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What is something you know because of your job, that would surprise others? (My example is gross, thread warning!)

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Mrmen1100 · 10/05/2026 19:24

It can be anything!!

I will start..

I am a food safety inspector (local authority) and have been for over 15 years, working in two large cities, and my current job in a smaller local authority. The same theme...

Food handlers do NOT wash their hands properly after using the toilet / before preparing your food.. lack of antibacterial soap in a toilet cubicle or in a kitchen is common place.... even when I am there, hands are not washed, it is an absolute bug bear of mine.

Preparing with raw meat then handling food ready to eat.. not uncommon

Handling cash / touching screens then handling food.. not uncommon.

Yes it does put me off eating outside of my house unfortunately 🙃

I have come across a LOT worse but this example irritates me.

Your turn!!!!!

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peachescariad · 11/05/2026 14:48

godmum56 · 11/05/2026 14:43

so do I

I'm a science technician in a secondary school and we hold a chemical that even if a tiny amount is spilt, requires whole school evacuation and the fire service to come on site.

godmum56 · 11/05/2026 14:50

SabrinaThwaite · 11/05/2026 13:53

That’s there’s a lot of interesting infrastructure underneath cities that nobody admits to.

Also under the sea. Less, i think than there used to be before satellites

SparklyGlitterballs · 11/05/2026 14:50

@Feis123 , of course there's no 'special pool' of doctors in private hospitals. Usually the doctors work in both private and NHS settings on different days. I thought everyone knew that.

Whatagooddog · 11/05/2026 14:51

Ghostwriter here - most celebs don't even read the books they pretend to have written.

All of the Instagrammers I've worked with are absolutely 100% grifters - no surprise there perhaps, but I have been pretty surprised by just how much they utterly despise the people who are paying for their lifestyle.

Fiction is becoming much more of a ghostwritten world - not just the well-known authors who have always been open about it, but ones that have a reputation for being 'real' writers.

Iloveanicegarden · 11/05/2026 14:51

You may all know this but the legal definition of 'meat' as in sausages etc is anything from the animal - so think bones, connective tissue, eyelashes/ears/ organs/body fat. The total weight of an animal (pig) is approx 50% lean and 50% other stuff (see above). So, minced up to make a slurry this wouldn't taste of much, so ingredients are added - flavouring (salt, herbs and so on), rusk or cereal to absorb the fat as it melts, colouring (because this is a 'meat' product and should not be the colour of wallpaper paste) and water to bulk product out. So, when they are cooked and eaten they are not 'nice and juicy' but that's the melted fat. The water evaporates and sausages have shrunk.

That chickens used to be and probably still are injected with a chemical before death so that when they are cleaned and cooled, they actually absorb water. What is it that determines the price? The weight. So we all pay for extra water! Same with some ham

Whowhatwhere21 · 11/05/2026 14:51

I locum for Pharmacies. Alot of the small independents I have worked for will put medications returned by patients back on the shelf and dispense them to other patients. This way, they get paid out by the NHS for the medication being dispensed the 1st time. Then when its returned and dispensed a 2nd time, they will also be paid for it despite not actually paying out for the meds themselves. It's like a buy one get one free for the Pharmacy. Its not legal, they don't give a shit, and neither does anyone I've reported it too.

I have also worked at a handful of independents who expect staff to dispense, check and hand out medication with no Pharmacist on site. Sometimes with no other staff member on shift so literally no one else at all to double check. The most recent one had 2 claims open against him by patients given wrong meds/wrong dose under these circumstances, he still expected staff to carry on as usual though.

I've also covered at lots of branches for a big chain. A few of them had independent Pharmacies within close proximity that turned out to be owned by family members of the managers in the chain stores. Theft was absolutely rife in these stores. Eventually turned out to be the chain managers stealing and passing the stock to the independents owned by family. They were never prosecuted, just sacked. One of them was sacked and they replaced him with his cousin 😂 Coincidentally this store was closing and on the week of closure, lots of medication disappeared out of the controlled drugs safe, including multiple 500ml bottles of methadone, and the cousin never returned to finish the closure week.

Jobchanges · 11/05/2026 14:51

I work in pharma, where every single thing is recorded. If it’s not written down it didn’t happen, 10 people could have watched it happen but if it’s not recorded we cannot say it did.

godmum56 · 11/05/2026 14:52

Hospitals cannot keep people in against their wishes unless they are sectioned or have been identified as lacking capacity. If a patient wants to leave, staff have to help them to do so. Hospitals can send people out of hospital against their wishes but its quite a convoluted legal procedure

Bushwoolie · 11/05/2026 14:52

I unfortunately know what metastatic cancer of the penis looks when a man has refused to have things checked due to embarrassment.

Both the image in my head and the accompanying smell will stay with me til the day I die.

I have also seen similar of the cervix.

No amount of embarrassment is worth not being checked.

