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Today's by-election... how do you think it will go?

575 replies

Westfacing · 26/02/2026 15:11

A few months back according to the media it was Reform's for the taking - now it's a three-way bet between Labour, Greens and Reform

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Playingvideogames · 27/02/2026 10:41

Screenshot for anyone not on Insta.

Today's by-election... how do you think it will go?
Passingthrough123 · 27/02/2026 10:41

AStonedRose · 27/02/2026 10:33

Well it seems to be a fact. I've acknowledged it. repeatedly. It's shit.

Do you acknowledge the same about christians, and Reform voters?

… and Catholics and Baptists and Scientologists and Orthodox Jews? There are a lot of religions that are against homosexuality and/or same-sex marriage, but according to that poster, only Muslims are the issue.

AStonedRose · 27/02/2026 10:41

Playingvideogames · 27/02/2026 10:40

It's a random Insta account with a few thousand followers, around 0.2% of the UK's muslim population.

pointythings · 27/02/2026 10:42

Playingvideogames · 27/02/2026 10:40

I knew you'd post this!

It's one organisation. Unless you can prove that all Muslims belong to that organisation and do what they say, it's meaningless.

Playingvideogames · 27/02/2026 10:42

AStonedRose · 27/02/2026 10:41

It's a random Insta account with a few thousand followers, around 0.2% of the UK's muslim population.

Reform have 340,000 followers 🤷‍♀️ but I imagine far more support than that??

ScribblingPixie · 27/02/2026 10:43

Passingthrough123 · 27/02/2026 09:53

Reminder: it was 500 Muslims saying that out of a poll of 1,000 Muslims out of a population of 3.9 million Muslims out of the overall UK population of 68.8 million. Stop trying to pretend Muslims have the voter clout to overturn LGBTQ+ protections in the UK.

And yes, I'm going to repost this every time you spout that it's half the Muslim population calling for a ban, because you're being disingenuous.

I just looked this up as it seems concerning either way, and apparently a poll of 1,000 is the industry standard and, if carried out correctly, can represent a vastly larger figure to a three per cent margin of error. I would be pleased to read of a poll that showed positive Muslim attitudes towards gay rights.

Playingvideogames · 27/02/2026 10:43

pointythings · 27/02/2026 10:42

I knew you'd post this!

It's one organisation. Unless you can prove that all Muslims belong to that organisation and do what they say, it's meaningless.

You think Instagram support is directly correlative to support in real life?

Playingvideogames · 27/02/2026 10:44

ScribblingPixie · 27/02/2026 10:43

I just looked this up as it seems concerning either way, and apparently a poll of 1,000 is the industry standard and, if carried out correctly, can represent a vastly larger figure to a three per cent margin of error. I would be pleased to read of a poll that showed positive Muslim attitudes towards gay rights.

If somebody can produce such a poll I would welcome it?

AStonedRose · 27/02/2026 10:44

Playingvideogames · 27/02/2026 10:42

Reform have 340,000 followers 🤷‍♀️ but I imagine far more support than that??

I won't dignify this with a response. Jesus, critical thinking nowadays.

TopPocketFind · 27/02/2026 10:44

Playingvideogames · 27/02/2026 10:42

Reform have 340,000 followers 🤷‍♀️ but I imagine far more support than that??

from the UK?

Passingthrough123 · 27/02/2026 10:45

Playingvideogames · 27/02/2026 10:41

Screenshot for anyone not on Insta.

Straw clutching much?

AStonedRose · 27/02/2026 10:45

Playingvideogames · 27/02/2026 10:43

You think Instagram support is directly correlative to support in real life?

Ditto. You post link to insta site, people say it has no followers, you reply 'you think Instagram reflects what people think'? Is this a wind-up now?

WhatsConfusingYouIsTheNatureOfMyGame · 27/02/2026 10:48

Alexandra2001 · 27/02/2026 08:57

Sorry, yet again, you're wrong, as you were on growth figures recently.

Reporting to the volunteers in the polling station is NOT the same as reporting to the authorities.
He can report without making public comment.

I quote:
The officer responsible for running the by-election rejected the claims, saying no reports of family voting had been made by polling station staff

A spokesperson for the acting returning officer said: "Polling station staff are trained to look out for any evidence of undue influence on voters.
"No such issues have been reported today.

