Please help me out of this rut

[Needcalminthechaos]

I am stuck I’m a rut and don’t know how to get out of it.

We are over run with toys and clothes as I find it really hard to get rid of any of their stuff, especially their clothes.

The house is a mess and I feel like I have zero energy to even attempt attacking it.

I feel emotionally and physically drained and don’t know how to find any motivation.

Desperate for some help or advice on how to start.

If you can't get Stacey in to sort your life out, I'd suggest that you lay it all out and whatever doesn't fit you get rid of for charity. Think that it's going to a good home - we have a baby bank that supports children in need/families fleeing DV, so it feels good to help.

Obviously keep the odd sentimental item such as first shoes/christening gown/favourite cardi grandma hand knitted.

I have made a start on some of the clothes. I have bags full, all clean that need to be sorted.