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Crushingdandelions · 19/04/2026 10:04

First sign you're of a certain age...you always pay in cash and count out every last frickin' bit of change no matter how big the queue is behind you.

Just don't? Use a card please. I don't want to count out your 5p pieces.

Also - why do you need a receipt when you have bought 2 items worth £1.49?

OP posts:
HoppityBun · 19/04/2026 12:11

BigAnne · 19/04/2026 11:51

Age 63 and you've not progressed beyond standing at a till?

Ouch! That’s mean

Meadowfinch · 19/04/2026 12:11

Gall10 · 19/04/2026 10:05

Firstly… apart from an insult, what is a boomer?
Secondly… what fucking business is it of yours how people pay for goods?

This. So the whole world has to rush because you are too impatient and ill mannered to wait 5 seconds ......!

That says a lot about you.

LiviaDrusillaAugusta · 19/04/2026 12:12

HoppityBun · 19/04/2026 12:11

Ouch! That’s mean

No meaner than the nasty shit the OP is saying.

Whosthetabbynow · 19/04/2026 12:12

I’m a boomer. I’ve not used cash for years. Five pence pieces? WTF?

MoonWoman69 · 19/04/2026 12:12

Jesus, is it a particularly bad menopause?! At 63, (if that's your actual age, which I doubt) you should know better.
I always use cash for my own purchases, as I like to keep track of what I've got.in my purse. And I have never come across anyone who acts like you!
I refuse to use self scan, the more people that use them, the more cashiers are out of a job.
Maybe a new career move? Lighthouse keeper would suit you just fine, sounds like you'd be doing us all a favour!

xanthomelana · 19/04/2026 12:13

LiviaDrusillaAugusta · 19/04/2026 12:10

I confess that on the odd occasion I do pay with cash, I like to give the cashier the change as well (so if £10.30, given them a £20 note and 30p in change. Older cashiers are great with it and usually appreciate it. But the mental gymnastics that some of the younger cashiers have to go through (despite having the till to work it out) is kind of entertaining.

I’ll be honest I’m rubbish when people give me the odd change, it’s because we have the £5, £10, £20 button on the till and it’s just easier to press it. I have zero excuses because I’m in my forties, maths was never my forte 😂

Fgfgfg · 19/04/2026 12:13

IT system went down at work recently and the canteen was only taking cash. I paid for my breakfast and ate it in front of my colleague who already has form for looking down on me for moving back to cash (easier to keep track of). I took pity on her and lent her a fiver.

BillericayDickie · 19/04/2026 12:13

i wonder what the deletion message will be.

Port1aCastis · 19/04/2026 12:13

Crushingdandelions · 19/04/2026 10:04

First sign you're of a certain age...you always pay in cash and count out every last frickin' bit of change no matter how big the queue is behind you.

Just don't? Use a card please. I don't want to count out your 5p pieces.

Also - why do you need a receipt when you have bought 2 items worth £1.49?

First sign you're a different certain age is coming on to MN and being ageist and nasty

LiviaDrusillaAugusta · 19/04/2026 12:15

xanthomelana · 19/04/2026 12:13

I’ll be honest I’m rubbish when people give me the odd change, it’s because we have the £5, £10, £20 button on the till and it’s just easier to press it. I have zero excuses because I’m in my forties, maths was never my forte 😂

🤣 It’s the ones with attitude like the OP (because it’s obvious) I like to do it to - I wouldn’t do it to you 🤣🤣

HoppityBun · 19/04/2026 12:15

LiviaDrusillaAugusta · 19/04/2026 12:12

No meaner than the nasty shit the OP is saying.

It’s a race to the bottom, then

ilovesooty · 19/04/2026 12:16

PurplishGemstones · 19/04/2026 10:59

They might be buying items for someone else so need receipt. I have to keep receipts if I buy something for a person I care for with learning disability just in case we are audited

Same here. I have to account for every penny of my daughter's cash that I spend on her behalf. I mean, I could just pay for small items myself I suppose but over a month it adds up to a lot.

Yes. I've just had surgery and paid for carers for a few days because I live on my own. I was a bit embarrassed because I coped well on discharge and there wasn't enough for them to do. I asked one of them to go to the supermarket and I had to give her cash. She returned with a receipt that I had to sign then she had to scan and upload it.

stayathomegardener · 19/04/2026 12:20

Perhaps consider thanking them for keeping the cash system going and hopefully delaying a cashless society, have a read up on the negatives of the latter.

xanthomelana · 19/04/2026 12:21

LiviaDrusillaAugusta · 19/04/2026 12:15

🤣 It’s the ones with attitude like the OP (because it’s obvious) I like to do it to - I wouldn’t do it to you 🤣🤣

I honestly don’t care how people pay. I don’t get to go on the tills a lot now so I quite enjoy a stint every now and then when we are short staffed and busy. The way I look at it is if they take a while looking for the odd bit of cash then it’s only fair I get the same amount of time to work out the change 😂

When the card machines go down (happens more than people think) cash is the only option so that’s why I prefer it. Nothing worse than having to put a trolley full of stock back because people don’t have cash on them and don’t even have their card to take money out of the machine because they just use their phone.

