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Time - "the back of xx o clock"

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Hungrycaterpillarsmummy · 31/12/2025 10:45

This is just my thoughts spilling out but my husband just said to me "I've told your dad I'll be round at the back of 11" and i'm like so is that 5 past 11 or 5 to 12? And he laughed because he has definitely explained it to me before and I just can't wrap my head around it.
The back of something, to me, sounds like it would be the end. So I imagine it to be closer to 12.
I know I am wrong. But the saying is bullshit.
There. I said it.

OP posts:
Tiredofwhataboutery · 31/12/2025 14:34

Judystilldreamsofhorses · 31/12/2025 10:49

Also Scottish. The back of 11 to me would be between 11 and quarter past, definitely no later than half past.

Same to me, also Scottish.

qwertyskoo · 31/12/2025 14:35

cardibach · 31/12/2025 13:28

It is a word. I’m not Scottish, have never lived there and wasn’t aware it was considered Scottish dialect. It’s a perfectly normal (if perhaps a little old fashioned) word to me.

Me too, it's not a word used that often, and usually only in formal contexts, but no one has ever batted an eyelid when I've used it or heard it used here in the home counties.

Imlyingandthatsthetruth · 31/12/2025 14:45

Oh, minor derail, but as we're talking about clocks, my grandmother would always say "its five and twenty past" for twenty five past the hour. This was in the sixties and she would have been in her late sixties, in the west country. Never heard anyone else say the time in this way. Anyone else come across this?

itsthetea · 31/12/2025 15:08

Just checked the family and the southerners didn’t know what back of 11 meant

five and twenty - I only remember that because it lines up with the German

Nucleus · 31/12/2025 15:19

My dad used to use 5 and 20 and similar. I assumed it was a hang up from pre-decimalisation and him having grown up with shillings and sixpence type terminology.

Differentforgirls · 31/12/2025 15:20

GardyLou · 31/12/2025 10:48

How rude, it is a scottish thing, not bullshit.

It would be after 11, before 20 past.

But could be half past?

Differentforgirls · 31/12/2025 15:27

Changingplace · 31/12/2025 11:05

More patronising to be laughed at by someone over not knowing a saying.

God Almighty, they are partners!

Differentforgirls · 31/12/2025 15:30

GardyLou · 31/12/2025 11:08

Next up:

People telling us that 'outwith' is a bullshit word.

[folds arms]

I love outwith and "sederunt".

HoppityBun · 31/12/2025 15:33

Nucleus · 31/12/2025 15:19

My dad used to use 5 and 20 and similar. I assumed it was a hang up from pre-decimalisation and him having grown up with shillings and sixpence type terminology.

Nothing to do with £sd. It’s an old fashioned way of counting, similar to the way numbers are said in German.

Nucleus · 31/12/2025 15:45

HoppityBun · 31/12/2025 15:33

Nothing to do with £sd. It’s an old fashioned way of counting, similar to the way numbers are said in German.

Same principal though. Old fashioned.

boringingoring · 31/12/2025 15:46

ClariceStarlingsDuffleCoat · 31/12/2025 12:47

My 11 year old keeps asking me what's happening overmorrow, which apparently means the day after tomorrow. It's not a word I've ever heard before.

In German 'the day after tomorrow' is 'übermorgen'. Perhaps your 11yo is secretly German?

boringingoring · 31/12/2025 15:47

And my grandparents (in their sixties in the 1980s) said 'five-and-twenty past five'. Londoners as far back as anyone knows.

CurlewKate · 31/12/2025 15:49

Not Scottish-but widely read. Between 11 and 11.15 ish.

CurlewKate · 31/12/2025 15:51

I love “outwith”. Also, I was a student in Scotland in the dim and distant days when we got grants-and we were given a time to “uplift your cheque”

RaraRachael · 31/12/2025 16:09

There's also some disagreement on what "half eleven" means. My English BiL says it means half past eleven but my mother used to say it means half past ten ie half way to eleven.

Usernamenotfound1 · 31/12/2025 18:20

Nucleus · 31/12/2025 13:12

Thank you. Thank you. Thank you.

I was a student in Scotland, but born and brought up in the Home Counties.

I can't abide nearside/offside because they make no sense. And however many times anyone has said 'back of' means after the hour, it makes no sense either. To my way of thinking 'back of' is the hour hand coming up from behind towards the top of the hour. It is utterly illogical for it to mean after the hour.

This thread has helped me understand why everyone in my social/work circle look at my as if I have a second head when I say 'outwith'. I have used it all my adult life and had no clue it was a word I had picked up north of the border!

Nearside and offside makes perfect sense. It stems from horses and the days of carriages.

“near” side is the left. It’s the side you get on the horse, that the horse should be approached from. The nears side of the horse/carriage is the left- that nearest the curb.

we’ve just lost the origin of the word somewhat.

Jadedpersuaded · 31/12/2025 18:27

With a user name like that, might you care to verify that the phrase shit-faced is linked to those who may not have heard the warning shout of 'garde a l'eau'??😉

ShowOfHands · 31/12/2025 19:29

Usernamenotfound1 · 31/12/2025 18:20

Nearside and offside makes perfect sense. It stems from horses and the days of carriages.

“near” side is the left. It’s the side you get on the horse, that the horse should be approached from. The nears side of the horse/carriage is the left- that nearest the curb.

we’ve just lost the origin of the word somewhat.

I drive a Vauxhall Mokka. I don't mount it from the left. The side near me, where I get in, is the right.

It only "makes perfect sense" if you have a context, as I said in my original post. No horse = no context.

BigAnne · 31/12/2025 19:36

The back of means shortly after.

cardibach · 31/12/2025 19:47

RaraRachael · 31/12/2025 16:09

There's also some disagreement on what "half eleven" means. My English BiL says it means half past eleven but my mother used to say it means half past ten ie half way to eleven.

I’ve never known anyone mean anything but half past eleven when they say half eleven

soundsys · 31/12/2025 19:48

Judystilldreamsofhorses · 31/12/2025 10:49

Also Scottish. The back of 11 to me would be between 11 and quarter past, definitely no later than half past.

Exactly this!

Nucleus · 31/12/2025 20:11

RaraRachael · 31/12/2025 16:09

There's also some disagreement on what "half eleven" means. My English BiL says it means half past eleven but my mother used to say it means half past ten ie half way to eleven.

This is another German thing isn't it? They don't say half past, rather half to the next hour.

To me, half eleven is half past eleven.
To a German 'halb zwölf' (halfway to 12) would be the same time, but if you said 'halb elf', it would be half past 10.
Always make sure you are very clear on what you mean when arranging to meet up with a German (or your mum!)

Nucleus · 31/12/2025 20:12

ShowOfHands · 31/12/2025 19:29

I drive a Vauxhall Mokka. I don't mount it from the left. The side near me, where I get in, is the right.

It only "makes perfect sense" if you have a context, as I said in my original post. No horse = no context.

Likewise. Except it isn't a Vauxhall Mokka I am mounting!

boulevardofbrokendreamss · 31/12/2025 20:28

Never heard it before but I’d assume five or ten to 11

sittingonabeach · 31/12/2025 20:35

The poster who said to look at a clock face confuses me as ‘back of’ would signify before 11 as it is behind the 11!

Although it would seem quite a few Scottish people can’t actually agree what period of time it does relate to!

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