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Anyone here paid to go and see a dietician ? Did it help what did they tell you ? I’m thinking of trying mounjaro

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Stuckinthemiddlewithyouuhoh · 30/01/2026 18:57

And I think perhaps I should try harder with my diet
I did try for a couple of weeks after Xmas
made no weight loss

inhave a good stone to lose maybe bit more

then had a couple of very stressful weeks and fell off the wagon

so now I’m ready to restart

I’ve lost weigh before with slimming world and gym
but slimming world polluted my mind with all sorts of disordered thinking around food

and I want to ideally
think about eatting for nutrition rather than cardboard and whatever just because it’s low calories or syns or whatever

a typical day I might have no breakfast
not hungry

i dont tend to eat till lunchtime
then its maybe sarnie, Crisps drink and maybe say a club biscuit or choc mouse

dinners tend to be family type meals
sausage and mash n beans
burgers n chips pea
roasts
omlettes
beef stew
shepards pie

I don’t tend to snack between meals
I tend to drink one or two cans of sugary drink(which I know is an easy fix)
don’t drink enough water or squash

don’t drink alcohol tea or coffee
no drugs no medication
no smoking
active

5ft 4 11.8 stone

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Stuckinthemiddlewithyouuhoh · 30/01/2026 19:44

Swaytheboat · 30/01/2026 19:11

Granola is really high is sugar, so you won't get much for the calories. If you want cereal, Weetabix or even shreddies are a better bet. But an actual bowlful of shreddies is still 500kcal - compared to what they count as a portion.

What about a sucky sweet when you've eaten? A fruit or caramel for instance that lasts a bit longer but as it's just one it's not much?

I didn't think of that sucking one sweet, I'll try that

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Stuckinthemiddlewithyouuhoh · 30/01/2026 19:45

Swaytheboat · 30/01/2026 19:11

Granola is really high is sugar, so you won't get much for the calories. If you want cereal, Weetabix or even shreddies are a better bet. But an actual bowlful of shreddies is still 500kcal - compared to what they count as a portion.

What about a sucky sweet when you've eaten? A fruit or caramel for instance that lasts a bit longer but as it's just one it's not much?

Oh and I do like weetabix

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Stuckinthemiddlewithyouuhoh · 30/01/2026 19:47

StylishAndBeautiful · 30/01/2026 19:13

so tonight I just had granola
weighed out 50 g
and it barely covers the bottom of the bowl
so I think I’m eatting way to big portions
Without weighing
maybe even upto 4 times that much

Your mind is not registering granola as a meal. You're probably eating 1000 cals + milk.

1000 calories on 50g of granola and 50ml of milk ..? Surely not !!!!

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soupyspoon · 30/01/2026 19:48

Stuckinthemiddlewithyouuhoh · 30/01/2026 19:47

1000 calories on 50g of granola and 50ml of milk ..? Surely not !!!!

I think the poser is referring to when you weren't weighing it out

Stuckinthemiddlewithyouuhoh · 30/01/2026 19:52

Clefable · 30/01/2026 19:16

It is quite eye-opening weighing food and realising what a ‘portion’ is!

There’s a little rhyme thing about food I can’t quite remember but it’s essentially focusing on food that recognisably has come from nature one way or another: vegetables, meat, fish, fruit, nuts, seeds, grains, cheese. It’s actually quite hard to overeat significantly when you eat food that’s genuinely nourishing and satisfying. Days where I feel like I’ve eaten too much and feel gross are days where I’ve eaten a lot of ultra-processed packet stuff generally. Not stuff that has been cooked from scratch.

Focus on protein: yoghurt, cheese, chicken; healthy fats: nuts are a food source of this; vegetables and fruit, grains. Ditch stuff that comes in a packet and has ingredients you don’t recognise in the list. Anything packed with sweeteners and flavourings is designed to make you eat an excess of it, so steer clear. Stick to as little ultra-processed food as you can manage: marinated chicken and vegetables, grilled fish, fruit, yoghurt and peanut butter, cheese, nuts. Loads of recipe books out there with quick and easy meals from scratch.

Yes i liek all these things you suggest
fish amd meat and yoghurt, cheese, chicken; healthy fats: nuts are a food source of this; vegetables and fruit, grains

Can I ask what do you class as healthy fay's I keep seeing things about avoid seed oil ? I usually use rape seed or sunflower
Daft question but is olive oil seed oil ?
I know it has a nut stone thing inside

I lie nuts and things and some of the slimming world disordered thinking has made me think negatively about them but I know they are full of goodness

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Stuckinthemiddlewithyouuhoh · 30/01/2026 19:52

soupyspoon · 30/01/2026 19:48

I think the poser is referring to when you weren't weighing it out

Oh yes probably was then !!

