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Pink/blue jobs…

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CurlewKate · 20/02/2026 10:14

Remember Theresa May?🤣

I was wondering what default jobs do you and your partner have that buck the stereotypes. Obviously excluding being not at home or ill or insanely busy with other stuff. I do bins and invading birds and rodents,dead or alive. Anything that involves poo. I bake. He makes all hot and cold drinks. He hoovers. He cooks. He does ANYTHING which involves hammers or ladders.
Trying to think of more.

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ScaryM0nster · 20/02/2026 10:17

Sealant and grout in our house is a pink job.
Nappy changes were a blue job.

Emptying inside bins, pink job. Taking those bags outside. Blue job.

FlowersInPots · 20/02/2026 10:25

We have some ‘traditional’ roles and others, not so much

Pink jobs:
Laundry
Dishwasher
Sorting old clothes/toys
Gardening (planting, weeding)
Changing bedding
Putting things in/out of the attic
All gift organising/buying/wrapping

Blue jobs
Lawn mowing
Repairs
Cleaning cars
Baking
Ironing
Meal planning

Shared
Cooking
Bins
Everything else

SisterTeatime · 20/02/2026 10:28

I do nearly all DIY but am shit at anything that involves drilling so DH tends to get those jobs.

purpleygrey · 20/02/2026 10:30

My DH is a builder so naturally I do all the diy in the house because otherwise it would never get done. 🙄

I do the cooking/cleaning.
he does the garden and picks up dog shite.

ExperiencedTeacher · 20/02/2026 10:34

We don’t officially live together but he’s here >half the time and is very proactive with household jobs.

Blue (when he’s here- I don’t save them up!!):
ironing (his, mine, my kids’)
all DIY
garden jobs- lawns, pruning etc
cleaning cars and pretty much any car job when he’s here
bins
making morning coffees
vacuuming

Pink:
all cooking, making lunches for work etc
shopping

Joint when he’s here:
cleaning
washing

I am VERY fortunate that he’s so proactive and willing to muck in. Here’s made my life so much happier in so many ways.

jotex · 20/02/2026 11:00

The only one that comes to mind for me is cooking. He cooks most days, but he’s Italian, so I don’t mind.

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