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Here’s how a child dies of measles

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Shuffletoesxtreme · 14/02/2026 21:01

https://www.theatlantic.com/ideas/2026/02/child-dies-measles-vaccines/685969/

60 cases in London, where vaccinations are lowest in the country.

This Is How a Child Dies of Measles

When your family becomes a data point in an outbreak

https://www.theatlantic.com/ideas/2026/02/child-dies-measles-vaccines/685969/

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SoUncertain · 15/02/2026 15:49

YellowStockings · 15/02/2026 12:56

For anyone reading whose DC missed out on the chicken pox vaccine (and whose DC haven't caught it!) you can pay to get it done privately, we got DD10 vaccinated when she was around 7. Two jabs a couple of months apart IIRC.

I'd highly recommend this. It was on my to do list to get DD vaccinated for chicken pox (pre NHS vaccine) but she caught it before I did. She suffered a lot with the symptoms for two weeks, plus of course all the usual time off work and sleepless nights. I regret not making it more of a priority.

FuzzyPuffling · 15/02/2026 15:53

I'm rather old. I had measles as a 3 year old (definitely no vaccines about: I had every vaccine that was available) and it severely affected my eyesight for life.

SabbatWheel · 15/02/2026 16:28

A colleague of mine’s granddaughter died a few years ago of sepsis following chicken pox, age 2.
My SIL caught polio age 7, literally months before the vaccine was introduced, and died age 50 from complications related to being wheelchair-bound. MIL kept a photo of her in her ballet costume age 6.
Heartbreaking cases and, in 2026, preventable.

Sidge · 15/02/2026 19:25

MudMyNameIsMud · 14/02/2026 23:39

I’m in my 60s and had my first MMR jab a fortnight ago at my local GP practice. I mentioned being vegetarian and the nurse said they had both sorts, with and without gelatine, and which would I prefer?

When I asked she also said it’s the same dose for me as for 12 and 18 month olds.

This lead me to conclude that they keep the vaccines in stock rather than needing to order them in when people make an appointment. So if parents don’t want the one with chicken pox in it wouldn’t be difficult - if they know it’s a possibility and the NHS offers that.

Why did I have the jab? Why not? I’ve had German measles but not Mumps or Measles and I don’t want them. NHS link with another link to the MMRV one.

As of January 1st all children aged 1-6 will now be offered MMRV. We can only use MMR for children aged 6 and over, and adults.

We order our vaccines weekly and always hold stock of MMR and now MMRV, but cannot give MMR to the 1-6 year olds as it isn’t now part of the childhood schedule. We work to strict guidance and protocol and our authorisation to vaccinate doesn’t allow us to give parents a choice between MMR, and MMRV.

The consensus amongst those of us actually delivering the childhood schedule is that this may potentially lead to a drop in measles protection as parents decline MMRV for spurious reasons or due to a lack of understanding, as already demonstrated online. Yes the MMRV has a slightly higher risk of febrile convulsion post-vaccine but it’s much less than the risk of febrile convulsion post natural disease -

Following the first dose of the MMRV vaccine, there is a slightly higher risk of having a febrile convulsion (35 in 100,000), than there is with the first dose of the MMR vaccine (24 in 100,000). However, the chance of a febrile convulsion is much higher if the child is unvaccinated and catches measles (2,300 in 100,000).

Febrile convulsions, whilst looking terrifying, are not harmful, are not linked to epilepsy, and can be short lived, usually lasting less than a minute or two.

I’ve been giving childhood vaccines for 26 years and anecdotally I have never seen a case of vaccine damage or (luckily ) had to deal with any serious reactions post-immunisation. Vaccines now are very different to what they were 30+ years ago so parents shouldn’t compare their own experience to their child’s.

It does make me sad to read about HCPs that aren’t open to discussion with parents though, and willing to have a sensible reasoned discussion about parental fears and concerns.

custardlover · 15/02/2026 19:33

Genuinely cannot comprehend those who do not vaccinate their children. It’s so illogical and uncaring to me. It blows my mind and I feel so sad for the children.

MudMyNameIsMud · 15/02/2026 20:01

@Sidge thank you for that informative post.

PithyViewer · 15/02/2026 20:39

MinnieMountain · 15/02/2026 04:57

A family friend of DH's caught it as a child. He died as an adult from a health issue it caused in 2011.

This is incredible, isn't it. While I'm perfectly aware that measles is an evil and dangerous disease, both for children and people who catch it as adults, I had no idea that a childhood infection could cause such dire problems many years later. How did it manifest as an adult?