YooBlue · 11/05/2026 14:53

StandingDeskDisco · 11/05/2026 13:57

I have had many jobs in both public sector and private sector offices.

In the private sector, at junior / admin levels, you work your socks off. If they can possibly make your role redundant, or just not replace you when you leave, they will, and expect the rest of the team to pick up the work.

In the public sector (civil service, local authority, and FE college, but I expect the other organisations are similar), you can work at about 2/3 of the pace or less, and 'empire building' is rife: this means that every manager tries to get as many staff under them as possible. A manager with a team of six will moan to his superior how everyone is flat out and overworked, they need another person. The manager is happy to agree, because he has no idea of the actual workload, and then he also gets more people under him.
So there are hundreds of thousands, possibly millions, of under-employed people working at half-speed paid for by our taxes.

Who then get generous DB pensions (side eyes my lazy BIL who got a job in the civil service, immediately got himself made Union Rep to cut down his own workload and ensure that nobody was ever under any pressure to actually work) (though tbf I know civil servants who work very hard indeed)

Bushwoolie · 11/05/2026 14:54

godmum56 · 11/05/2026 14:52

Hospitals cannot keep people in against their wishes unless they are sectioned or have been identified as lacking capacity. If a patient wants to leave, staff have to help them to do so. Hospitals can send people out of hospital against their wishes but its quite a convoluted legal procedure

But they will refuse any medication that patient has been using whilst in hospital. Often resulting in failed discharges.

Allisnotlost1 · 11/05/2026 14:54

Feis123 · 11/05/2026 14:31

Not from work, but from ordinary life. I was surprised to find out that private school teachers are not special, they are not chosen from a 'special pool', they are employed from the same pool of teachers and they, on average, do not give a shit about teaching children properly. They care about their wages, work conditions, sick leave, etc. Basically, it is a scam.

I was surprised to find out, again, from life, that private doctors are not special, they are not drawn from a special pool (like private teachers are not) and that most private hospitals are just rental arrangements - i.e. there is no multidisciplinary hospital team, obliged to provide input in patient care. That an ortho consultant, say, rents a consultation room and theatre per hour, that they are lone operators who pay the private hospital for facilities and it is truly scary.

I was surprised to find out that in one private hospital the outcome for post-surgery patients wholly depended not on an anaesthetist (as I had previously thought) and not on a surgeon, but on a strapping physio therapist, with his physio team - i.e. he was only in on Thursdays with his team and when patients went into cardiac arrest, they survived on Thursdays because he and his girls and lads were in (physically strong, could go on and on doing CPR properly), and had literally no chance of survival when only 3 nurses were on the ward post-op on other days (they did not have the fitness level to do it properly until the arrival of a state-funded ambulance).

P.S. I wish I did not find out the latter though.

🤣 Why would private school teachers or doctors be ‘from a special pool’? It’s just a job!

Jobchanges · 11/05/2026 14:55

Also…Generic drugs are not “copy-pasted recipes.”
Generics must prove bioequivalence, but manufacturers may use different fillers, coatings, or production methods. That’s why one generic can feels different even when the active ingredient is the same.

JudgeJ · 11/05/2026 14:55

StandingDeskDisco · 11/05/2026 13:57

I have had many jobs in both public sector and private sector offices.

In the private sector, at junior / admin levels, you work your socks off. If they can possibly make your role redundant, or just not replace you when you leave, they will, and expect the rest of the team to pick up the work.

In the public sector (civil service, local authority, and FE college, but I expect the other organisations are similar), you can work at about 2/3 of the pace or less, and 'empire building' is rife: this means that every manager tries to get as many staff under them as possible. A manager with a team of six will moan to his superior how everyone is flat out and overworked, they need another person. The manager is happy to agree, because he has no idea of the actual workload, and then he also gets more people under him.
So there are hundreds of thousands, possibly millions, of under-employed people working at half-speed paid for by our taxes.

Yes Minister was predicted on exactly that, the empire building and sadly it's as true today as it was 40+ years ago!

PauliesWalnuts · 11/05/2026 14:55

StandingDeskDisco · 11/05/2026 13:43

Yup.
If it goes hard over time, it is a cake. If it goes soft, it is a biscuit.

My current boss's dad was on the panel which decided this!

Feis123 · 11/05/2026 14:57

Waitingfordoggo · 11/05/2026 14:38

@Feis123 Yes, any teacher can seek a job in state schools or private schools. In fact, for a long time private schools were often employing people who weren’t qualified teachers (but were experts in their subject). I don’t know if that’s still the case, but certainly in the quite recent past there have been teachers in private schools who, despite knowing their subject well, have never qualified as a teacher, so they have received no education on theories of learning, how to teach children with SEN etc.