AngryHerring · 19/04/2026 12:22

Crushingdandelions · 19/04/2026 10:21

@MrThorpeHazell you are so right - I literally could not have coped 😄

but if you are 63 you definitely should remember the "old" money - I'm slightly younger than you, i remember that very well indeed.

(I identify with gen X because i deffo don't identify with boomers, Gen Jones sounds about right, but I'm still identifying with Gen X)

Goldenbear · 19/04/2026 12:23

backslashruby · 19/04/2026 11:40

It's not just people paying cash who hold up the queue. There seems to be some sort of dance that people learn when it comes to paying with their phone. Get out phone. Stare at phone. Tap tap tap. Stare at phone again. Show phone to till operator. Stare at phone again. Tap tap bloody tap. I was in Morrisons recently and the customer had her More card on her phone. Only problem was, she couldn't find it. She was stood there just continually going through the phone looking for it. Eventually the till operator paused her transaction so that the rest of us had a chance of getting home before midnight. I was 2 customers behind her and she was still doing the stare tap stare tap dance as I was leaving.

I do that in Morrisons as I only go to the one where my Mum lives 5 hours away, I don't have a physical card. I also did this at John Lewis recently as again I so rarely go in there that I don't have a physical copy so I am looking for it on my phone. The nice thing about John Lewis though is that the customer service is usually over and above so the man on the till asked me to check if I had any rewards which made it longer, I said we should leave it as there was a queue but he insisted that I was a customer too and had just as much right to take my time on this.

ilovesooty · 19/04/2026 12:25

BillericayDickie · 19/04/2026 12:09

as a "boomer" I have not paid in cash for years.
why do mn hq allow such ageist crap.

They do unfortunately. The thread was hidden for a bit but it's been reinstated. I've just about given up reporting ageism now.

ArtAngel · 19/04/2026 12:26

Oh no, you get paid to take people’s money, the money that pays your wages, but you don’t want to take people’s money?

LeticiaMorales · 19/04/2026 12:26

ilovesooty · 19/04/2026 12:25

They do unfortunately. The thread was hidden for a bit but it's been reinstated. I've just about given up reporting ageism now.

I reported it, but was told that it "didn't break talk guidelines" which I find astonishing, if you read the guidelines. Ageism really is the only acceptable prejudice now.

BillericayDickie · 19/04/2026 12:27

ilovesooty · 19/04/2026 12:25

They do unfortunately. The thread was hidden for a bit but it's been reinstated. I've just about given up reporting ageism now.

doesn't surprise me. I suppose because the op said they were a boomer (pmsl as if.) that will be the excuse.

ilovesooty · 19/04/2026 12:28

LeticiaMorales · 19/04/2026 12:26

I reported it, but was told that it "didn't break talk guidelines" which I find astonishing, if you read the guidelines. Ageism really is the only acceptable prejudice now.

Sadly that doesn't surprise me.

ERthree · 19/04/2026 12:31

While cash is legal tender in this country i will continue to use it. If i want a receipt for the box of tissue that i have paid cash for i will have it, all you have to do is push a button. Why would i need a receipt ? If i visit the store next to yours and they sell the same tissues how will i prove i bought them in your store and haven't pinched them? If counting cash or pushing a button is so difficult for you get a job you can cope with.

ERthree · 19/04/2026 12:33

Goldenbear · 19/04/2026 12:23

I do that in Morrisons as I only go to the one where my Mum lives 5 hours away, I don't have a physical card. I also did this at John Lewis recently as again I so rarely go in there that I don't have a physical copy so I am looking for it on my phone. The nice thing about John Lewis though is that the customer service is usually over and above so the man on the till asked me to check if I had any rewards which made it longer, I said we should leave it as there was a queue but he insisted that I was a customer too and had just as much right to take my time on this.

You could always find the card on your phone before you join the queue.

Lurkingandlearning · 19/04/2026 12:41

As well as the yoga and meditation @PoachedSmoke suggested, perhaps you should increase your fibre and water intake because it seems very likely that you are constipated.

QPZM · 19/04/2026 12:43

WhereYouLeftIt · 19/04/2026 10:54

That doesn't stop you from being an ageist arsehole, it just means you've internalised it. There are misogynist women and homophobic gay men, what makes you think being 63 means you can't look down on older people just because you are one?

And, at 63 you're barely a boomer, scraping in at the tail-end. The bulk of boomers will be 70+. You hit adulthood in the 1980s when times were a damned sight better than the 1960s and 1970s.

Lets face it, anyone can be any age they want on MN if they think it bolsters their argument in some way.

Can't be arsed to check but it wouldn't surprise me if the OP has no posting history under this name either.