PithyViewer · 15/02/2026 20:48

Gasp0deTheW0nderD0g · 15/02/2026 10:33

My children were little in the 1990s when the totally discredited link to autism was just getting going. We knew a woman back then who had decided that her children would have no vaccinations at all - not even whooping cough, diphtheria, tetanus and polio. There were no medical reasons for this, she just didn't believe that vaccinations prevented disease. She and her partner were not scientists or medically trained.

My friends and I understood very well that she and her partner had felt able to come to that decision because virtually all the other parents had gone ahead with vaccinations. We'd taken the small risk of vaccine damage for our children so that herd immunity would remain high, and that made them feel safe enough not to vaccinate at all. I hope their children were OK as they grew up. I was amazed to hear that they were flying off to Thailand for a holiday with their unvaccinated pre-schoolers.

Jesus. If only there was a vaccine against stupidity!

Twelve8Ts · 15/02/2026 21:03

PithyViewer · 15/02/2026 02:11

Measles is absolutely evil. Anti-vaxxers make me so mad.

Why does it make you mad? People who choose not to vaccinate are not doing so because they can’t be bothered to go to the GP, they’re doing it because they want to make the right decision for their baby. There are plenty of vaccine neutral doctors out there who give advice to both sides, explaining the risks for both vaccinating and not vaccinating. If there is even a slight chance of your baby getting encephalitis from the MMR, and a mother doesn’t want to take that risk, however small, you can’t get angry at them. Every mum is doing what they think is best. People seem to assume that those who choose not to vaccinate, make the decision on a whim, rather than researching it for months, sometimes years. And it’s really not an easy decision to make, it’s potentially, for some a life changing decision. So to ridicule other mums, who do not want their kids to risk their children’s health, seems completely unfair. Everyone is doing what they think is safest.

Twelve8Ts · 15/02/2026 21:05

And for anyone interested in weighing up both sides, a really helpful, vaccine neutral Doctor, drgreenmom on Instagram is a brilliant one to follow. Informative and supportive.

Charlizeangles · 15/02/2026 21:06

Sidge · 15/02/2026 19:25

As of January 1st all children aged 1-6 will now be offered MMRV. We can only use MMR for children aged 6 and over, and adults.

We order our vaccines weekly and always hold stock of MMR and now MMRV, but cannot give MMR to the 1-6 year olds as it isn’t now part of the childhood schedule. We work to strict guidance and protocol and our authorisation to vaccinate doesn’t allow us to give parents a choice between MMR, and MMRV.

The consensus amongst those of us actually delivering the childhood schedule is that this may potentially lead to a drop in measles protection as parents decline MMRV for spurious reasons or due to a lack of understanding, as already demonstrated online. Yes the MMRV has a slightly higher risk of febrile convulsion post-vaccine but it’s much less than the risk of febrile convulsion post natural disease -

Following the first dose of the MMRV vaccine, there is a slightly higher risk of having a febrile convulsion (35 in 100,000), than there is with the first dose of the MMR vaccine (24 in 100,000). However, the chance of a febrile convulsion is much higher if the child is unvaccinated and catches measles (2,300 in 100,000).

Febrile convulsions, whilst looking terrifying, are not harmful, are not linked to epilepsy, and can be short lived, usually lasting less than a minute or two.

I’ve been giving childhood vaccines for 26 years and anecdotally I have never seen a case of vaccine damage or (luckily ) had to deal with any serious reactions post-immunisation. Vaccines now are very different to what they were 30+ years ago so parents shouldn’t compare their own experience to their child’s.

It does make me sad to read about HCPs that aren’t open to discussion with parents though, and willing to have a sensible reasoned discussion about parental fears and concerns.

Thanks for that great post full of useful information, do you know if the MMR can be offered privately? Without the V? We have a history of febrile convulsions in our family and my dd is considering not having the 2nd one due to the DC already having chicken pox and the youngest as she doesn't want them to have it due to what she's seen, although she does realise it's not a massive increased risk. She wants the MMR but not with the v if you see what I mean?

Luxlumos · 15/02/2026 21:06

I remember having measles when I was 5. I’ve never experienced anything like it since. The memory is still vivid, and I didn’t hesitate to vaccinate my dc.

BedtimeBrainFog · 15/02/2026 21:10

Sidge · 15/02/2026 19:25

As of January 1st all children aged 1-6 will now be offered MMRV. We can only use MMR for children aged 6 and over, and adults.

