I’m horrified at this.
Boys and men are influenced so much by those around them. It doesn’t matter how they’re raised, by secondary school their peers have much more influence than parents.
I always cringe at the MN mothers who say their boys would never, when the truth is they don’t know. Men behave very differently in groups than in the presence of the women in their lives. For most men away from their families rape jokes, porn, “locker room talk” are standard.
What astounds me is the number of women still with their head in the sand at how dysfunctional and inhumane so many men are. If women defended women like men defend men we wouldn’t have half the issues we have.