My Dh of 52 years came downstairs this morning looking very pleased with himself ,entered the kitchen as if going onstage and very cheerily wished me a happy birthday. I'm packing our suitcase for a birthday celebration city break so he couldnt really forget ( we have never done presents or cards.) But he is being very smug that he got his greetings in without a reminder phone call from his children. When do I tell him my birthday is tomorrow?