We order our vaccines weekly and always hold stock of MMR and now MMRV, but cannot give MMR to the 1-6 year olds as it isn’t now part of the childhood schedule. We work to strict guidance and protocol and our authorisation to vaccinate doesn’t allow us to give parents a choice between MMR, and MMRV.

The consensus amongst those of us actually delivering the childhood schedule is that this may potentially lead to a drop in measles protection as parents decline MMRV for spurious reasons or due to a lack of understanding, as already demonstrated online. Yes the MMRV has a slightly higher risk of febrile convulsion post-vaccine but it’s much less than the risk of febrile convulsion post natural disease -

Following the first dose of the MMRV vaccine, there is a slightly higher risk of having a febrile convulsion (35 in 100,000), than there is with the first dose of the MMR vaccine (24 in 100,000). However, the chance of a febrile convulsion is much higher if the child is unvaccinated and catches measles (2,300 in 100,000).

Febrile convulsions, whilst looking terrifying, are not harmful, are not linked to epilepsy, and can be short lived, usually lasting less than a minute or two.

I’ve been giving childhood vaccines for 26 years and anecdotally I have never seen a case of vaccine damage or (luckily ) had to deal with any serious reactions post-immunisation. Vaccines now are very different to what they were 30+ years ago so parents shouldn’t compare their own experience to their child’s.

It does make me sad to read about HCPs that aren’t open to discussion with parents though, and willing to have a sensible reasoned discussion about parental fears and concerns.

Thanks @Sidge very useful post and info and thanks for doing what you do.

I must admit to having had a small hesitation on finding out the vaccine is now different and reading the headline of increase in seizures. I had to go down my own rabbit hole to find out that ‘seizures’ is not as scary as it sounds or looks if it happens and what to do about it and also what ‘increase’ actually means in numbers. Useful to have it spelled out because I can definitely see how a parent can easily talk themselves out of following the schedule.

However it’s been scary to see in the news that there’s currently a measles outbreak not far from where we live in North London and in my big kid’s class there is currently 4 kids who were off with chicken pox. I’m spending half term very cautiously avoiding other kids until vaccinations are done for my 1 yr old very soon. No brainer.

cardibach · 15/02/2026 21:12

Twelve8Ts · 15/02/2026 21:03

Why does it make you mad? People who choose not to vaccinate are not doing so because they can’t be bothered to go to the GP, they’re doing it because they want to make the right decision for their baby. There are plenty of vaccine neutral doctors out there who give advice to both sides, explaining the risks for both vaccinating and not vaccinating. If there is even a slight chance of your baby getting encephalitis from the MMR, and a mother doesn’t want to take that risk, however small, you can’t get angry at them. Every mum is doing what they think is best. People seem to assume that those who choose not to vaccinate, make the decision on a whim, rather than researching it for months, sometimes years. And it’s really not an easy decision to make, it’s potentially, for some a life changing decision. So to ridicule other mums, who do not want their kids to risk their children’s health, seems completely unfair. Everyone is doing what they think is safest.

Because they aren't weighing up risks sensibly and a drop in vaccination levels leaves lots of people vulnerable?

PithyViewer · 15/02/2026 21:17

Twelve8Ts · 15/02/2026 21:03

Why does it make you mad? People who choose not to vaccinate are not doing so because they can’t be bothered to go to the GP, they’re doing it because they want to make the right decision for their baby. There are plenty of vaccine neutral doctors out there who give advice to both sides, explaining the risks for both vaccinating and not vaccinating. If there is even a slight chance of your baby getting encephalitis from the MMR, and a mother doesn’t want to take that risk, however small, you can’t get angry at them. Every mum is doing what they think is best. People seem to assume that those who choose not to vaccinate, make the decision on a whim, rather than researching it for months, sometimes years. And it’s really not an easy decision to make, it’s potentially, for some a life changing decision. So to ridicule other mums, who do not want their kids to risk their children’s health, seems completely unfair. Everyone is doing what they think is safest.

Look up herd immunity. In addition, children who are too young to have had the vaccines are vulnerable to outbreaks when herd immunity drops below a certain level.

Vaccines are not a 50-50, weigh-up, both-positions-are-reasonable kind of thing. Vaccines are a gift to humanity that previous generations would have given their right arms for. Vaccines save people not only from death but from multiple terrible lifelong side-effects, as posted by some here. Thanks to herd immunity from most people vaccinating their kids, those possible deaths and side effects are now mostly unseen in society, which is why some people don't value vaccines anymore. No more iron lungs since the polio vaccine, for example.

