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Ex says nasty things to the kids

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Ohhush26 · 12/04/2026 12:27

Ex pisses me of he has the kids every other weekend they are 9&10.

Every weekend they return saying dad said which is things like.

1)I still love your mum. Me and her would still be together if it wasn't for C.

2)Tells ds theres fuck all wrong with him hes not autistic.

3)I can't remember the wording but I know spastic school was within the sentence.

4)Told them that C 's kid will be bought up like a fucking prick.

5)Told them your mum is on them fucking injections thats why shes lost weight. Boys replied I haven't seen her inject anything. He replied well she fucking is shes just not doing it infront of you.

6)Told them to mske sure they get a good job when older and don't end up like C,L and soon to be A. Meaning C claims benefits due to metal heath stuff. L has diagnosed mental health issues and also 2 children with special needs one of them more complex. A is only 15 and still at school.

7)Slags C off for dying his hair pink purple . Having fake nails. Wearing make . Piercings.

8)Asked the kids if C comes over much. And said its better he doesn't. You don't need him around.

This part is my reply to him if I could that is I'm only saying it here not to him.

  1. no we would not be together. I do not love you. Your meant to be in a happy relationship. Why you saying stuff like that.

  2. it takes a long time to get a diagnosis. This wasn't something I started . It was started by professionals. I can't just decide ds has autism just the same as you can't override them. With your judgement. And what was it you said a while back you found it hard to accept at first but you get it now. Well that bullshit isn't it.

  3. This is the reason. Your own child does not want to tell you hes going to SEN school from year 7. A child has to protect himself from his own father. How sad. And hes alot more intelligent than you will ever be.

  4. says dad of the century

  5. if only I could afford weight lose injections. To be fair I am having some help just not what you think. What's it to you? Just an excuse to slag kids mum of to them. Its sad you think thats ok.

  6. pretty sure your own daughter is on benefits bringing up her children. And slagging of a 15 year old child who's still in education. For your information she already has a college place for September .

  7. honestly you have to slag c of just because he has fun with make up and nails. Do you know E doesn't kike usung hair gel he told me he uses it when hes going with you so you don't moan. He also wanted to paint his nail black for fun. But then he realised he was going to
    Your house the following day. Thats him protecting himself from you.

  8. the kids want him to come over they enjoy being around him.

Your one sad toxic person 🖕

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YouCantOpenAWindowInSpace · 12/04/2026 13:48

Your poor DC.
My own DF was like this about our DM because she left him, whereas she never said a bad word about him, despite all his failing.
Your DC will (hopefully) realise, like my siblings and I did, that he is a bitter waste of space. When they get to the age where they can choose if they want to see him or not, chances are they will choose not to.
Well done for getting it out on here, rather than wasting your breath responding.
Flowers

Ohhush26 · 12/04/2026 14:41

YouCantOpenAWindowInSpace · 12/04/2026 13:48

Your poor DC.
My own DF was like this about our DM because she left him, whereas she never said a bad word about him, despite all his failing.
Your DC will (hopefully) realise, like my siblings and I did, that he is a bitter waste of space. When they get to the age where they can choose if they want to see him or not, chances are they will choose not to.
Well done for getting it out on here, rather than wasting your breath responding.
Flowers

They only thing i have said to them is do you like C coming here. They said yes I said thats all that matters.

I also told them sometimes adults say the wrong thing because they don't always understand.

Ds said he doesn't want his father knowing what type of school hes going to for year 7. I'm not sure if we can keep that up for 6 years

I don't really give a shit what he says, its more the fact hes saying it to young children .

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