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StylishAndBeautiful · 30/01/2026 19:52

@Stuckinthemiddlewithyouuhoh , you said you thought it was 50g but probably 4 times that, so 200g.
100 g of granola is about 500 cals. 200g would be about 1000g.

Your mind would be thinking 'I didn't have a meal, I just had a bowl of cereal' but you'd eaten more than half your recommended daily calorie intake.

Stuckinthemiddlewithyouuhoh · 30/01/2026 19:54

Clefable · 30/01/2026 19:16

It is quite eye-opening weighing food and realising what a ‘portion’ is!

There’s a little rhyme thing about food I can’t quite remember but it’s essentially focusing on food that recognisably has come from nature one way or another: vegetables, meat, fish, fruit, nuts, seeds, grains, cheese. It’s actually quite hard to overeat significantly when you eat food that’s genuinely nourishing and satisfying. Days where I feel like I’ve eaten too much and feel gross are days where I’ve eaten a lot of ultra-processed packet stuff generally. Not stuff that has been cooked from scratch.

Focus on protein: yoghurt, cheese, chicken; healthy fats: nuts are a food source of this; vegetables and fruit, grains. Ditch stuff that comes in a packet and has ingredients you don’t recognise in the list. Anything packed with sweeteners and flavourings is designed to make you eat an excess of it, so steer clear. Stick to as little ultra-processed food as you can manage: marinated chicken and vegetables, grilled fish, fruit, yoghurt and peanut butter, cheese, nuts. Loads of recipe books out there with quick and easy meals from scratch.

Could you recommend me some books please

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Stuckinthemiddlewithyouuhoh · 30/01/2026 19:55

StylishAndBeautiful · 30/01/2026 19:52

@Stuckinthemiddlewithyouuhoh , you said you thought it was 50g but probably 4 times that, so 200g.
100 g of granola is about 500 cals. 200g would be about 1000g.

Your mind would be thinking 'I didn't have a meal, I just had a bowl of cereal' but you'd eaten more than half your recommended daily calorie intake.

Edited

Oh yes ive been having huge portions of ceral

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borisjohnsonsliedetector · 30/01/2026 19:58

OP.
I've calculated your BMI to be 27.8

The usual criteria is a BMI of 30 unless your BMI is over 27 and you have a healthy condition that places you at risk such as high cholesterol, high blood pressure, cardiac issues or sleep apnoea then you're not eligible for it.

Or you have a BMI of 27.5 and are from a higher risk ethnic minority background.

MJ isnt a quick fix and neither is it a magic bullet. I've been taking it since October 24 and have lost a lot but as I had a BMI of 47 to start with I had (and still do) a lot to lose.

Clefable · 30/01/2026 20:02

Stuckinthemiddlewithyouuhoh · 30/01/2026 19:54

Could you recommend me some books please

I like the Bored of Lunch ones, Pinch of Nom, Roasting Tin, Hayley Dean does some
good ones but she does sometimes try to substitute Elmlea etc for cream which I don’t like, if you have younger kids then Sarah Rossi’s books are good, Jon Watt has a good weekday one.

In terms of specifically lower calorie stuff, the Hairy Dieters book actually has some really nice stuff in it that we cook even though we are not dieting. Tangle pie and the salmon dish are two of our favourites. The Fast 800 book by Michael Mosley has some nice Mediterranean-style recipes.

Stuckinthemiddlewithyouuhoh · 30/01/2026 20:03

Peppermintcreamz · 30/01/2026 19:41

I haven’t personally been to one but what I would say is to make sure you’re actually counting everything because I am just a little shorter than you and my maintenance calories are just over 1500 a day and I am 8st 9 and sedentary. The fact that you are active and 11st 8 and only eating 1500 calories a day would suggest that you should maybe even be losing weight on those calories (don’t know how active you are). Maybe don’t even start trying to shift the weight just yet, instead try to track everything for the next week or so to get an idea of how many calories you’re actually taking in. Echoing what a pp said about the granola. It might not keep you full for very long and it’s very easy to over-pour portions leading to more calories, the calories on the back of the packet are only for one serving. If you have twice that amount it will be twice the calories. Then you have to track the milk going into it.

I would guess either your portions are quite big or you’re taking in extra calories here and there where you don’t realise it. Do you pick at anything when you’re cooking? Do you find yourself picking at the kids food that they haven’t finished? Are you counting sugar in your tea/coffee, sauces on dinners or salads etc. All that can easily put you into a surplus. That’s why it’s good to get into the habit of tracking, then use a TDEE calculator to find out your maintenance calories, ie how many cals a day it would take to maintain your weight depending on your weight, height and activity level.

I know it’s hard but if you also have to try and have a protein source with each meal it can help to keep you fuller for a bit longer. Sometimes I also have choc and crisps as part of breakfast or lunch and it would be so much better for satiety to have had something a bit more robust to keep me from being hungry later on, hence why you might be overeating at dinner time.

