DH doesn’t care really about how our house looks. Our sitting room was “done up” 20 years ago and has been repainted once. Same sofas.
He also can’t get you need to maintain as you go along meaning we now need roof stuff done, a new fence and probably some windows looked at. So he’s moaning about the cost.
We get caught in a cycle of “let’s get another quote” and don’t ever get on with it!!