I’m struggling with relating to someone I know.
just bullet points about certain things I find grating, please tell me is this common behaviour in a social setting and if so what personality type is it?
if were at a family dinner (she’s in her 30s with kids) has a habit of always doing something like eating food off the table before everyone else is sat in a cheeky way almost like to get attention, she’s very slim so not in a greedy way, like cheekily pinching items off the plate,
will always be making jokes with her husband about herself such as him saying to her ‘oh you’ve got such a big appetite’ and they find it hilarious, it’s almost cringey and so ott, giggling at in jokes together.
often makes very suggestive jokes or comments for example like ‘oh I love big sausages’ meaning food but is clearly meant to sound innuendo driven. This is always around the in laws.
the strange thing is this woman is extremely health conscious and clearly eats a very controlled diet, but for some reason when eating at a family meal, almost likes to act as if she’s a food mad carefree type when she clearly is the opposite.
what drives her to be like this literally every time?