No I don't pick at the kids food, they don't ever leave any anyway

And I don't really snack between meals as I would day my evening dinners are not, don't really know why I don't lose weight if I only have 1500 calories for say a fortnight

I also don't drink coffee tea or alchol no smoking so I should be fairly healthy surely

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StylishAndBeautiful · 30/01/2026 20:07

Stuckinthemiddlewithyouuhoh · 30/01/2026 19:55

Oh yes ive been having huge portions of ceral

I find the stuff lethal. Grin

The 'I'll only have a sandwich' does the mind trick thing too. Some sandwiches are high in calories.
Crisps always leave me wanting more and they're not really very nice.
A small amount of good chocolate is satisfying.

Stuckinthemiddlewithyouuhoh · 30/01/2026 20:12

StylishAndBeautiful · 30/01/2026 20:07

I find the stuff lethal. Grin

The 'I'll only have a sandwich' does the mind trick thing too. Some sandwiches are high in calories.
Crisps always leave me wanting more and they're not really very nice.
A small amount of good chocolate is satisfying.

😂 sometimes get a coop baguette and I don't even enjoy it
It's pure habit !

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Stuckinthemiddlewithyouuhoh · 30/01/2026 20:17

Clefable · 30/01/2026 20:02

I like the Bored of Lunch ones, Pinch of Nom, Roasting Tin, Hayley Dean does some
good ones but she does sometimes try to substitute Elmlea etc for cream which I don’t like, if you have younger kids then Sarah Rossi’s books are good, Jon Watt has a good weekday one.

In terms of specifically lower calorie stuff, the Hairy Dieters book actually has some really nice stuff in it that we cook even though we are not dieting. Tangle pie and the salmon dish are two of our favourites. The Fast 800 book by Michael Mosley has some nice Mediterranean-style recipes.

Thanks for the book recommendations what would you recommend I start with

I think I'll be better off ordering these than booking in with dietician

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Ritaskitchen · 30/01/2026 20:19

Are you weighing everything and putting it into My fitness pal or another calorie counting app?
I have had a lot of success using with a Programme called revive and thrive. Lost 13kg since 2025
Its a mix of calorie counting, information on nutrition and mindset and walking. It’s helped me a lot.

Oreo07 · 30/01/2026 20:19

Great idea to see a dietician!

StylishAndBeautiful · 30/01/2026 20:26

Get some new habits.
I eat loads but I eat slowly and I eat lots of veg.

Stuckinthemiddlewithyouuhoh · 30/01/2026 20:36

Ritaskitchen · 30/01/2026 20:19

Are you weighing everything and putting it into My fitness pal or another calorie counting app?
I have had a lot of success using with a Programme called revive and thrive. Lost 13kg since 2025
Its a mix of calorie counting, information on nutrition and mindset and walking. It’s helped me a lot.

Is revive and thrive free ? I write it all down
and add it all up

and I don’t miss anything off

I do think it’s bad habits
and mental blocks and bad mindset
I don’t know how to improve my mindset

I think I’m gonna give it ago full on for a month and if still make no progress
I’m gonna try the injections just to get that stone off then I’ll try v hard to keep it off
maybe once I’ve lost a stone I’ll be more motivated to keep it off as I’ve got a few clothes items I can’t really wear atm

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pouletvous · 30/01/2026 20:37

granola? You’re better off with some eggs!

Stuckinthemiddlewithyouuhoh · 30/01/2026 20:37

StylishAndBeautiful · 30/01/2026 20:26

Get some new habits.
I eat loads but I eat slowly and I eat lots of veg.

I want new habits but I don’t know what

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CottageLoaf · 30/01/2026 20:42

Use My fitness Pal app to really see how many calories you are eating. Use an online calculator to work out how many calories you need to maintain and also lose weight. Aim for the amount to lose weight. Focus on getting your calories from protein, fibre, fruit and veg. Go online and find lots of healthy recipes.

Swaytheboat · 30/01/2026 20:43

Stuckinthemiddlewithyouuhoh · 30/01/2026 20:37

I want new habits but I don’t know what

The absolute biggest one is not eating until you are full. Eat until you're not hungry. There's a big difference but it's one most people don't recognise.

StylishAndBeautiful · 30/01/2026 20:43

Don't you want to be able to eat what you like without worrying about calories?
Easy way is to learn to enjoy food that isn't high in calories and not like ones that are high in calories.

I don't like eating late in the day, so once I realised I didn't have to I stopped.

Stuckinthemiddlewithyouuhoh · 30/01/2026 20:45

Swaytheboat · 30/01/2026 20:43

The absolute biggest one is not eating until you are full. Eat until you're not hungry. There's a big difference but it's one most people don't recognise.

I always do that
even if I’m in a restaurant

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