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M5way · 21/12/2025 08:14

Hi,

I hold power of attorney for my mum. She’s not able to make decisions regarding finances now. She’s very comfortable financially.

I urgently need £1000 to fix my roof. Would it be awful if I borrowed it from mum, and then paid it back over 4 months. Mum would 100% have said yes if she was able to.

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Needtosoundoffandbreathe · 21/12/2025 08:33

Yes because it could be seen as financial abuse. Your mum doesn't have capacity. If it's £1000 and you can pay it back over 4 months could you use a credit card or get a bank loan instead? I had the money in my account within 5 minutes of applying on the bank's app last time I got a loan.

Pedallleur · 21/12/2025 08:37

Just don't do it. It's not a pot of money to dip in/out of. You know that. Your mum would have said yes but she is not in a position to and you are her guardian now. Get an interest free credit card instead

Sirzy · 21/12/2025 08:38

As much as you may believe that she would have given you the money she can’t now so yes taking her funds for personal use would be a misuse of the funds.

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M5way · 21/12/2025 08:41

I can’t get any credit as I have a cifcas marker following being a victim of fraud.

I know it’s technically wrong but if I can show I’ve paid it back quickly would it be a big deal?

OP posts:
BCBird · 21/12/2025 08:43

This would not be ethical. Ask someone you know if u can pay in installments .

grizzlyoldbear · 21/12/2025 08:44

Get cash out your credit card?

LottieMary · 21/12/2025 08:45

No - it’s not ok and once you’ve done it you e broken a mental barrier which makes it much easier to do again.

M5way · 21/12/2025 08:45

grizzlyoldbear · 21/12/2025 08:44

Get cash out your credit card?

I don’t have one

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OnlyMabelInTheBuilding · 21/12/2025 08:46

No, you can’t do this.

MrsMoastyToasty · 21/12/2025 08:49

Claim on your building insurance.

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