Vaccines are essential in combating infectious diseases and their dreadful after-effects. If most people did not vaccinate their kids, you would soon see the carnage. Anti-vaxxers are benefiting from herd immunity via vaccination, which is why they have the "luxury" of not getting their kids vaccinated.

But an individual non-vaccinated child can still get the given disease, and suffer the consequences. Just like the Fifties all over again.

RafaistheKingofClay · 15/02/2026 21:19

Twelve8Ts · 15/02/2026 21:05

And for anyone interested in weighing up both sides, a really helpful, vaccine neutral Doctor, drgreenmom on Instagram is a brilliant one to follow. Informative and supportive.

If you are weighing up sides regarding the MMR and don’t vaccinate, then you probably don’t have the skills to be weighing it up.

Having said that I can’t really get angry with parents that don’t vaccinate. For the most part they have been led up the garden path by someone else.

‘vaccine neutral’ doctors and dedicated anti vaxxers on the other hand…

NeverDropYourMooncup · 15/02/2026 21:25

AnxiousUniParent · 14/02/2026 21:23

In both 2024 and 2025 there was one child death and in both cases the child had underlying immunological issues.

On the other hand, nearly 4,000 children under the age of 18 died and those in the most deprived parts of the country and ethnic minorities are twice as likely to die in childhood that white British children and children in the most affluent areas. .

Best not add deaths from Measles to that total then, eh?

Twelve8Ts · 15/02/2026 21:29

cardibach · 15/02/2026 21:12

Because they aren't weighing up risks sensibly and a drop in vaccination levels leaves lots of people vulnerable?

But see that is a contradiction in itself. If a mum is weighing up risks, then she must have done some research, which is the sensible thing to do. As a mum of 3, first 2 vaccinated, my third only some vaccines, I can tell you I didn’t do a minutes research into vaccines with my first 2. I was so uninformed. It’s only when my 3rd became extremely unwell with her first vaccines and was taken into hospital, and the doctor told me that they are seeing more adverse effects, so much so, that his colleague at GOSH was writing a paper on it due to his concern, that it made me question vaccines.
I have looked into vaccinating, delayed schedules, risks of both, pages of data, for over a year now.The best thing you can read is research, not headlines.

Sidge · 15/02/2026 21:31

Charlizeangles · 15/02/2026 21:06

Thanks for that great post full of useful information, do you know if the MMR can be offered privately? Without the V? We have a history of febrile convulsions in our family and my dd is considering not having the 2nd one due to the DC already having chicken pox and the youngest as she doesn't want them to have it due to what she's seen, although she does realise it's not a massive increased risk. She wants the MMR but not with the v if you see what I mean?

You can source MMR privately, I have no idea where or how much it would cost though.

There is no harm to a child already having had chicken pox receiving varicella vaccine. You can’t over vaccinate and the antibodies from natural exposure essentially would “neutralise” the varicella component of MMRV.

The risk of febrile convulsions is low, and even if a child has a febrile convulsion it doesn’t cause harm. My advice to a parent would be to keep a close eye on their temperature and give paracetamol at a lower grade fever than you might normally consider, but you’d need to do this potentially for 2-3 weeks due to the nature of the vaccine which may not be workable.

Personally I’d take the potential for febrile convulsions over the risk from measles, mumps, rubella and varicella but that’s just me. As a student nurse I cared for a 15 year old left in a persistent vegetative state from measles encephalitis. It has stayed with me. 🙁

cardibach · 15/02/2026 21:33

Twelve8Ts · 15/02/2026 21:29

But see that is a contradiction in itself. If a mum is weighing up risks, then she must have done some research, which is the sensible thing to do. As a mum of 3, first 2 vaccinated, my third only some vaccines, I can tell you I didn’t do a minutes research into vaccines with my first 2. I was so uninformed. It’s only when my 3rd became extremely unwell with her first vaccines and was taken into hospital, and the doctor told me that they are seeing more adverse effects, so much so, that his colleague at GOSH was writing a paper on it due to his concern, that it made me question vaccines.
I have looked into vaccinating, delayed schedules, risks of both, pages of data, for over a year now.The best thing you can read is research, not headlines.

Do you have a literature review for your research that I could read?
I know it’s difficult if a child reacted to a vaccine, but for the vast majority the risks of vaccinating are lower.

