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Sexual assault advice

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notsurewhattodonow2 · 04/02/2026 18:36

This is a bit of an odd one. I had a sports massage a while ago, and I was questioning myself during/after
he went pretty high up my thighs ( as in right to the top where your leg joins your body) when I was lying on my stomach with both his hands and a massage gun.
I’m also 99% sure I felt his penis but put it down to the position he was in, because if he was stood close to the massage bed it was that height if you get me

anyway he’s been arrested for sexual assault x 3, and now I’m questioning if I tell someone what I thought or if it doesn’t make a difference….

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HeartyBlueRobin · 04/02/2026 18:40

I think you should report your experience if you feel you can cope with doing so. If nothing else it supports other women's accounts of how you probably all felt. It could also quite possibly prevent another woman having a similar encounter with him.

notsurewhattodonow2 · 04/02/2026 18:43

I imagine he is looking at prison as it was what looks like a stranger assault and then others have come forward. Argh. I’m just questioning myself was it right, like I did on the table and afterwards
I hate that I question it but it was so.. subtle I guess

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PashaMinaMio · 04/02/2026 18:50

He’ll be flashing next.
Flashing I’ve heard, can lead to further more serious assaults.
Have an informal chat with the police. They will help you decide if you want to take matters further.

notsurewhattodonow2 · 04/02/2026 18:56

PashaMinaMio · 04/02/2026 18:50

He’ll be flashing next.
Flashing I’ve heard, can lead to further more serious assaults.
Have an informal chat with the police. They will help you decide if you want to take matters further.

I said in my OP, he’s already been arrested for serious assaults

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Waterwatereverywhere2026 · 04/02/2026 18:59

I’m sorry it happened op, that is bloody awful. And yes, I think I would report it. Vile man.

Iamsotiredandfedup · 04/02/2026 18:59

HeartyBlueRobin · 04/02/2026 18:40

I think you should report your experience if you feel you can cope with doing so. If nothing else it supports other women's accounts of how you probably all felt. It could also quite possibly prevent another woman having a similar encounter with him.

I agree with this

Sorry this happened OP, that self doubt feeling is awful but I suspect he knew what he was doing

RS1987 · 04/02/2026 19:11

You’re right in your feelings. Do report it if you feel able.

Fromthestart · 09/02/2026 17:58

If you feel up to it, it's best to report it as it will help the overall case. You can literally explain what you said here and leave what happens next to the police.

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