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Time - "the back of xx o clock"

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Hungrycaterpillarsmummy · 31/12/2025 10:45

This is just my thoughts spilling out but my husband just said to me "I've told your dad I'll be round at the back of 11" and i'm like so is that 5 past 11 or 5 to 12? And he laughed because he has definitely explained it to me before and I just can't wrap my head around it.
The back of something, to me, sounds like it would be the end. So I imagine it to be closer to 12.
I know I am wrong. But the saying is bullshit.
There. I said it.

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Randomchat · 31/12/2025 11:21

l like learning different regional expression. Most are great. Yorkshire uses “8 while 10”. Perfectly understandable.

I have no idea what this means but I'd like to learn.

I agree "back of 3" is somewhere after 3 but before maybe 3.20.

And I was amazed to move to London for work and be told "outwith" is not a word and shouldn't be used in work documents. I've persevered now and it gives me great pleasure every time I spot a non-Scottish colleague using it.

Scots taking over the world one word at a time.

Teathecolourofcreosote · 31/12/2025 11:22

'The back of' I had no trouble with. 'The morn's morn' on the other hand confused the hell out of me when I first moved up.

Randomchat · 31/12/2025 11:24

Teathecolourofcreosote · 31/12/2025 11:22

'The back of' I had no trouble with. 'The morn's morn' on the other hand confused the hell out of me when I first moved up.

Tomorrow morning. I love language when it just says what it means without any concern for grammar or correctness

ThirdStorm · 31/12/2025 11:26

Glad I know what it means now. I live in the south so probably explains why I’ve not heard it before.

JustPlainStanfreyPock · 31/12/2025 11:28

Discovered this expression when I moved to Scotland 30 odd years ago, it's really useful!
Meaning shortly after a given time and definitely no earlier.

Clefable · 31/12/2025 11:28

My mum used to always say ‘See you in the morn’s morn’ at bedtime when I was a kid!

I had to explain ‘the back of’ to my English DH when we first got together, but he gets it now, although has yet to use it himself. One day!

Hungrycaterpillarsmummy · 31/12/2025 11:29

GardyLou · 31/12/2025 10:48

How rude, it is a scottish thing, not bullshit.

It would be after 11, before 20 past.

I AM SCOTTISH

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Fifthtimelucky · 31/12/2025 11:31

I am English and until today had never heard of “the back of” or indeed “10 while 11”.

I’m very comfortable with “outwith” though don’t use it myself.

I don’t think I’ve ever heard anyone say “forenoon” though I have certainly read it (I have a feeling Jane Austen might use it, though I might be wrong about that) and it’s pretty obvious what it means!

Hungrycaterpillarsmummy · 31/12/2025 11:32

Oh man, I've read more comments. Maybe I should have started with the fact I am Scottish and it's a really common thing to say but it just messes with my mind :D
Lang may yer lum reek abody.

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Hungrycaterpillarsmummy · 31/12/2025 11:34

Clefable · 31/12/2025 11:28

My mum used to always say ‘See you in the morn’s morn’ at bedtime when I was a kid!

I had to explain ‘the back of’ to my English DH when we first got together, but he gets it now, although has yet to use it himself. One day!

Yeh, I would never say it myself despite it being so common. Id just say "I'll be round just after 11"...

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Breathmiller · 31/12/2025 11:34

Breathmiller · 31/12/2025 11:15

Its only through mumsnet that "outwith" was not used outwith Scotland. Or that it was so contentious. Blew my wee tartan mind.

(See also...Santa, guising and the whole turnip/swede debate).

Sorry, I meant "its only in mn i found out..."

GardyLou · 31/12/2025 11:36
Sure Jan GIF

Next up in Things That Really Happened:

A Scottish person has to have a Scottish phrase explained to them.

Breathmiller · 31/12/2025 11:38

Hungrycaterpillarsmummy · 31/12/2025 11:32

Oh man, I've read more comments. Maybe I should have started with the fact I am Scottish and it's a really common thing to say but it just messes with my mind :D
Lang may yer lum reek abody.

This made me laugh. You are therefore forgiven . 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿 😅

AnonSugar · 31/12/2025 11:39

I’m Scottish. It would be between 11 and 11.30 to me.

tigger1001 · 31/12/2025 11:41

GardyLou · 31/12/2025 11:36

Next up in Things That Really Happened:

A Scottish person has to have a Scottish phrase explained to them.

🤣🤣

and a Scottish person that describes an everyday Scottish saying as bullshit 🤣🤣

BlackCat14 · 31/12/2025 11:41

ArseSkinForAFriend · 31/12/2025 10:52

Some Northern friends of mine say "11 while 12", which means between 11 and 12.

It took me a while to understand it.

I was comIng here to say this too! I moved to Manchester a couple of years ago and recall the first time someone said to me “10 while 11” and I was so confused!

Grumblies · 31/12/2025 11:41

GardyLou · 31/12/2025 11:36

Next up in Things That Really Happened:

A Scottish person has to have a Scottish phrase explained to them.

Not sure why you find that so unbelievable?

Have you seen the amount of people who don't comprehend the difference between their, there and they're, you're and your or brought and bought?

I suspect they too have had them explained many times but that doesn't necessarily mean they retain the information.

BillieWiper · 31/12/2025 11:44

Yeah I'd assume it mean close enough to 11, like saying 'around 11'. So anything up to about twenty past? Maybe half past latest?

I've no heard it before though.

Hungrycaterpillarsmummy · 31/12/2025 11:45

tigger1001 · 31/12/2025 11:41

🤣🤣

and a Scottish person that describes an everyday Scottish saying as bullshit 🤣🤣

Imagine that. The thing is the first few posts show that the meaning is really ambiguous. Some people thing not past quarter past, some people think no later than half past etc etc.
And that is why I never get my head around it.

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Hungrycaterpillarsmummy · 31/12/2025 11:46

Like I have a vision of it in my head that the front of 11 is 11 o clock and the back would then be nearer 12.

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GooseyGandalf · 31/12/2025 11:46

It’s rather charming to picture the hour hand of a clock coming towards the hour, then passing around the back of it. A wily battle manoeuvre.

FutureMandosWife · 31/12/2025 11:46

Might be a Scottish thing what about 'ish' example I will get you at 11ish.

Hungrycaterpillarsmummy · 31/12/2025 11:47

Breathmiller · 31/12/2025 11:38

This made me laugh. You are therefore forgiven . 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿 😅

Thank you :D

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Hungrycaterpillarsmummy · 31/12/2025 11:47

FutureMandosWife · 31/12/2025 11:46

Might be a Scottish thing what about 'ish' example I will get you at 11ish.

Now I DO say that a lot!

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AgapanthusPink · 31/12/2025 11:51

😂😂😂I’’ve never heard the phrase but I would have thought before 11. In effect behind ( the back of 11?) so before it? I am clearly from reading this on my own in that thinking.

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