree and it’s interesting how we accept that men are gross and exploitative but when a woman does it we must explain it by her having MH issues.

likelysuspect · 29/05/2026 21:07

TY78910 · 29/05/2026 21:05

I agree and it’s interesting how we accept that men are gross and exploitative but when a woman does it we must explain it by her having MH issues.

Yep, every thread, predictably the same.

Rbof · 29/05/2026 21:17

Awwlookatmybabyspider · 29/05/2026 20:25

Just because she may have questionable sex morals doesn’t necessarily mean she’ll be a bad mother. Sometimes a baby totally changes someone, it did me.

She is using a baby shower to ask random men to perform golden showers on her body. She is eating baby food together with random men’s spunk. Where does this end when the baby is born?

SwatTheTwit · 29/05/2026 21:20

And here you are, giving her the attention she so badly craves.

LadyLindaT · 29/05/2026 21:26

Just always reminds me of the Germaine Greer quotation: “Women have very little idea of how much men hate them.”

Lifeomars · 29/05/2026 21:28

Sunisgettinganewhaton · 29/05/2026 19:10

Does she know who the df even is?

In this context DF should stand for Deviant Filth

NameChangeMay2026 · 29/05/2026 21:35

somanychristmaslights · 29/05/2026 18:22

I really thought I believed in letting women do whatever they want to and trying to see things from their point of view. But I just can’t understand Bonnie Blue for her “baby shower” plans… https://www.facebook.com/share/r/1DHqdeB6ed/?mibextid=wwXIfr

You thought you believed in letting women do what they want? I hope you still do! Yes, what she does is so disgusting there are no words to describe it, but it's a free country. Her body, her decision. She's doing nothing illegal. She can do whatever she wants with her own body. I support her right to do this, even if I think it's all kinds of horrendous.

NameChangeMay2026 · 29/05/2026 21:37

TY78910 · 29/05/2026 21:05

I agree and it’s interesting how we accept that men are gross and exploitative but when a woman does it we must explain it by her having MH issues.

Yes, you could argue that she's exploited men's obsession with sex to earn a huge amount of money for herself. Good for her. I mean, I think the entire thing is gross, but she's laughing all the way to the bank.

NameChangeMay2026 · 29/05/2026 21:38

Riceball · 29/05/2026 21:05

This is why cases like the Gisèle Pelicot case happen. They walk amongst us. Men who desire to do this to vulnerable women. Sickening.

It's hardly the same. She has invited them to have sex with her, not an unconscious, non-consenting other.

Damnd · 29/05/2026 21:39

SomedayIllBeSaturdayNight · 29/05/2026 19:06

Yep

Not sure I'm convinced yet. The baby bump looks somewhat odd in the recent videos

Dorisbonson · 29/05/2026 21:40

How utterly revolting. I hope this isn't true. People are disgusting

NameChangeMay2026 · 29/05/2026 21:41

Oh, WAIT. She's actually pregnant? I assumed it wasn't a real baby shower. In that case, what she's doing could be abuse against the baby, because if she contracts STDs during her pregnancy, they can seriously harm the baby.

notatinydancer · 29/05/2026 21:41

PolkaDotPorridge · 29/05/2026 19:07

I think she’s perfectly sane. She’s just incredibly greedy and has absolutely no morals. I really hope social services are watching her very carefully. That child deserves better.

Agreed and her 15 minutes of fame. How embarrassing for her future child. Haven’t read about it. Does she know who the father is. ?

Pollyanna87 · 29/05/2026 21:41

Pornography featuring visibly pregnant women should be illegal.

whatcanthematterbe81 · 29/05/2026 21:44

People saying she has mental health problems. I think she’s just a c@nt. and the men are double c£nts. Disgusting

whatcanthematterbe81 · 29/05/2026 21:45

NameChangeMay2026 · 29/05/2026 21:35

You thought you believed in letting women do what they want? I hope you still do! Yes, what she does is so disgusting there are no words to describe it, but it's a free country. Her body, her decision. She's doing nothing illegal. She can do whatever she wants with her own body. I support her right to do this, even if I think it's all kinds of horrendous.

With a baby inside her? Eewwwwww

Sunshineandoranges · 29/05/2026 21:57

Holdonforsummer · 29/05/2026 18:25

i don't think we should give this any more oxygen.

I agree

tsmainsqueeze · 29/05/2026 21:57

If this is true can you imagine finding out your mother did this .
I am not a prude, each to their own but this , there are no words to describe how abhorrent this is .
Thinking back to how it felt to carry my babies and all the worries involved in pregnancy, being pissed on is bad enough but all the risk from numerous men , my God.
She's vile , i despair.

Notmyreality · 29/05/2026 22:01

PolkaDotPorridge · 29/05/2026 19:07

I think she’s perfectly sane. She’s just incredibly greedy and has absolutely no morals. I really hope social services are watching her very carefully. That child deserves better.

This. All the people commenting “She’s mentally unwell” I’m afraid are just showing their utter naivety of what goes on in the porn world. She’s perfectly sane and it’s all a business to her.