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What is something you know because of your job, that would surprise others? (My example is gross, thread warning!)

760 replies

Mrmen1100 · 10/05/2026 19:24

It can be anything!!

I will start..

I am a food safety inspector (local authority) and have been for over 15 years, working in two large cities, and my current job in a smaller local authority. The same theme...

Food handlers do NOT wash their hands properly after using the toilet / before preparing your food.. lack of antibacterial soap in a toilet cubicle or in a kitchen is common place.... even when I am there, hands are not washed, it is an absolute bug bear of mine.

Preparing with raw meat then handling food ready to eat.. not uncommon

Handling cash / touching screens then handling food.. not uncommon.

Yes it does put me off eating outside of my house unfortunately 🙃

I have come across a LOT worse but this example irritates me.

Your turn!!!!!

OP posts:
UnhappyHobbit · 11/05/2026 21:53

Vivienne1000 · 11/05/2026 21:30

A student had sex in the park. They used protection. An empty crisp packet.

Someone at my school got pregnant and this was the rumour going around.. I’m sure it was just vindictive and not real.

Feis123 · 11/05/2026 21:54

WearyAuldWumman · 11/05/2026 21:15

I had a colleague who supplemented his state school salary by tutoring girls who were failing Higher English in the independent sector.

Please, stop, this is salt to my wounds, I am re-living it as I read it. This was us. Being tutored, I mean. And practically every pupil (in the subject relevant to university entry). And nobody admitted it - oh, no, all the parents kept schtum.

Georgiapeach21 · 11/05/2026 21:59

Whyarepeople · 11/05/2026 15:51

I thought it was a well known fact that private school is about separating your children from the poors and buying them access and advantage, not about education?

The ultra fancy private school my friend went to in London didn't make any secret of this at all.

I agree with this. At private school your not paying for the education your paying for the network

WearyAuldWumman · 11/05/2026 22:01

Vivienne1000 · 11/05/2026 21:49

Ouch!

The Guidance Dept told me they were thinking of spreading a rumour that only salt and vinegar flavour worked..

WearyAuldWumman · 11/05/2026 22:02

Feis123 · 11/05/2026 21:54

Please, stop, this is salt to my wounds, I am re-living it as I read it. This was us. Being tutored, I mean. And practically every pupil (in the subject relevant to university entry). And nobody admitted it - oh, no, all the parents kept schtum.

Sorry. :(

LastHotel · 11/05/2026 22:04

RadiologyStaff · 11/05/2026 15:32

The fungating breast cancer I saw early in my career will stay with me forever.

That sounds judgmental. Even if you are vigilant and are identified with very early stage breast cancer, a third of patients go on to develop metastatic cancer. Spread to skin is also well known, and those skin lesions can fungate, and there’s very little that can be done about it. I have breast cancer in my skin. I started out as stage 0, not even cancer.

WearyAuldWumman · 11/05/2026 22:04

WearyAuldWumman · 11/05/2026 22:02

Sorry. :(

I did think that it was pretty rotten: those of us in the state sector were providing extra tuition to our pupils for free. I recall thinking that private school parents were being had.

CDTC · 11/05/2026 22:05

UnhappyHobbit · 11/05/2026 21:53

Someone at my school got pregnant and this was the rumour going around.. I’m sure it was just vindictive and not real.

Yeah my friend got pregnant this way too!

MrsW9 · 11/05/2026 22:06

Waitingfordoggo · 11/05/2026 14:38

@Feis123 Yes, any teacher can seek a job in state schools or private schools. In fact, for a long time private schools were often employing people who weren’t qualified teachers (but were experts in their subject). I don’t know if that’s still the case, but certainly in the quite recent past there have been teachers in private schools who, despite knowing their subject well, have never qualified as a teacher, so they have received no education on theories of learning, how to teach children with SEN etc.

In the independent schools I've worked in, the typical expectation is that new unqualified teachers work towards qualification in their first couple of years. There is extensive mentoring, observation, etc.

