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Can you sum up in one sentence why you vote the way you do?

174 replies

CurlewKate · 01/01/2026 09:10

I’ve been thinking about why, I am, and always will be a Labour voter, despite being angered and frustrated by some of their decisions. It’s because I believe that “the circumstances of your birth should not dictate the outcome of your life” And that seems to me to be fundamental to Labour philosophy in a way it isn’t to any other party.

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Teddleshon1 · 02/01/2026 16:32

I find the OP’s contention that the circumstances of your birth shouldn’t determine the outcome of your life puzzling. For good or bad it is inevitable that to a varying degree the family and circumstances you are born into will shape your life. Isn’t that why so many of us strive to provide a stable and loving home for our children and educate them to be good and responsible citizens? This in turn is quite obviously benefits everyone.

Isn’t it obvious that we should encourage and motivate everyone to take decisions that are in the long term interests of their offspring. This means a focus on personal responsibility and self discipline.

To live in a society where your upbringing has no impact on the outcomes of your life would necessitate a horrible degree of government overreach.

HelpMeGetThrough · 02/01/2026 17:20

I just like to go to the Polling and nick the pencils.

macshoto · 02/01/2026 18:13

Generally vote for the least-worst option at each election, and on the rare occasions when my vote makes a difference under FPTP (which isn’t very often, as I have mainly lived in safe Labour or Conservative seats - with majorities of 20k+) I have voted tactically to try and achieve the least-worst governing party.

Socially-liberal, free-market, EU supporting, pro-NHS, small/efficient government, etc.

Playingvideogames · 02/01/2026 18:15

It’s better for 95% of people to have a happy life and 5% to have an unhappy life, than it is for everyone to live a life which is somewhere in the middle.

HelpMeGetThrough · 02/01/2026 18:16

HelpMeGetThrough · 02/01/2026 17:20

I just like to go to the Polling and nick the pencils.

Polling Station that should say.

Whoneedsanamesuggestion · 02/01/2026 18:16

I don't always vote for the same party!

There you go - one sentence

Windthebloodybobbinup · 02/01/2026 18:17

Im more concerned with what people need than judging what they deserve.

MrDobbs · 02/01/2026 18:20

Life's never going to be fair but we should try our best to make it fairer.

Sherbs12 · 02/01/2026 18:31

Teddleshon1 · 02/01/2026 16:32

I find the OP’s contention that the circumstances of your birth shouldn’t determine the outcome of your life puzzling. For good or bad it is inevitable that to a varying degree the family and circumstances you are born into will shape your life. Isn’t that why so many of us strive to provide a stable and loving home for our children and educate them to be good and responsible citizens? This in turn is quite obviously benefits everyone.

Isn’t it obvious that we should encourage and motivate everyone to take decisions that are in the long term interests of their offspring. This means a focus on personal responsibility and self discipline.

To live in a society where your upbringing has no impact on the outcomes of your life would necessitate a horrible degree of government overreach.

So how do we ensure personal responsibility and self discipline? What does that look like in reality? More education, or tougher punishments? (Which would both be state interventions).

I take your point and in an ideal world all the things you say should be happening, but that isn’t the reality for many reasons and factors - not all of them due to a lack of responsibility or discipline, might I add. Whatever parents do or don’t do, it’s never the responsibility of the children. Ensuring vulnerable children are well fed, in stable housing and receiving a sound education improves their life chances considerably, and that benefits us all in the long-term.

Surely, we have a social responsibility to help children in need, whatever their circumstances?

Arlanymor · 02/01/2026 18:33

Because the main parties in Westminster couldn’t give a shit about Wales. (I don’t vote turquoise by the way).

babadook1 · 02/01/2026 18:52

I vote for whichever party provides more support for vulnerable people, and also takes climate change seriously. In the past that was Labour, but I’m wavering towards Green. I would vote Tory/Reform over my dead body.

Teddleshon1 · 02/01/2026 19:34

@Sherbs12 I agree of course that the state needs to be there as a support if children are at risk but the primary responsibility should lie with parents IMO.

CurlewKate · 02/01/2026 22:46

HelpMeGetThrough · 02/01/2026 17:20

I just like to go to the Polling and nick the pencils.

You could just go to Argos.

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Blogswife · 02/01/2026 22:57

I agree with what you say. I am a socialist and at the moment Labour best represents what I stand for . The current government frustrates me with its U turns and reluctance to target the wealthy but I support their policies and principles, compassion and support for the most disadvantaged in our society

Playingvideogames · 02/01/2026 23:00

babadook1 · 02/01/2026 18:52

I vote for whichever party provides more support for vulnerable people, and also takes climate change seriously. In the past that was Labour, but I’m wavering towards Green. I would vote Tory/Reform over my dead body.

Which vulnerable people? More people seem
vulnerable now than not

MayaPinion · 02/01/2026 23:01

ArseInTheCoOpWindow · 01/01/2026 11:33

I always vote for the same party as their values consistently align with mine.

I despise floating voters. No depth, no real
solidity about values

Though they are more likely to do their research and apply critical thinking skills. Where I live, you could stick a blue rosette on a baboon and it would get elected.

HelpMeGetThrough · 02/01/2026 23:09

CurlewKate · 02/01/2026 22:46

You could just go to Argos.

Not been the same since Sainsbury’s took them over.

CookingFatCat · 02/01/2026 23:23

We should all have equal chances no matter where we came from.

Cornishclio · 03/01/2026 00:12

Not really as I am not loyal to any political party. I am running out of options though as I am not convinced any of them are capable of running a government.

Giraffehaver · 03/01/2026 00:58

I will always vote for the candidate whose party seem to do the most for disadvantaged people

Teddleshon1 · 03/01/2026 08:38

CookingFatCat · 02/01/2026 23:23

We should all have equal chances no matter where we came from.

The country closest to achieving that is North Korea.

EasternStandard · 03/01/2026 08:43

ArseInTheCoOpWindow · 01/01/2026 11:33

I always vote for the same party as their values consistently align with mine.

I despise floating voters. No depth, no real
solidity about values

Despising people who don’t vote as you do is odd. There’s always someone who will return the favour.

Teddleshon1 · 03/01/2026 08:49

Bizarre to despise a floating voter; the Greens and Labour of today and to a large extent the Tories bear limited resemblance to their former iterations.

Stopbringingmicehome · 03/01/2026 08:51

Women's rights that don't include men however they identify

KingJanie · 03/01/2026 08:52

Reality based common sense not naive ideology.

Politicians are bureaucrats with minimal abilities to solve individuals problems not a higher caste with abilities or solutions to solve the problems of humanity.

Basing your morality on politics and who you vote is a fools road to hell.