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What little acts of rebellion or activism do you do?

950 replies

Steelworks · 20/04/2026 07:25

I’m not talking about going on marches, but minor things, that you know about.

Mine is I won’t play Michael Jackson songs, after all the alleged behaviour, which certainly wouldn’t be accepted by today’s standards.

The second is I won’t buy McCain products, after they put out an advert for Smileys, which referred to ‘knocker’s’ in them. I thought that language had died out in the seventies.

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BashfulClam · 20/04/2026 12:30

I wear a necklace that is the female symbol (circle with the + sign) I accept trans people but I also believe biological females need protected status. I also refuse to be called ‘cis’ I am female I don’t need any other description than that.

Star2004k · 20/04/2026 12:31

As a newbie 13 years ago at work I saw through our director and I refuse to bow down to them still even after being warned about their influence in the company on my career.

Motnight · 20/04/2026 12:32

pinkpony88 · 20/04/2026 07:59

Only really relevant to me, but I refuse to go to a really nice local cafe because the owner was mean to my sister at primary school 🤣
My sister eats there… but I won’t 🤭

Haha! I refuse to eat at a local cafe that had my DD in to do a trial unpaid shift and didn't give her the job. 12 years ago.

plafonds · 20/04/2026 12:33

8TinyToeBeans · 20/04/2026 12:11

I don't wear makeup or spend money on a skincare routine.
I don't buy pink tax stuff.
I am aging - grey hair, wrinkles, it's natural.
I wear what is comfortable and suitable.
I don't buy from shein, temu, etc. I buy a small number of items of quality clothes per year which last. I don't follow fashion so it doesn't matter how old clothes are.
I report thirst trap photos on instagram even though they don't breach guidelines. Nothing is going to happen, but it's cathartic to hit report on people hanging their cleavage out in front of the camera, or their skin tight painted on leggings at the gym. If men showed what women show in the gym, we'd crucify them!
If someone is driving up my arse, I drop my speed to a few mph below the speed limit. Only in 20/30mph zones though - anywhere else I'd rather have the impatient eejit go past rather than drive dangerously behind me.

I think it is wise to drop the speed if someone is driving close behind, from the point of view of safety, the faster you go the more likely they will crash into you if have to do an emergency stop. I usually pull in to let them go by though if I can.

FeelingAntsy · 20/04/2026 12:33

Mapletree1985 · 20/04/2026 09:18

I don't own a car and take it as a challenge to use public transport for everything. Once I brought a new double mattress home on the bus. I called the bus operator beforehand to make sure they would allow it.

I operate a cash economy and use a dumb phone. I don't do internet banking.

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I love you and want to be you.

Tensetickle · 20/04/2026 12:35

Tontostitis · 20/04/2026 11:36

I rammed a mans legs with my granddaughter s buggy on the school run recently. He walked diagonally across me and I would have risked being left in traffic if I'd given way. He apologised profusely but it was spectacularly patriarchal and my husband told him to be more careful in future or high I then had to point out was fairly patriarchal of itself

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I am a wheelchair user and I have joked about getting razor wire added to my footrest to deal with the men who try and walk straight at me and expect me to move out of their way! If they really insist on their game of chicken I just stop in my tracks, I'm not deviating from my route just to appease their sense of entitlement

AmIReallyTheGrownup · 20/04/2026 12:35

TheHungryHungryLandsharks · 20/04/2026 12:19

Or they can park in disabled bay, or the parent and child bay.

9/10 times it's someone in a Range Rover. And we all know what sort of people drive those cars. Ones that can't drive.

Fat chance. You need a blue badge for a disabled bay, there are loads of people who have a mobility limitation but don’t qualify, and the P&C bays are filled with all sorts - hotted up hatches, work vans, etc are common around here.

So as I did yesterday I went to the back of the car park so that I could hope to come back and still wrestle my toddler into a rear facing car seat without some self appointed car park boss deciding to park as close as humanly possible to me for shits and giggles.