This is what I found out, and paid for it through the nose. 'But our chemistry teacher has a PhD in chemistry!' - yet he can't teach!!!!! So you have to pay for the school, then get gaslighted by the school - our teachers are best, they have PhDs - then realise they are lying and pay for the tutor, basically, the biggest scam. I feel so stupid after all this - I was taught at university that profit only seeks profit, that the idea of a private business is to charge as much as possible yet to give as little as possible, and still I bought into this stupid dream.

Cleocaterpillar · 11/05/2026 14:58

Fancy spas often sheet stack or flip towels inbetween massage clients. They have a really short turnover time so don't have time to fully strip the bed and put clean linen on. So you're usually laying in someone else's sweat.

Feis123 · 11/05/2026 14:58

Housesellerinapoormarket · 11/05/2026 14:40

Ummm… I think you have extrapolated wildly on teachers there.

Obviously there is no ‘special pool’ of teachers just for private schools 🙄…. But not sure why you think that they only care about working conditions and wages, and it’s a scam.

Just like state school teachers, there will be good and bad ones!

Because I paid for this scam.

JoeTheDrummer · 11/05/2026 14:59

Feis123 · 11/05/2026 14:31

Not from work, but from ordinary life. I was surprised to find out that private school teachers are not special, they are not chosen from a 'special pool', they are employed from the same pool of teachers and they, on average, do not give a shit about teaching children properly. They care about their wages, work conditions, sick leave, etc. Basically, it is a scam.

I was surprised to find out, again, from life, that private doctors are not special, they are not drawn from a special pool (like private teachers are not) and that most private hospitals are just rental arrangements - i.e. there is no multidisciplinary hospital team, obliged to provide input in patient care. That an ortho consultant, say, rents a consultation room and theatre per hour, that they are lone operators who pay the private hospital for facilities and it is truly scary.

I was surprised to find out that in one private hospital the outcome for post-surgery patients wholly depended not on an anaesthetist (as I had previously thought) and not on a surgeon, but on a strapping physio therapist, with his physio team - i.e. he was only in on Thursdays with his team and when patients went into cardiac arrest, they survived on Thursdays because he and his girls and lads were in (physically strong, could go on and on doing CPR properly), and had literally no chance of survival when only 3 nurses were on the ward post-op on other days (they did not have the fitness level to do it properly until the arrival of a state-funded ambulance).

P.S. I wish I did not find out the latter though.

Teachers aren’t “chosen” from a pool in any sector - there’s a position and then people apply for it!

Very few doctors are purely private, the vast majority work in the NHS too. It’s not a secret!

KidsDoBetter · 11/05/2026 14:59

Thundertoast · 11/05/2026 12:59

How much everything you see on social media and parts of the wider internet, is a bubble created by algorithms based off data its collecting about you and your online habits designed to hold your attention and keep clicking. I would love to see a public information campaign about this, honestly, as I dont blame people for not being aware but it affects us all!

How many fake bot accounts there are and just how real the people behind them can make them seem. The true scale of misinformation campaigns by Russia alone is fascinating, and so many people have no idea this stuff is real! Lots of fake accounts that are not obviously fake at all. Social engineering is very good these days. Contributing to the algorithm by posting about the same thing. Contributing to false information that is then scraped a regurgitated by shoddy 'news' sources and AI.

I work in a very interesting but horrifying field!

Eh??!! Everyone knows this lol 😂

Devilsmommy · 11/05/2026 15:00

I worked as a cleaner for years and the people who left the places in a completely filthy state and acted like complete pigs were always the richest people. I've seen some really gross and shocking stuff that I'll never be able to erase from my brain😳😫

Alwayswonderedwhy · 11/05/2026 15:01

BoomBoom70 · 11/05/2026 12:37

A long time ago, when I worked in a restaurant, the ‘homemade soup’ was always out of a packet and the chef, every day, proudly put the frozen peas in his mouth and spat them into the soup. Every time.

And you or any other staff members didn't report him? Unbelievable.

Pamnn82 · 11/05/2026 15:01

I learnt last week after hearing a couple talking about it on tv that nurseries are told beforehand the day they will be inspected by ousted, I always assumed it was random.. Bonkers. There’s a family protesting currently to try and get this changed.

Whysnothingsimple · 11/05/2026 15:02

GuelderRoses · 11/05/2026 12:04

The accountancy practice I worked for had some very interesting clients, that's for sure.😂

Yes, it’s amazing what you see, knowing someone’s planning to leave their wife a good 6 months out (usually inc a mistress). “Rich people” often aren’t as rich as you think and it takes a lot of money to keep up the pretence.

Pinepeak2434 · 11/05/2026 15:02

I’m not surprised about the hygiene standards. I once saw someone working behind a deli counter in a shopping centre go to the men’s toilets still wearing his apron, come back tying up bin bags, and then immediately make a customer’s sandwich without washing his hands. The way food handlers often touch their mobile phones also really puts me off, especially since so many people take their phones into the toilet with them.
My student son works part-time at a theme park and says the pizzas they sell for £19 each are just the cheapest frozen ones from Iceland.