Equally, while the considerable majority of colleagues are qualified teachers, I have worked with some truly excellent and highly experienced unqualified teachers, who took/take a deep interest in education and good teaching.

Lollygaggle · 11/05/2026 22:07

The average U.K. reading age is between 9 and 11. As a dentist you realise most people cannot understand the written information eg medical history forms, consent forms , letters etc given to them and a large percentage of the U.K. population is functionally illiterate .

This is not about understanding medical jargon it’s about being able to parse the meaning of a “your appointment has been moved” letter etc.

FeelingSadToday1 · 11/05/2026 22:11

I am a midwife and I can assure you that not all maternity care is awful like you read on here and the media. It’s also nothing like One Born Every Minute and I hope the new series is more realistic!

Waitingfordoggo · 11/05/2026 22:11

That’s good to know @MrsW9. Sounds like that was not the sort of experience @Feis123 had, but good to know it’s the case in some places.

Feis123 · 11/05/2026 22:15

WearyAuldWumman · 11/05/2026 22:04

I did think that it was pretty rotten: those of us in the state sector were providing extra tuition to our pupils for free. I recall thinking that private school parents were being had.

You have no idea how 'pre-loved' we were. I am a state school product myself and thought I was buying something special (makes sense, does it not, when you paying this much). So we were scammed by the school firstly and then by the sneaky bursary applicants who pleaded poverty and got away with it. Then we, mugs, who paid full fees, could not afford to send our children on school trips, whilst bursary recipients went on most school trips (extra payment). I wrote to the school's finance department, no avail. They don't even do proper due dil. We had a BA pilot's child on a bursary.

IsabellaVireauxLaurent · 11/05/2026 22:15

sickofthissick · 11/05/2026 21:46

Am I being thick? I don't understaaaaand!!!

from buying them, im guessing its because of how the foil folds around the egg that makes it difficult for the barcodes to scan at times

godmum56 · 11/05/2026 22:16

Lollygaggle · 11/05/2026 22:07

The average U.K. reading age is between 9 and 11. As a dentist you realise most people cannot understand the written information eg medical history forms, consent forms , letters etc given to them and a large percentage of the U.K. population is functionally illiterate .

This is not about understanding medical jargon it’s about being able to parse the meaning of a “your appointment has been moved” letter etc.

many years ago (more than 30) I volunteered with Adult Literacy, not sure if its still called that, and this is what were were told then. We were told that the Sun Newspaper is deliberately written to have a reading age of 10 years old. While I think this is not by any means a happy fact, I think it means that its essential that letters from hospitals, and so on should be written to take this into account. We can't improve the level of literacy any time soon but we can try to ensure that people can use what they have.

StarsShiningOnANighttimeSea · 11/05/2026 22:16

LastHotel · 11/05/2026 22:04

That sounds judgmental. Even if you are vigilant and are identified with very early stage breast cancer, a third of patients go on to develop metastatic cancer. Spread to skin is also well known, and those skin lesions can fungate, and there’s very little that can be done about it. I have breast cancer in my skin. I started out as stage 0, not even cancer.

I don't think the post you've quoted was judgemental at all. Fungating cancers are a very memorable sight and smell (the poor woman with one I encountered early in my career will also stick with me for life), but we know it's no fault of the poor person suffering the disease. Cancer sucks, and fungating lesions are something I wouldn't wish on my worst enemy.

I'm in theatres now, and I can eyeball how much blood a person has lost from the colour of the swabs and (in thankfully rare occasions) puddles on the floor.

KilkennyCats · 11/05/2026 22:17

Lollygaggle · 11/05/2026 22:07

The average U.K. reading age is between 9 and 11. As a dentist you realise most people cannot understand the written information eg medical history forms, consent forms , letters etc given to them and a large percentage of the U.K. population is functionally illiterate .

This is not about understanding medical jargon it’s about being able to parse the meaning of a “your appointment has been moved” letter etc.

Most people??

