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In-law-in-law

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samarrange · 02/01/2026 13:09

DP's brother is my brother-in-law. So what is DP's brother's wife? Is she my sister-in-law, my sister-in-law-in-law, or just Carol?

(Relatedly: Friends of ours who are not married told us they were going for Xmas to her parents, aka "The outlaws". Maybe everyone says that but I hadn't heard of it, and I found it quite amusing.)

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Crunchymum · 02/01/2026 13:10

She's your SIL.

Your in-laws spouse is also your in-law.

mbosnz · 02/01/2026 13:11

My fellow brother in law, who married my husband's sister, and I, we called ourselves the outlaws. God knows we never really felt a part of the family!

LetThemFume · 02/01/2026 13:11

Sister-in-law.

ShesTheAlbatross · 02/01/2026 13:11

I just call her my sister in law.

merryhouse · 02/01/2026 13:14

so is your husband's brother's wife's sister's husband's sister's husband's sister also your sister-in-law?😄

(they don't have this problem in China...)

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