Does anyone remember the poster who had the older partner. Partner was the father of OP's ex best friend (ex friends, because their friendship was damaged when she got together with the father).
OP was over 40 and unexpectedly pregnant. Her partner was horrified and wanted her to have an abortion. But she didn't want that.
Every now and then, I think of her. The baby would probably nearing 1 (or more!) now if she'd had it.