Telling family I've moved?

[A2026]

My partner doesn't want me telling my family Ive moved?
I don't hardly see my famiy as we live far apart so he thinks i shouldn't tell them becuase they don't bother with us unless it suits them.
Should i tell them? He never wants them down and then i i have to make a lie that I'm busy. I feel so stuck :(

Please tell your family where you are living. Your partner sounds controlling and his mother is backing him up. Can you arrange to go and visit your family with your daughter? He shouldn't be keeping you away from your family!

Warning bells are ringing for me. Your child should be part of her other family

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You are being controlled and isolated op, you can't live your life worrying whether you are going to upset anyone. Don't move far away from your family, you will need them when this all blows up in your face. Take care🥰🥰

He’s dangerous