It's been drawn to my attention that a previous username I was using referred to a much loved previous mumsnetter who died of cancer. I had changed my username to make a previous post about a casual situation I was in with a man - i.e. 'a bit of fun'
I've only been on MN on and off for about two years, never came across this poster, and honestly had no idea - so apologies to anyone I may have offended. It was a genuine mistake.
However, being called creepy and being accused of appropriating this name deliberately is really unfair and hurtful when I had no idea this person ever existed.