1990s · 15/02/2026 21:36

Sidge · 15/02/2026 19:25

As of January 1st all children aged 1-6 will now be offered MMRV. We can only use MMR for children aged 6 and over, and adults.

We order our vaccines weekly and always hold stock of MMR and now MMRV, but cannot give MMR to the 1-6 year olds as it isn’t now part of the childhood schedule. We work to strict guidance and protocol and our authorisation to vaccinate doesn’t allow us to give parents a choice between MMR, and MMRV.

The consensus amongst those of us actually delivering the childhood schedule is that this may potentially lead to a drop in measles protection as parents decline MMRV for spurious reasons or due to a lack of understanding, as already demonstrated online. Yes the MMRV has a slightly higher risk of febrile convulsion post-vaccine but it’s much less than the risk of febrile convulsion post natural disease -

Following the first dose of the MMRV vaccine, there is a slightly higher risk of having a febrile convulsion (35 in 100,000), than there is with the first dose of the MMR vaccine (24 in 100,000). However, the chance of a febrile convulsion is much higher if the child is unvaccinated and catches measles (2,300 in 100,000).

Febrile convulsions, whilst looking terrifying, are not harmful, are not linked to epilepsy, and can be short lived, usually lasting less than a minute or two.

I’ve been giving childhood vaccines for 26 years and anecdotally I have never seen a case of vaccine damage or (luckily ) had to deal with any serious reactions post-immunisation. Vaccines now are very different to what they were 30+ years ago so parents shouldn’t compare their own experience to their child’s.

It does make me sad to read about HCPs that aren’t open to discussion with parents though, and willing to have a sensible reasoned discussion about parental fears and concerns.

@Sidge hoping you can help - is it ok for an 18 month old to have the MMRV for their second dose when they’ve already had two doses of the chickenpox vaccine privately?

Sidge · 15/02/2026 21:36

BedtimeBrainFog · 15/02/2026 21:10

Thanks @Sidge very useful post and info and thanks for doing what you do.

I must admit to having had a small hesitation on finding out the vaccine is now different and reading the headline of increase in seizures. I had to go down my own rabbit hole to find out that ‘seizures’ is not as scary as it sounds or looks if it happens and what to do about it and also what ‘increase’ actually means in numbers. Useful to have it spelled out because I can definitely see how a parent can easily talk themselves out of following the schedule.

However it’s been scary to see in the news that there’s currently a measles outbreak not far from where we live in North London and in my big kid’s class there is currently 4 kids who were off with chicken pox. I’m spending half term very cautiously avoiding other kids until vaccinations are done for my 1 yr old very soon. No brainer.

I think using the term “seizures” is misleading because it’s a phrase usually associated with epilepsy which is undoubtedly and understandably going to put the fear of god into parents.

Febrile convulsions after vaccination aren’t epileptic seizures and don’t cause brain damage.

1990s · 15/02/2026 21:37

Sidge · 15/02/2026 21:31

You can source MMR privately, I have no idea where or how much it would cost though.

There is no harm to a child already having had chicken pox receiving varicella vaccine. You can’t over vaccinate and the antibodies from natural exposure essentially would “neutralise” the varicella component of MMRV.

The risk of febrile convulsions is low, and even if a child has a febrile convulsion it doesn’t cause harm. My advice to a parent would be to keep a close eye on their temperature and give paracetamol at a lower grade fever than you might normally consider, but you’d need to do this potentially for 2-3 weeks due to the nature of the vaccine which may not be workable.

Personally I’d take the potential for febrile convulsions over the risk from measles, mumps, rubella and varicella but that’s just me. As a student nurse I cared for a 15 year old left in a persistent vegetative state from measles encephalitis. It has stayed with me. 🙁

Sorry! I see you already answered here - thank you

Sidge · 15/02/2026 21:39

1990s · 15/02/2026 21:36

@Sidge hoping you can help - is it ok for an 18 month old to have the MMRV for their second dose when they’ve already had two doses of the chickenpox vaccine privately?

@1990s yes absolutely.

There is no harm to a child already having had chicken pox OR previous varicella vaccine receiving a varicella vaccine. You can’t over vaccinate and the antibodies from natural exposure or previous vaccination essentially would “neutralise” the varicella component of MMRV.

Its very important for them to have their booster dose of the MMR components.

Sidge · 15/02/2026 21:40

@1990s lol cross posted.

Hope that’s reassuring.

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