CatrionaBalfour · 20/04/2026 12:35

Tensetickle · 20/04/2026 12:35

I am a wheelchair user and I have joked about getting razor wire added to my footrest to deal with the men who try and walk straight at me and expect me to move out of their way! If they really insist on their game of chicken I just stop in my tracks, I'm not deviating from my route just to appease their sense of entitlement

Good 👍!

Rewis · 20/04/2026 12:36

I refer to the upcoming football world cup as men's world cup.

Creamteasandbumblebees · 20/04/2026 12:37

Won't go in to Starbucks
Only shop locally and sustainability
Won't drink tap water
Teach boys positive Masculinity
Starting to phase out social media

GinaandGin · 20/04/2026 12:39

Tontostitis · 20/04/2026 11:36

I rammed a mans legs with my granddaughter s buggy on the school run recently. He walked diagonally across me and I would have risked being left in traffic if I'd given way. He apologised profusely but it was spectacularly patriarchal and my husband told him to be more careful in future or high I then had to point out was fairly patriarchal of itself

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👏
Love this.
Calling out bad behaviour

CopeNorth · 20/04/2026 12:40

Will not watch films by Woody Allen and Roman Polanski.

Buy only vegan / cruelty free products.

(Pretty much) only read fiction written by women.

CopeNorth · 20/04/2026 12:41

CatrionaBalfour · 20/04/2026 12:35

Good 👍!

Stealing this!

Ferguson0909 · 20/04/2026 12:42

Nmss · 20/04/2026 07:54

I have a set of earrings that are only three little green, white and purple gems.

I'm veggi and won't buy halal or kosher (not many local places sell kosher but we live in an area where there are many halal take aways etc) for my family.

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What do you mean “you won’t buy halal?”
cheese is halal, vegetables are halal, water is halal
i can understand don’t buy halal meat as you are veggie.
but what is the reasoning for the rest?

Wicked123 · 20/04/2026 12:45

CatrionaBalfour · 20/04/2026 12:15

So this is about Jews...not Israelis?
What are "honourable Jews", in your opinion?

Honourable Jews and Israeli’s are, In MY opinion, those who can practice their religion but also stand up to the oppression and genocide being inflicted on the Palestinian people. Surely no one believes innocent children should die or be orphaned in the name of a dispute over whos right it is to live on the land? I am in NO way calling all followers of a particular religion or all inhabitants of a particular country dishonourable… just those who support genocide - peace out ✌️

ConstanzeMozart · 20/04/2026 12:45

I refer to men's football as men's football.

I don't say trans women, I say TIMs or men who say they're women.

A new cafe in my neighbourhood set up right across the road from an existing one (they're both indies) and was painted the colour that refers to the existing one's name (think 'Blue Frog Cafe' and the new one is painted blue). I see it as an act of provocation and refuse to give them my business. Plus the owner of the existing one says they haven't been over to say hello, which most of the new small businesses in my neighbourhood do. Rude.

There's a small precinct that pedestrians use, with railings at each end to slow/deter cyclists. It never has, so the council recently put up 'no cycling' signs. Of course ignorant entitled people still cycle through it, but if one approaches me when I'm near the railings I stand my ground so they have to get off or stop. If I see which way they're going through the railings, I deliberately walk that way too, so they have to cede to me. I will probably get myself hurt doing it, but I'm just so sick of them all.

ItTook9Years · 20/04/2026 12:46

Have boycotted Nestle and all associated companies for decades.

Been boycotting M+S since “knicker review gate”

I ask men if they will be changing their names when they get married, or going part time when they have children. I ask men the same questions about domestic activities that most would ask women.

I don’t eat anywhere that only has a vegan burger as it’s non-meat option or doesn’t state what the vegetarian option is on its Sunday lunch menu.

I don’t display pronouns.

I don’t use my husband’s name or Mrs as a title. And correct anyone that assumes I do. I’m not the first parental contact at school. There are no girl jobs or boy jobs in our house. I’ve never worked part time.