"If Democracy Volunteers were so concerned about alleged issues they could and should have raised them with us during polling hours so that immediate action could be taken.
"We have operated a central by-election hub which has been rapidly responding to reported issues during the day, in liaison with the police - who had a presence at every polling station - where necessary.

"It is extremely disappointing that Democracy Volunteers have waited until after polls have closed to make such claims."

A spokesperson for the Electoral Commission, which oversees elections in the UK, said: "We are aware of the report. Electoral offences are a matter for the police. We encourage anyone who believes an offence has occurred to report it to the police.

"The statutory electoral observer Code of Practice says that electoral observers may bring potential irregularities, fraud or significant problems to the attention of elected officials on the spot"

Looks very much like they have an axe to grind or don't know the very rules they (unofficially) seek to uphole.

Edited

It interests me the number of people who've uncritically accepted Democracy Volunteers claims.

Jlom · 27/02/2026 10:50

AStonedRose · 27/02/2026 10:21

I'm not sure about that. On one hand, I think Reform and the Greens are two cheeks of the same proverbial, in the sense that they're promising simple solutions to really complex problems (excepting of course the actual green stuff, where they know their onions, even if I don't always agree).

However:

(i) We've swung horribly as a society away from tolerance and decency over the last decade, mainly driven by the reactionary right. The Greens are, at least, trying to pull things back in the right direction (imo; other views are available)

(ii) There's basically no danger of the Greens forming a government, or even having much influence in a coalition, so they're a safe-enough, and useful protest vote (if you're their way inclined, of course). Reform could well end up in power in a few years. There are actual fascists among their ranks (not all, but enough) and that's quite scary.

Socialists and fascists are much of muchness to me. Fortunately, both DH and I can transfer our jobs to Asia, but I'd much rather stay in the UK.

Playingvideogames · 27/02/2026 10:50

AStonedRose · 27/02/2026 10:44

I won't dignify this with a response. Jesus, critical thinking nowadays.

You asserted that the following numbers indicated general support. I’m just asking you to transfer this to another party, to show it doesn’t quite work.

Playingvideogames · 27/02/2026 10:50

Jlom · 27/02/2026 10:50

Socialists and fascists are much of muchness to me. Fortunately, both DH and I can transfer our jobs to Asia, but I'd much rather stay in the UK.

Yes, me too. 2 cheeks of the same arse as the saying goes.

Playingvideogames · 27/02/2026 10:51

Passingthrough123 · 27/02/2026 10:45

Straw clutching much?

You asked, I answered, you’re now wound up. Don’t ask questions that make you look silly if you don’t want to get flustered.

TopPocketFind · 27/02/2026 10:52

Playingvideogames · 27/02/2026 10:50

Yes, me too. 2 cheeks of the same arse as the saying goes.

Galloway fan?

1dayatatime · 27/02/2026 10:53

pointythings · 27/02/2026 10:07

There's no such thing as 'Muslim attitudes'. Because Muslims aren't a monolithic block of people who all think the same way. Your sloppy stereotyping will get you nowhere.

You are completely correct that not all Muslims like any other religious or ethnic group, think exactly the same.

However there are surveys that show certain views are more prevalent amongst the Muslim faith than say the general population.

For example 62% of the UK population think it would be wrong to outlaw homosexuality, compared to only 28% of Muslims.

Only 24% of British Muslims have a negative view of Hamas compared to 60% of the population.

46% of British Muslims rising to 55% in male British Muslims believe that Jews have too much power over UK Government policy compared to 16% of general population.

39%of British Muslims rising to 44% in British male Muslims believe that Jews have too much power over UK financial system compared to 17% of wider population.

https://www.theguardian.com/uk-news/2016/apr/11/british-muslims-strong-sense-of-belonging-poll-homosexuality-sharia-law

https://henryjacksonsociety.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/04/HJS-Deck-200324-Final.pdf

Half of all British Muslims think homosexuality should be illegal, poll finds

Survey for Channel 4 documentary finds 23% want sharia law but most feel strong connection with Britain

https://www.theguardian.com/uk-news/2016/apr/11/british-muslims-strong-sense-of-belonging-poll-homosexuality-sharia-law

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · 27/02/2026 10:55

Playingvideogames · 27/02/2026 10:31

Do you acknowledge that Muslims are more likely to want homosexuality to be illegal than people of other groups, given 70% of Muslim countries have made homosexuality illegal and some of them punishable by death?

