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Party - best date?

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bestdate · 05/01/2026 15:40

School Easter holiday this year is 27 March to the 21 April.

I’m wanting to host a dinner for around 10-12 of us, we’re all parents of children at the same school.

If it was you, would you prefer the 11 April, 18 April or the 2 May?

I think perhaps the 11 Apr is out because many people go away for Easter.

Do you think the 18 April is too close to term starting?

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Overstimulated · 05/01/2026 15:42

Are you in the UK? Because easter half term here doesn’t last for a month, it’s usually 2 weeks? I’d ask the party attendees and get a majority vote.

bestdate · 05/01/2026 15:44

Overstimulated · 05/01/2026 15:42

Are you in the UK? Because easter half term here doesn’t last for a month, it’s usually 2 weeks? I’d ask the party attendees and get a majority vote.

Ours is three weeks. UK.

i have to book the restaurant before sending invites.

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MiddleAgedDread · 05/01/2026 15:48

2nd May
the other dates are in the middle of school holidays so more people likely to be away. Most schools will be back by the 11th so i think you've more chance of people from your school going 11-18th when it's quieter and cheaper.

bestdate · 05/01/2026 15:49

MiddleAgedDread · 05/01/2026 15:48

2nd May
the other dates are in the middle of school holidays so more people likely to be away. Most schools will be back by the 11th so i think you've more chance of people from your school going 11-18th when it's quieter and cheaper.

Yes sadly I think the 2 May is the best date of the options available!

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mindutopia · 05/01/2026 15:52

All the same for me, but it would entirely depend on if your particular friends will be around. One of my dc’s birthdays is always during a half term and I’ve never had an issue with people not being able to attend because they’re away. Maybe 2 ever over the years. But you just have to ask your friends if they’ll be around.

NuffSaidSam · 05/01/2026 15:58

I'd say May 2nd as it's outside of the school holidays so everyone will at least be around (even if they have other plans).

BendingSpoons · 05/01/2026 15:59

There's a bank holiday on 4th May too unfortunately! Personally I'd prefer it on 18th but 2nd likely to be the best option, although all are a bit risky.

bestdate · 05/01/2026 16:01

BendingSpoons · 05/01/2026 15:59

There's a bank holiday on 4th May too unfortunately! Personally I'd prefer it on 18th but 2nd likely to be the best option, although all are a bit risky.

Oh wow. I’d missed that! Thank you.

So, the 18th. This is pretty late when the actual date I really want is the 11 April!

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TwoBlueFish · 05/01/2026 16:11

Why not just WhatsApp the group and put a poll on with the dates?

from those dates I’d say 18th April

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