SerafinasGoose · 20/04/2026 12:50

Tensetickle · 20/04/2026 12:23

I have always remembered with huge gratefulness the bank employees who were so decent with me

  • firstly when I escaped an abusive relationship and discovered my ex was draining the joint account that was used to pay nursery fees and mortgage etc. I went into the bank in tears and they blocked him so swiftly.
  • and secondly when (in the aftermath of that) I was struggling with a hugely stressful life and MH problems and I didn't realise I had gone into my overdraft (I was paying the right amount in, but hadn't checked it in the chaos and at some point an unexpected amount had gone out). They refunded the charges and were so kind about it.

Bank employees were definitely the unexpected heroes for me at that time.

I was quite surprised at a formal government website - I forget how many years ago it was now that I read it - advising women on the (quite unnecessarily complicated) process of what to do surrounding the issue of their family names after marriage.

One of its pearls of wisdom was that - and I paraphrase - even if you choose not to change your name, 'you will want to change your title to "Mrs"'.

Will I?

I didn't.

Pessismistic · 20/04/2026 12:51

Steelworks · 20/04/2026 07:25

I’m not talking about going on marches, but minor things, that you know about.

Mine is I won’t play Michael Jackson songs, after all the alleged behaviour, which certainly wouldn’t be accepted by today’s standards.

The second is I won’t buy McCain products, after they put out an advert for Smileys, which referred to ‘knocker’s’ in them. I thought that language had died out in the seventies.

Op you say about Michael Jackson do you have kids? I was only thinking about this the other as I plan to see his movie soon. If you had kids abused by this famous man why would you take money and stop him going to jail? Because if that was me or my dc I would have wanted him in prison for this but they only wanted his money? Why?

Friendlygingercat · 20/04/2026 12:51

I am old now. So if I want to do an act of rebellion I come out and do it!

But when I lived with my parents in my teens my mother was nosy and thought she had the right to open my mail. So I took an accommodation address in a local shop. I was paid by transfer so never saw a single bank statement or knew how much I earned.

She used to look in my wardrobe to see if I had anything new then interrogate me as to where I bought it and how much it cost. I had at least half a dozen dresses and three pairs of shoes in my locker at work. I used to go out in the same old dress and change when I got there. Every so often I would filter one into my wardrobe. If she asked about it I would tell her it was £1 in a dress agency.

My parents did noty like me to see too much of my grandmother because of a family rift. While at secondary school I told them I had netball and hockey practice after school twice a week and used to sneak off to see her. I bloody hated sport and would have cut my throat with a rusty saw rather than willingly enter a team.

CatrionaBalfour · 20/04/2026 12:51

Wicked123 · 20/04/2026 12:45

Honourable Jews and Israeli’s are, In MY opinion, those who can practice their religion but also stand up to the oppression and genocide being inflicted on the Palestinian people. Surely no one believes innocent children should die or be orphaned in the name of a dispute over whos right it is to live on the land? I am in NO way calling all followers of a particular religion or all inhabitants of a particular country dishonourable… just those who support genocide - peace out ✌️

I'm glad you're not calling out all Jews, although by labelling some "honourable" you can see how one would conclude this, as by extension, some are dishonourable.
Of course not all Israelis are Jews, and many Israelis are Arabs, so I don't know where they would fit into your honourable grouping.

ThatAquaRobin · 20/04/2026 12:53

I move Israeli fruit out of eyesight of shoppers.

WildCats24 · 20/04/2026 12:54

Rewis · 20/04/2026 12:36

I refer to the upcoming football world cup as men's world cup.

The Male Lionesses.

ItsaFairWind · 20/04/2026 12:54

queenofwandss · 20/04/2026 07:36

Watching for ideas, I like this thread.

i try not to buy Nestle
I block the Instagram accounts of people associated with Trump or anyone like the kardashians (apparently blocking affects their revenue from platforms?)
I also report every single AI post that is shown to me without my asking on any platform

So, does this mean you report posts obviously made by Ai, posts using Ai, or posts advertising Ai? I'm thoroughly sick of Ai tripe and I'm in a creative industry being decimated, but even bloody community posts are using Ai to create crappy posters etc and I'm not sure how far to go.

SingleSexSpacesInSchools · 20/04/2026 12:55

I ignore the opinions of anyone with pronouns in their bio.