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Out-of-the-blue “Take this as a threat” message WWYD?

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LuckyOliveDeer · 01/03/2026 22:16

I’ve known this person for about 3 years and we were texting normally yesterday. They live 4 hours away so I can’t go to see them.

Tonight not long ago completely out of the blue, they sent me a single message saying: “Take this as a threat.”
We haven’t had an argument and there’s no obvious reason for it

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IsThisLifeNow · 01/03/2026 22:17

I'd text back asking if they were OK?

FionnulaTheCooler · 01/03/2026 22:18

I'd think they've probably sent it to the wrong person by mistake. Reply and ask a threat to do what, exactly.

Chiefangel · 01/03/2026 22:18

Text back a ?

Gonnagetgoingreturnsagain · 01/03/2026 22:18

Weird. I’d ask for clarification it was meant for me.

PhilosophicalCheeseSandwich · 01/03/2026 22:18

Sounds like they've sent this to the wrong person if it's completely out of the blue in an otherwise friendly exchange.

saveforthat · 01/03/2026 22:19

What were the texts immediately preceeding the threat one?

Gazelda · 01/03/2026 22:19

“Explain please”

LuckyOliveDeer · 01/03/2026 22:21

they have now said they were making a joke.
I don’t find it funny

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Endofyear · 01/03/2026 23:22

Is this a bloke? I'd block him if that's his idea of a joke 😠

LuckyOliveDeer · 02/03/2026 00:03

Endofyear · 01/03/2026 23:22

Is this a bloke? I'd block him if that's his idea of a joke 😠

Yes
I might but have known him for 3 years

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SleepingStandingUp · 02/03/2026 00:37

Could they have meant it for someone else, snet it you by mistake and trying to cover up? Do they have an ex?

pizzaHeart · 02/03/2026 00:43

Txt him back “ok” and don’t engage in conversations further, then sort of phase him out gradually.
It’s a very weird kind of joke and would put me straight off.

ultracynic · 02/03/2026 00:46

I’d reply “bit weird mate, you’re gonna have to explain”

UnsocialButterflyy · 02/03/2026 08:57

I would have just said excuse me? Even if it’s a joke, that’s a bit weird. I wouldn’t find it funny either.

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