Where can I find casual sex as a woman?

[Brownwithcameltotes]

I don’t mind the idea of having a nosey on Bumble/Hinge etc but, I really don’t want my pictures out there as I don’t want people who may know me to know I’m on there! I really like how I look so it isn’t that.

What can I do? I am 28. Divorced 18 months ago. Thought I had a spark with an old flame I was messaging but he takes hours to reply so it’s probably a no. Wish I could ask, ‘look, let’s go for a drink at x a place and shag’

Most friends are knees deep in nappies or children. And not willing to go out ’about town’

I really, really need chemistry before sex. But I also have a specific type

Feeld!

I think it depends on what kind of bloke you want to shag though.

At 23 and on the pull, I certainly wasn't inundated with offers by men i actually wanted to shag. I was pretty enough, with a corking slim hourglass figure. My waist was tiny. I did, however, wear glasses, was confident and was taller than many men.

Literally anywhere

Literally anywhere

Ooh that was in 2023 I think

Wow. I must be bloody ugly. I havent been proposition in 20 odd years. I dont even wear my wedding ring.

I don't get approached when out either. Not sure why, but I'm not bothered by it.
I have a long term casual partner from tinder, it works well for both of us.

~Ask one of your male colleagues for sex - i'm sure they'd be happy to oblige.

Never get your honey where you make your money.

Maybe I've been reading too much fantasy / pirate smut, but being propositioned by hulking vikings as I float around in a flowing dress sounds fantastic. Sign me up.

I'm feeling like I'm either really stupid or really ugly based on this thread 😄 I don't have any idea how I'd go about picking someone up tbh, and that's after having been married for 15 years (now separated). I don't think any men have shown interest in me in the last 4 years at least (the last one was at the pub when I turned 40 and was a lot thinner). I'm not even sure how I'd know if they were interested, and then there's the issue of how to work out if they have any obvious red flags (I am apparently terrible at spotting those too).

Maybe I just am safer at home with the cat 😄

Facebook dating. 🤷🏼‍♀️ I'm getting quite a few hook ups through there. Also Badoo 🫣

• skips off to name change in case anyone recognises me 😬🫣🤣

Just go on the dating apps, everyone is on them and won’t care if they see you. Tinder is your best bet but any of them would be able to provide a shag.

Lets cut to the chase here.

How attractive are you and how much do you weigh? Your solution will depend partly on the answers to those questions.

Some people here are being thick. OP says she needs chemistry! The fact that a woman wants casual sex doesn’t mean she can or want to throw herself to a random in her messages or to a dangerous park for a hook up. Honestly 🙄

As a 28 year old woman? Literally anywhere. Work, the pub, the supermarket, trying to park your car in a very tight space…….
As someone with significantly more miles on the clock, I will say though that most of that sex will be….shit. Men who only want casual sex generally are crap at it ime.
If you want casual, better to find a FWB who you actually like as a person and who actually cares if you enjoy it too…..They can also be found at work, at the pub and at the supermarket. You just need it be clear about what you want.

trying to park your car in a very tight space…….

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