I saved all of ds / dd baby things in case we have another . Everything is in lovely condition and things like the double buggy are almost brand new. Dh has taken it upon himself to offer a relative of his ‘anything she wants’ as she’s single and struggling. He told me she will be popping round at the weekend to choose so we need to get everything out of the loft / out of the wardrobe. I’ve said no and made him message her to explain that actually we can’t give anything as he hadn’t asked me !!!!
He’s now saying I’m selfish and had I been kinder we could have just got new anyway if we had another and he’s not even sure now if he wants a third with somebody who is as unkind as me when someone else is in real need right now. I’m really annoyed as I’m not ready to make a decision now and also not ready to get rid of the baby things. He’s trying to make me feel guilty and I think that’s quite unfair.