There are majority Christian countries where homosexuality is illegal too.

I don't agree with that at all, but I also note that the people who have come here from conservative Muslim or Christian countries have chosen to move away from those countries, so I don't make any assumptions about their beliefs on the basis of where they come from.

I accept that many Muslims consider homosexuality to be wrong. Many Christians also share this view. I find this belief offensive, personally, but I am also aware that not everyone who holds this belief would necessarily want to impose their views on other people. Some would, of course, and they must be stopped at all costs.

Is there a problem with misogyny and homophobia in certain Muslim communities? Yes, absolutely there is, and it needs to be recognised and tackled. Are those problems unique to Muslim communities? No, they aren't. Are those attitudes universal to all Muslims? No, they aren't.

Not so long ago, attitudes towards homosexuality amongst white British people were very different from what that are now. There are plenty of young British Muslims with more liberal views than their parents and grandparents, and they will drive change in their own communities. I have already seen evidence of this in my own community.

pointythings · 27/02/2026 10:55

1dayatatime · 27/02/2026 10:53

You are completely correct that not all Muslims like any other religious or ethnic group, think exactly the same.

However there are surveys that show certain views are more prevalent amongst the Muslim faith than say the general population.

For example 62% of the UK population think it would be wrong to outlaw homosexuality, compared to only 28% of Muslims.

Only 24% of British Muslims have a negative view of Hamas compared to 60% of the population.

46% of British Muslims rising to 55% in male British Muslims believe that Jews have too much power over UK Government policy compared to 16% of general population.

39%of British Muslims rising to 44% in British male Muslims believe that Jews have too much power over UK financial system compared to 17% of wider population.

https://www.theguardian.com/uk-news/2016/apr/11/british-muslims-strong-sense-of-belonging-poll-homosexuality-sharia-law

https://henryjacksonsociety.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/04/HJS-Deck-200324-Final.pdf

And you'd see very similar views among orthodox Jews and evangelical Christians. The problem is religion.

Passingthrough123 · 27/02/2026 10:56

Playingvideogames · 27/02/2026 10:51

You asked, I answered, you’re now wound up. Don’t ask questions that make you look silly if you don’t want to get flustered.

I'm not remotely wound up or flustered, that's you projecting! I am just appalled by your blatant anti-Muslim stance on this thread and the fact you keep doubling down on it.

I'd love to know what your ultimate wish is. Banning UK Muslims from voting?

TeenagersAngst · 27/02/2026 10:56

Alexandra2001 · 27/02/2026 10:40

Well, you are the one, along with @Playingvideogames constantly going about Muslims and their, alleged, anti gay stance.

btw approx 50% of Tory MPs voted against the Gay Marriage bill, just 13 years ago.

Edited

I'd say 'constantly' is a stretch.

Just amused by the contortions people are going to on here to distance themselves from homophobia within the Muslim community.

Passingthrough123 · 27/02/2026 11:01

TeenagersAngst · 27/02/2026 10:56

I'd say 'constantly' is a stretch.

Just amused by the contortions people are going to on here to distance themselves from homophobia within the Muslim community.

I don't think anyone's denying that homophobia exists within the Muslim community. Just like it does in plenty of other religious communities – including, no doubt, some where Reform voters reside. We're pointing out that in voting terms Muslims are not going to be overturning LGBTQ+ protections in the UK, which is what that PP is implying in their thinly veiled attempt to whip up anti-Muslim sentiment.

TeenagersAngst · 27/02/2026 11:02

Passingthrough123 · 27/02/2026 11:01

I don't think anyone's denying that homophobia exists within the Muslim community. Just like it does in plenty of other religious communities – including, no doubt, some where Reform voters reside. We're pointing out that in voting terms Muslims are not going to be overturning LGBTQ+ protections in the UK, which is what that PP is implying in their thinly veiled attempt to whip up anti-Muslim sentiment.

Other religious communities (such as they are in the UK) are not voting tactically on issues which have nothing to do with the UK.