Careygetoutyourkey · 11/05/2026 22:21

Screenwriter here. You put on the TV and there seems to be so much to watch. But it’s very, very, difficult to get most dramas made. Films are even worse. Projects often knock around in development/pre production for years (sometimes even decades) before they are anywhere close to being onscreen.

Firetreev · 11/05/2026 22:23

StandingDeskDisco · 11/05/2026 13:57

I have had many jobs in both public sector and private sector offices.

In the private sector, at junior / admin levels, you work your socks off. If they can possibly make your role redundant, or just not replace you when you leave, they will, and expect the rest of the team to pick up the work.

In the public sector (civil service, local authority, and FE college, but I expect the other organisations are similar), you can work at about 2/3 of the pace or less, and 'empire building' is rife: this means that every manager tries to get as many staff under them as possible. A manager with a team of six will moan to his superior how everyone is flat out and overworked, they need another person. The manager is happy to agree, because he has no idea of the actual workload, and then he also gets more people under him.
So there are hundreds of thousands, possibly millions, of under-employed people working at half-speed paid for by our taxes.

This may be your experience, but isn't true across the board in the public sector. Many teams work with skeleton staffing, and people often aren't replaced when they resign.

AngelinaFibres · 11/05/2026 22:23

GuelderRoses · 11/05/2026 12:04

The accountancy practice I worked for had some very interesting clients, that's for sure.😂

My exhusband was an accountant. He had many clients who were one payment failure away from the whole house of cards collapsing. From the outside ( private schools,flash cars, lovely homes, lovely clothes,nice holidays) it all looked fabulous but it was all smoke and mirrors.

Jardenalia · 11/05/2026 22:25

Filling in a personal tax return is piss easy so I don’t know why people bother paying us to do it for them

FogBrain · 11/05/2026 22:27

Dog trainer here.

Famous “trainer” Cesar Milan uses inhumane methods and spouts absolute rubbish about how dogs think and learn.

Ditto Graeme Hall, the twat with a cravat. He’s known in the industry as an absolute charlatan whose “people” often contact proper trainers in whatever area he’s working in, to ask them for their expertise since Graeme hasn’t got the first clue.

And no - proper trainers aren’t “jealous of his success”. In fact by rights we should thank him and his ilk; we make a lot of money fixing the dogs whose owners have made worse by following his advice. But it’s crap for the dogs who have to suffer.

BrickBiscuit · 11/05/2026 22:28

Ofgem does not require electricity supply companies to prove that their '100% Renewable' electricity is purchased from 100% renewable sources. They only have to show Ofgem that they have bought an equivalent quantity of REGO (Renewable Energy Guarantee of Origin) certificates to use '100% Renewable' branding. However, REGOs can be bought on a secondary market, after the electricity they relate to has already been sold to a different customer (maybe an industrial user). That means you can pay your supplier for '100% Renewable' electricity and they can buy it from gas, nuclear or coal generators to sell on to you. It is still legal for them to then say 'all our electricity comes from solar, wind and hydro'. Insane!

Lollygaggle · 11/05/2026 22:31

KilkennyCats · 11/05/2026 22:17

Most people??

Yes , most people , including many with jobs you would have thought needed good literacy skills .

You need to limit amount of information , length of written communication, vocabulary and even then many will not be able to fully get the meaning .

It’s important because it’s the reason so many medical history questionnaires are filled out wrongly or incompletely and need verbal confirmation.

godmum56 · 11/05/2026 22:32

FogBrain · 11/05/2026 22:27

Dog trainer here.

Famous “trainer” Cesar Milan uses inhumane methods and spouts absolute rubbish about how dogs think and learn.

Ditto Graeme Hall, the twat with a cravat. He’s known in the industry as an absolute charlatan whose “people” often contact proper trainers in whatever area he’s working in, to ask them for their expertise since Graeme hasn’t got the first clue.

And no - proper trainers aren’t “jealous of his success”. In fact by rights we should thank him and his ilk; we make a lot of money fixing the dogs whose owners have made worse by following his advice. But it’s crap for the dogs who have to suffer.

This. absolutely this.