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rosemole · 07/01/2026 14:36

What’s the etiquette around messaging someone you don’t know in person (enquiry about something for example)? Do you WhatsApp directly or message first? Or does it not matter?
For some reason WhatsApp seems more personal but I may be overthinking.

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mindutopia · 07/01/2026 15:13

If they have WhatsApp, I WhatsApp as it’s my preferred messaging platform. Otherwise, I’d text. I don’t think anyone cares though.

Sunflower3000 · 07/01/2026 15:23

You are overthinking it. Both platforms send messages. Neither is more personal than the other.

Potatomashed · 07/01/2026 15:37

I live in patchy signal area. I use WhatsApp almost always. Also for my work

IAmKerplunk · 07/01/2026 18:08

I know what you mean op - WhatsApp seems more personal for some reason. Unless someone specified they are ok to WhatsApp then I message. Thinking about it now I don’t know why I see it that way

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